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I'm 13 and my bf is 16 turning 17!!! Me and him have been dating 5 months!!! And we had oral sex, but not the real thing should I have sex with him!!! Me and him have talked about condoms and birth control!!! We've also talked about what would happen if I got pregnet!!! I love him more than anything!!! So should I have sex with him???
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Well. I cant answer that, only you can. Make sure you know all the risks and possible consequences. Birth control isnt 100% effective and neither are condoms. My mom got pregnant twice when she was on the strongest form of birth control. She also got pregnant with me, when she wasnt even ovulating, cause she hadnt gotten her period in months, then found out she was pregnant with me. I think you're fairly young to be having sex, but its ultimately your decision, not mine. Just make sure you know that nothing is 100% effective as abstinance. & Also, you've only been dating him for 5 months, do you think you two are going to be together forever? Guys will say anything to get in your pants, so dont be so quick to believe everything he says. I lost it to my boyfriend last Nov., when I was 16 & I regret it more than anything. We were dating for 2 weeks, and ended up staying together only 6 months, and he was cheating on me with alot of other people. I thought I loved him, but I didnt & now I'm completely truly in love with someone for the first time and I wish so much that I could take back what I did with the other guy, so I could experiance the first time with the guy I'm with now. If you're okay with losing it to someone and breaking up with them, then I'd say do it, but just make sure you weigh all the options. Sex isnt always the answer. There's so much more that you could do. Good luck with whatever you decide. :) Its a big step.
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