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hey heres a lil' bit about me
yew may wanna knoe!

!nIcK nAmE! Sammi

*AgE*13

!bIrThDaY! Oct.10,1991

*HeIgHt* about 5'2

!hAiR! DARK!brown

*LoCaTi0n* Florida!sunshine
state!

!sEx! thongs and bras!:-D

*SpOrT* soccer n skateboarding
with friends (not on a team!)

!b/F iNfO! taken by Matt!
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!sToRe! tha mall!!omg whut
kid muh age doesn't lyke tha
mall! i love pac*sun in tha
mall.. i hate stores lyke
aropastal n limited 2...
but i have alota friends
that shop there...

*PlAcE tO eAt* duno nemore

!hOlIdaY! holloween!its not
reallie a holiday tho
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!wHy I wAnNa HeLp YEW 0Ut!
i always hlep muh friends
out n now and then i'll
hear a thanx n that i help
them out alot when they
need it n all n that im
good at it... n i made this
to find out if i reallie
can help people.. so RATE
ME if yew think im worth
it! thanx!! *!SwEeTbAbI!*
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Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: middle school
Age: 13
AIM: GhettoSk8erBabi or DcLoSeRsOwHaT
Member Since: October 23, 2004
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Last Update: November 21, 2004
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ok well this ?????? really isnt for me its for my best friend but anywayz. he is having REALLY BIG Trouble wid his gurl friend like i think she is prude or sumthin b/c they have been going out for 6months & they havnt hugged,kissed,made out or anything yet & like today @ da movies he tried to hold her hand & kiss her but she pulled away & leaned away from him da WHOLE! MOVIE! u no the ironiclly thing is me & my g/f r totally fine l0l we r perfect for each otha but anywayz i need some advice to help my frined b/c hes thinkin bout breaking ^ wid her this is serious please help! i'll give u a 5!
sincerely ANTHONY me & my friend r both m/13!

i think he should talk to her and find out whuts up wif her... and if he still thinks about breaking ^ wif her then he should...

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How would be the best way to get trust as a Guy? Girls think all we want is ya know!!!! 17 male

talk to her...let her knoe yur there fer her and that yew care...and hang out...just be nice and sweet..and if it helps i dont only think guys want sex...

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is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone?

sometymes... it depends on if its safe friendly flirting wif friends... or flirting lyke yur going out wif them and reallie bad if yew dont knoe tha guy...

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I was thinking...do any of you agree with the saying, the right guy will come when you stop looking?

yes i deffinately agree

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Ok this is how it goes...This past friday night this girl, lets say her name is sarah invited me to her house.. I was wit 2 of my friends and we were only gunna go there for a couple minutes..While we were there me n sarah kissed and during us kissing she said she didnt want it to seem like she was leading me on and that we were friends with benifits..i dont really wanna b friends wit benifits and now in her info she has sumthin that says "crushing"...is that about me or about some one else...i asked her and she didnt tell me, idk if it was bc i was wit my friend or wat but i want answers..please help

um i think its about yew but keep asking her to find out

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well i've been dating this guy for almost an entire month and i like him soo much and he is constantly telling me he loves me alot but the only time i can talk to him is when im at his house becuz all he ever does is get on the computer and play 'call of duty' and he never has time for me! he hangs up with me for his game!but i dont kno what to do becuz i really love him.is there anything you can advize me to do instead of dump him becuz this is reallie important in my opinion. thanx!!!

hmmm... well i guess yew cud tell him that it seems lyke he cares more about his games and stuff then yew and its not fair to yew... or just poiint out in yur oun way how yew feel

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hey i need some advice...i like this guy but iono if he likes me r not but he likes him ex gf still and i dont no wat to do!!

well if yew lyke him let him knoe!!!! god every1 is so secretive thenthey iss their chance... tha guy may realize he lykes yew if yew tell him... and if he dont.. then get on wif lyfe and more then lykely he will lyke yew!!
!Sweet Babi!

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Situation: I'm involved in a long distance relationship.. Neither of us can drive right now.. and my parents wont let me date yet. His mom doesnt have her license right now (not sure why) so we dont have rides to see each other. My older sister doesnt approve of me dating him.. so she wont take me to see him.. and i barely know anyone that lives in his town.

Can anyone think of a way we can make this relationship last.. we're deeply in love.. but its hard not being together...

we've asked friends for rides.. and they wont take us.. Could someone please tell me how we can be together.. and it not be so hard on the both of us?

Thanks!

i have tha same problem... im lyke totally im love wif muh boyfriend n im not going to speak fer him but im pretty sure he lykes me alot to... but yea anyways i rarely seem muh b/f to... all i can say is tell yur parents and hopefully they will understand and let yew see him... and if not... plan to go somewere thats between were tha 2 of yew live n meet each other there... lyke tha movies or something... hope i helped yew out!
!SwEeTbAbI!

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I like this boy a lot but I don't think he likes me back. I want to go out with him so bad. What should I do.

i think yew should just go ryte ahead n let him knoe yew reallie lyke him... then if he hasnt asked yew out yet then hang out wif him alot n let him get to knoe yew.. then eventually ask him out(dont b scared) thats whut i do n would do.
!SwEeTbAbI!

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I decided Im goin to break up with him but how should I do it or wut should I say?

just tell him that yew just wanna b his friend... and then explain to him why yur doing it... so he understands... and then most lykely yew 2 can just become good friends... seems lyke a good thing comeing out of it... well yea there yew go here to help anytyme!
!SwEeTbAbI!

