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ok so i went out with this kid Sean, and things started to get weird so i broke up with him, then i was starting to think of asking him back out but i thought he liked this girl Sarah, who i happen to hate, and he said he didnt but the next day when i was going to ask him out he was going out with her .. what should i do?

Well since you did break up with him and him being with another girl now and all i would just wait it out and see what happens.In the meantime get out there and meet new people and go out with friends that will help.And just maybe you will meet someone else that you will like better!
~*~Nicole~*~

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For as long as i can remember ive been attracted more to guys that are older than me...not like wayyyy older but like 2-4 years..is that weird? i flirt with a lot of guys my age but i dont like having relationships with em...im not gonna stop i just wanna hear what other people got to say...thanks.

No its not weird at all.Usually Most girls i know date guys that are a couple of years older than them because they are more fun to be around and a lil more mature and girls like that.I*ve done the say thing and im with my guy for 2 years now and hes 3 years older than me.So dont worry hun its perfectly normal.:-)Hope I*ve helped
~*~Nicole~*~

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my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????

You should tell him hun.Because if you dont tell him someone else will and that will just make things worse than they already are.Telling the truth is always good to do rather than keeping it from him and having it come from someone else.Hope things work out with you two.Good luck!

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my b/f goes to NH every weekend and has a lot of friends up there .. a lot of them are girls .. i am obviously wicked jealous because he is seriouisly very cute/hott.. so girls would like him.. anyways, some girl keeps callin me from his phone and asking for me then hanging up.. she did it yesterday and at 9 in the morning today .. its really pissing me off - what should i say to him when he gets back!? HELP! i dont wanna come off like a bitch but i want him to know that im not takin his shit anymore and he cant just walk all over me like that ..sry its long

That is really messed up that girls are even useing your boyfriends phone and calling you!I would def.Not take that shit.Talk to him about it and tell him its one thing to have girls as friends but it is another to be having them call you from his phone hanging up like they are.If he gets mad about it oh well he should respect you and not walk all over you like that.Let him know that your not the type that is going to let him do that stuff to you.Hope things work out and i hope i helped a lil bit.Good luck!:-)

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Ok well I have this boyfriend and he doesnt go to my school or anything. I meet him through my friend from soccer camp. We started talking online and then a while later we started going out. Later he broke up with me saying that he disn't think things were going to work out because we still hadn't seen each other. Now a year later, we still haven't seen each other but we are going out again. I am thinking that now I don't want to go out with him until I see him and stuff. How should I tell him this without hurting him too much? (I have never broken up with anybody before) please help soon!!! Thanx and I'll rate you!

Try telling him that you really like him alot but you dont want to make it official yet until you meet eachother and get to know one another in person!He should understand.I hope that helped.And good luck hun :-)

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hey im 16 my bf and i have a long distance relationship he broke up with me and my feelings for him r still really strong. when he broke up with me he said that there could be a "us" again and i was all like ok whatever. but i was thinkin bout it do u think he is just using me?? also i kinda wanna get over him so how do i do that?? please help thanks

Hun dont waste your time on this guy.I have heard that most long distance relationships dont work out.A good way to get over him is to go out with friends and meet new guys that always worked for me!Trust me you will realize your alot happier without this guy and that being with someone you can actually see and spend time with is alot better!:-)Hope i helped!

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im a 15 year old guy. since i was 7 i wanted a serious relationship where id meet a girl in high school and marry her. now im in high school. i met a girl. and id love to marry her. but she doesnt like to think about commiting. i dont know what to do about. how to approach it. i wanna know if it can work between us, i wanna know if she could love me like i love her, eventally to the point where id be with her forever...

Your only 15..I dont blame her for not wanting to commit like that you guys are way too young.You have got plenty of time for that stuff.So Enjoy being young and having fun while you can..Trust me it goes fast!So dont rush into stuff like that because you will learn that it would be a huge mistake in your life!

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ok i have a long distance g/f im talkin outastate ne way i call her alota and she means the world to me i could go on and on about her but there is 1 prob i have only seen 1 pic of her and im not even sure thats her and i prob wont ever see her in person what do i do???

plz get back to me

Well alot of people do lie over the internet.And if you think you wont ever see her in person and arent talking about it or planning on it why be together?If you really love this girl like you say you do well then talk to her about meeting each other!Well hope everything works out and hope ive helped.:-)

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can you answer these: 1. whats cyber sex and what do you say during it? do? 2. whats oral sex? is it just talking? what do u say?

