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ok soo..
For the past 3 years, ive met 3 guys.
We would get really close and they'd call me all the time, IM me all the time, and wanna hangout all the time and stuff.
They would flirt with me on the phone , like CRAZY!
So i thought they liked me so i would flirt back
[becuase i liked them]
then when people asked them if they liked me , they said no and they said that i was " too good of a friend"
I dont get it!
Whats the problem here?
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Some possible things are:
They just like to flirt but nothing more serious
They are afraid to say that they do like you
They really only do think of you as a friend.
Guys are so blinde when it comes to girls flirting with them. They might just see your flirting as friendly gestures and what not. You've stepped into the FRIEND ZONE. eek. not the best zone to be stuck in with your crush.
So the next time you like a guy, play a little hard to get. Don't be their best pals. Flirt with them from the start but don't come on too strongly.
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Well thats tough but I would have to say that maybe you thought they were flirting but that is the way they act to their friends. Also sometimes guys like a girl sooo much that they get way to close and are afriad if you go out it will ruin your friendship because if you break up then what?
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Well. They may feel that you guys have gotten too close in a friend aspect and they dont want to jeopradize that by dating you. I would suggest just keeping them as friends, because if a guy cares too much about you to ruin the friendship by dating, hes a really good friend and someone to keep around for a long time. Theres nothing wrong with you or anything, they just cherish being your friend and dont want anything to happen to take that away. As for the "flirting", maybe its just friendly gestures and you're taking it the wrong way? I'd just have fun with being their friend and casually throwing in something flirtacious every once and a while. Run with the friendship thing and see where it goes. They might change their mind down the road, you never know.
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