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Hi! I'm Jeremy and this is my advice column. I am 13 years old and in the 8th grade. I love my girlfriend kristen (mypainisreal) more than anything in the world. Don't let the screename or the whole colors on here be scary for you! I have been through a lot...such as depression...and some of love stuff! So please ask me things and i will answer you to the best of my capability! I think giving advice is fun. I'm not the best but I sure will try to help you. Ask anything don't be afraid!Thanks for coming to check my column!
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What is the right way to tell someone that you dont like them?
Well just say like your bothering me. Or dont even tell them..liek when they talk to you just walk away or just say i dont know and stare tat the floor. Sooner or later they'll get the picture.
how on gods green earth do you kiss??? some instructions wher to put my hands, and what to do with my tounge would help!! hurry i have a date in 2 hours
Okay well the first thing. There is no right way to kiss. We all kiss differently. A good place to put your hands is like on his/her waist or on there chin..cheeks...around there necks. If your serious and want to try frenching then you just caress your partners tounge with yours. Hope i helped
okay well theres this kid and i known him for 2 years but we didnt know eachother 2 years ago because we didn't have the same classes but he always caught my eye,he was cute!! n then in 7th grade we became good friends and he was one of my locker buddies :-d!! anyways the year went by really fast n it was a funn year because me and him got close and i asked him out but he said no n he just wanted to be friends..i got a little upset b.c it really seemed like he liked me but anyhow this year we don't have any classes together but we still hang out n he flirts w. me alot like we have sports studyhall and we chill there until practice starts and me n him click very well together and i kept takin his hat n wudnt give it bak so he'd hold my hand n not let go... i really want to be more than friends w. him cuz he soo hott OMG lol yeah bomb diggity anyways how can i approach him? and how else should i flirt w. him then tryin to hold his hand...??
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Well i would just be like will you go out with me? Because i really like you and you always flirt with me so i feel like you like me. And if he says no then ask him why he flirts with you. And if you dont want to do that then i would just be REALLY good friends with him...thats what happened with me and my g/f..i just was there for her when she needed me to be and like she saw that we could work out together. Hope i helped!
If anyone has any personal expiereinces with this, that be great!
Anyway, there's a few guys in my school who i talk to and we're regular friends. But, they sometimes say things to me and i dont know how to respond. They say likie, "hey can I get with you?" "ooh ur so beautiful" and " i give you 9 out of 10" I want to flirt back, but i dont want to make a fool of myself. I know theyre kidding, and flirting, but how can i do the same without blushing, or saying something stupid?Because thats what i usually do. I just sit there and laugh. Does anyone have any lines or things to say back to them??
Well just joke around back. I have girls do this all the time. Like get close to mea dn like touch me. I just play along and they usually just laugh....both of us know were flirting but we make it look like were just joking.
I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 16 months and i truly believe that we are madly in love. I somewhat believe he is the one for me. He's a senior and will be graduating this year, I'm only a junior. I'm really scared of whats going to happen when he graduates. I've seen movies and shows where the couple breaks up because the one goes to college and never sees each other or whatever the deal is. He's not sure where he is going yet but i really hope it all works out. he mentioned something before like "if we're still going out next summer before i go away to college, i'll propose." It's scary how i feel like i could run away and get married with him right now. what do u think about this situation?
Yeah there are movies out there like that! And sometimes that happens...but if you two love each other enough it will work out..If you are truly meant to be..Love can conquer anything! And if you scared about the college thing then ask him if maybe he could wait a year and go to college when you are out of school. That way you can move wherever hes going to college to and you'll still be together. Yeah at times the future can seem very scary...But don't give up and remind him every day that you love him and show him compassion and stuff and you'll both realize that you should be together and hopefully get married! I hope things work out for you!
Ok, I'm 14/f
And there is this guy at my church. He is soo funny and he's a really good Christian, which is very important for me, and he has an awesome personality and is very fun to be around. The only problem is, he is really small. He is like 1/2 a foot shorter than me and weighs about 30 lbs less. Beside all this, I really like him a lot because of the inside, which is really what counts, but I'm afraid of what my friends would say if we dated. Because well, I've been known for going for the good-looking guys. So what should I do?
You should try and see if it works with him!! Height desnt matter! In our society the average look for couples is the guy is taller than the gurl! But thats stupid! if you like it try it out! true love can triumph anything!!!
ok me and my gf r goin on 3 months........thas my longest relationship and shes the first person ive eva said i love u to and.....she talks bout her ex bf ALOT it seems like every convo we have is bout him.....and then when we r around each other she neva wants to get close i have to sit next to her and kiss her and stuff like tha.......n e ways this had happened a couple times and i need sum opinions......should i break up w/ her or wait it out and see wut happens.....i dont know wut to do...i still love her but it hurts when she talks bout her ex and ive asked her to stop but she doesnt.....n e ones opinion helps.......thanx
This happened to me! See my girlfreind talked about her ex ALOT! But see the thing is that your g/f probably was in love with her ex...and its really hard to get over loving someone! She might not want to get close to you because she is shy....this happens a lot! So dont take that to heart...it doesnt mean anything! So if it really bothers you that much ask her about it...just say you know you talk about him alot...why? because it really bothers me! and then just talk it out....but dont end the relationship! If you love her you cant just throw it away like that! Hope i helped
Every day i go to school and i see all these couples walking around together. I'm really jealous because i want to be one of those guys that other people look at walking with their g/fs. The only problem is that there is nobody at my school that i can see myself goin out with right now. What can i do? (I'm a freshman)
Well I've had that feeling! You feel like I want a serious relationship but I can't see myself with these people! But just get to know some girls! Thats what happened to me. You never really know if your compatable with someone untill you REALLY know them! So just give it time! And don't give up! Your dream girls out there!
Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?
No!!! Not at all dude!! Im 13 and i havent! Its probably just that you havent found her yet! The one that you want to kiss! Or it might mean that you are ready for a serious relationship and that you arent going to start kissing and more untill you love your partner!
I met a great guy. He is so sweet and made me smile everytime he said something...but there is always a catch isn't there!! A few days later he told me he liked this girl as if he had NO CLUE I liked him..sooo..what's the deal here? Should I just lay off and not talk to him now that he is with this girl?
No! Don't stop liking him! I think you should get to know him more and you should become his best-freind! Then if he does go out with this girl then you'll be there when he needs a shoulder to cry on...when he needs someone to talk to...and when he just needs a freind! Then if they do break up you'll be there to support him and eventuallly he'll realize your great! So just keep your head up!