Well...Cyber Sex is where you have sex over the computer which i think is pretty stupid.Ive never done it before because i think its worthless..why would you want to have sex over the computer..go out and find someone real to have sex with ;-).And Oral sex hun is when you use your mouth Like bj's and Getting Eaten out down there yah.Need anything else..let me know :-)

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i dont know what to do anymore. my ex boyfriend mike and i were perfect for eachother. we were from different towns but i went to his house and hung out or we went some where else. anywayz we went out for 9 mounth but like every once in a while we broke up and got back together agian. then he dumped me and went out with someone else and they went to second base in 2 days! and i went to 1st with him and we went out 9 mouths. and then he dumped her after 2 mounths because he said he still loved me. so i went out with him for about a mounth and then he broke up with me for this other girl in his school and i was like crying for ever. and then after a week he asked me back out and he was still going out with that other girl (but i didnt know) and we went out for like 4 days and he cut me because "his parents said he had to" which was a lie.. i tried to OD and i was in the hostipal for over 2 weeks for it, and everyone knew about it and as soon as i got out he called me and said he loved me.. i just broke down crying because i still loved him. and he asked me back out and i was soo week i said yes and we went out for like 2 weeks untill i found out he was cheating on me agian so i broke up with him and i havent been out with him since. then like last week he called me and was like talking to me and i told him to never call me agian because i was over him and then after i hung up i cried because i still love him but i cant call him cuz im not allowed to.. his parents would freak. (they think im crazy) and i dont know what to do. i love him but i hate him too. hes my first love. and i miss him. theres just so much pain inside of me im like crying. i miss him. i think im gonna kill myself. because i cant live without him. please help me over come this.

Hun..I have been in your situation before.My first love did the same exact thing that yours is doing to you.always an on off thing always getting cheated on and lied to.Its not fun.And no guy is worth hurting or trying to kill yourself.I felt the same way you did i wanted to just die.But i eventually got over it.And so can you!Try going out with your friends that helps.Start meeting new guys trust me there are alot more out there and you will find someone thats going to treat you better.Today i am now with this new guy for almost 2 years now and we are expecting a lil girl in Oct.Come on show this guy that your strong and dont need his ass!And whats funny is when your finally over him and finding new he will regret everything he ever did to you and want you back and it wont happen that time.So keep your head up girl and get out there and move on you can do it!So i hope ive helped.If you need anything else let me know!I def. know how your feeling right now!:-)

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this question is for my friend:

my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.

I dont think hes gay.Some guys are like that.He wants to show you that Your the only girl hes interested in.My guy that ive been with 2 years now also is like that so i wouldnt worry about it.Hope i helped and from the sound of it looks like you got yourself a good guy so enjoy it and i hope it lasts a long time.:-)

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i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\

Well I would go talk to your friend because you 2 shouldnt keep anything from eachother.If you really like this guy then you should tell your friend how you feel about him and that you liked him first she should understand if you didnt know she liked him.Best friends never let a guy come between them so dont let it happen with you and your friend.Its happened to me before and trust me i regreted it.So hope i helped.:-)

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well my bf started thinking all this bad stuff about our relationship just because his friend told him. like im sure he sorta felt it but his friend really brought it out. im really scared that once school starts and hes w/ his friend(s) more they will Really affect him up til the point that something bad happens. i think he really likes me or loves me but i donno i mean could he Love me if he lets his friends affect him?? i donno im scared. help

Sounds to me like your bf's friends dont like it when their buddy as a girlfriend and tries to mess it up.Ive been there before with the guy im with now for almost 2 years.what you need to do is talk to him and tell him how your feeling about what his friends are doing and that they are wrong.If he ends up going along with his friends in the long run then hes not worth it.Because if he loves you enough he will not listen to what his friends are telling him.Hope i helped and good luck with your guy.If you need anything else let me know~:-)
~*Nicole*~

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ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do??

Ok friends with benefits isnt cool.And if you are going to do stuff like that use some type of protection like a condom or some type of birth control!So go get checked out to see if you are pregnant or not.And if you are then its your choice what you want to do its your life not theirs!And if its a false alarm start being alot more careful trust me im 8 months pregnant right now with my boyfriend of 2 years and im only going to be 18.I dont regret this lil one but its not easy to go through it at such an early age.So good luck with whatever happens.And i hope i helped out.
~*Nicole*~

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