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Ya I have this situation with this girl. Like we hung out a couple times and it was an awesome time. Like we both cuddled with each other made each other laugh and kissed. Then the last time we hung out which was 2wks ago, like i kept in touch with her always asking her to c if she wanted to do something and she says ya but when it comes down to it, she always has something else to do. This just didnt happen once but a couple of times during the 2wks. I know she doesnt mean to cuz she is always apologizing saying she is srry that she couldnt hang out and when im always online, she will always i-m first just sayin hey. Like i know she wants to c me more and she knows i have feelings for her and that i like her but i wanted to know what u guys think about this situation.. Hope u can give me some advice for this... Also she like rlly never calls me. Like i feel im always the one to call her and i hate that. Im sure some of u guys know what im talking about. lol but if u anyone has advice to give i would like to know what u think. thx -TiM-

tim.. sounds to me that yew should just go ahead and make plans ahead of tyme... then she'll have plans n hopefully wont break yall's... and sounds lyke yew 2 reallie lyke each other so dont wrry it'll work out
!sweetbabi!

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Ok well to start off the question...I have a boyfriend named..lets call him bob....well we broke-up over a really dumb reason, but we got back together yesterday....I like him a lot but He is always rude to me and He told me [when we broke up] that he was thinkin about it a week be4? and I think now that were goin out again hes just screwing me over I dont kno!..well plz help me
Also I have feelings like I just want to break up with him because I love bein single and I have a crush on sum1 else!

well i think that yew 2 should break up... not tryig to be mean but if hes gunna be lyke that n yew lyke another guy it makes sence...
!SwEeTbaBi!

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ok my bestest friend i new scence i was in dippers she took my boyfriend.one day i was walking to my boyfriends house,and i open the door and they were kissing i just broke down and started crying.i miss him really much .what should i do get a new boyfriend?im not my friend lisas anymore

i understand.. and i dont think yur wrong to be madd at her.. that was kinda a mean thing to do.. and i knoe yew miss yur boy-friend.. but as far as he goes.. i think yew should ferget about him.. and fer a new boy-friend... if yew lyke sum1 then yes..

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I am 13/f. Ever since I have been dating my boyfriend, I have been thinking things I really shouldn't be thinking. I keep getting all these...desires to do things to him. I shouldn't be thinking things like that, I'm only 13!!! How do I stop?

well it depends yur 13 so yew maybe should just to a little more.. yur only 13 so no sex lil naughty minded gurl... but not just hugg...

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Well.....me and my friend like the same guy.I'v like him since i was little and he likes me to.But then there my friend she likes him.And I dont know what to do cause me and this boy want to go out but then there my friend.What should i do about this cause i dont want to lose a friend but i want to go out wit this boy.What should i do?


-Amanda Marie

hmm.. amanda being stuck b.t a frind n a guy is always going to be a hard situation... but yew should just talk to your friend and hope she understands how yew feel and wishes yew luck

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k me and my [ex] bf broke up ALONG LONG LONG time ago..i think he even has another gf now, but neway its been like a year or something that we havent been together and we havent even talkd in almost that long..it would be our 2 yr anniversary comin up in like a month...we broke up in tha rainy season and it was SUCH heartbreak for me..i cried every night for like 3 months straight....but the thing is, not even like 2 hrs will go by that i dont think of him...and since its the rainy season im thinkin about him so much more and im really sad..this isnt normal to STILL not be over some1 by now is it?

dont worry its perfectly normal.. and i think your a little sad.. but i also think yew love him and that yew miss him being your b/f.. talk to him.. then yew will most lykely find out wif yew love him, lyke him, or whut...

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I think I'm in love with my best guy friend. And that's cool and all, but he has a girlfriend, who I've met a few times and she's simply awesome. He says he's been in love with her for a few years, and she goes to a different school. They started dating over the summer, and I thought I would be okay with it all. You see, I've liked him since my sophomore year, and we're seniors now. And I really was okay with it all for a while, but then he started getting really flirty, and it's confusing me too much. What should I do?

thats kewl that yew lyke yur best guy friend.. but yea thats a thing wif guys who are reallie good friends to yew... they tend to b flirty... and it can confuse yew.. but yea if yew lyke him just go ahead n tell him.. hes yur friend and im guessing yew'd normally tell him things lyke this so dont b shy just tell him

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how do u get a girl to want to go out with you?

well i think yew should just tell her how yew feel about her... give yew some compliments (true ones ofcourse) and let her knoe yur there for and all...

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ok so my friend timmy and one of my best friends taylor(girl) like each other but the prob is she has a boyfriend who is one of the most popular guys at our school she says she likes him too but she acts like she like timmy more than her bf and timmy asked me to help him he doesnt know what to do cause he knows he could break them up if he wanted to but he doesnt want to be the reason they break up hed be full of guilt but he told me to ask what he should do ? i rate plz answer fast this is an emergency

ok lets think about this... your friend timmy lykes your other friend taylor... taylor lykes him to but her b/f to... well seems to me your friend needs to make up her mind...she doesn't seem to be being fair to her b/f... but as far as timmy goes... he should just keep things tha way they are n if she lykes him more she'll eventually realize it...

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there is this guy that i really like but i have only really seen him like 4 times but i talk 2 him online and on the phone alot and i think he is really sweet and want 2 do stuff wit him but i don't know if i should go over 2 him house or what cuz i can drive and he can 2 but he got in an accident a few days ago so his car is totaled but he also said he doesn't wanna go out he just wants 2 b friends wit benefits which is cool wit me. but do u think i would seem desperate if i call him cuz he doesn't call me alot now cuz of being in the accident so he doesn't have much time. should i call him or go 2 his house or something ? help

no i dont think yew would seem desperate if yew lyke tha guy n wanna talk with him call him... seems to me he cant call yew.. doesnt mean he doesnt want to tlak to yew... go ahead call him dont worry whut other people think

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