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ive been with my boyfriend for a 3 weeks and we were originally planning to keep it a secret so no one would bug us. well, now every knows and wants to know all the details (have u kissed yet...how far have you gone..) and i really dont know what to do besides tell them to shut up and stay out of it. thanks in advance.

I know how it feels when people are all up in your shit about stuff and you're all like "EVERYONE JUST SHUT UP ABOUT IT!!". I would tell you to ignore them or tell them that you dont want to be bothered, but I see that you've been through that already. I suggest that you guys pretend to break up, to make a neutral silence. and then start over and try to keep it more of a secret, and if you're gonna tell anybody, make sure that they're trustworthy enough to keep it a secret. I really hope I helped. If you need anything else, feel free to ask me.

xOo Nikki xO

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okey, i didn't know what category to put this in so i just chose love life. Anyway I was wondering about all the sweet nicknames.. I mean everytime a guy calls me babe or darling i die inside..seriously just a name can make me fall. But what can we call guys? Is there anything we can say to make them shiver? can we call them babe? Is there any laid back names? (like you know if we're just talking on msn and he says : hey, babe - what's up? Can we say something like that, even if we're not dating? cuz guys can use babe howvever..do we have anything like that? Something that will make them all nervous and stuff or just happy. And nothing that will make them embarresed, like darling is probably too feminin for them..Thanx!//marlena

Call them something like Baby Boy or Baby. Never call them Darling, lol...to feminine, I gotta admit, too...Also, you can add the word "Baby" after their name. I call alla my friends by baby names, lol. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...

Yeah, its totally normal. Its just that you havent found the right person yet. Dont feel so abnormal, Im sure lots of people are lke that. I'm positive. hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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Sometimes when a girl likes a guy a lot, she becomes dumb around him and can't think of anything to say. Well, I'm like that. I'm too nervous to say anything, I never talk to him unless he talks to me... I think he has a crush on me, cause I really never noticed him until he started talking to me . And I developed a crush on him .
The problem is that everyone's telling me
"dont walk up to him, people will start talking"
That's one of the reasons I'm too nervous to talk to him!
When is the perfect time to talk to a guy you like? should I start saying hi to him instead of waiting for him to say hi to me? never really say hi to him, he always does and I reply.
Please dont delete this question, I need the advice. I rate of course.

Okey, first of all lets get rid of some of your nervousness. when people say "Dont walk up to him, people will start talking" then dont listen to them!! I mean, cmmon you walk up to a person and say "Hi" Oooooh what a big deal! Dont listen to those people, they're juss trying to scare you. The next time you see him just go up to him and say hi. It's really easy!! I promise you theres no pressure. I mean, all he's gonna do is say "Hi" back and maybe talk to you a little. Oh yeah, by the way, the perfect time to talk to your crush is ANY TIME. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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I have a problem with boys, none of them like me. If one of my friend's tells a boy I like them they pretend to gag and stuff. Well I was at a dance and there was this really hot boy and my friend asked him to dance with me and he said no so my other friend asked him and he said I have a girlfriend as an excuse to not make me feel upset. What can I do to get boys to like me?

You can't get boys to like you. You need a guy that will like you for you, not just because you change yourself to be more attractive. I mean, maybe now you cant find a guy who will like you, but someday you will, and thats a garuntee. Like I always say, sometimes a person who likes you is a stranger to you or one of your best friends. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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i just wanted to know how i can ask a girl if she likes me without looking stupid

ask her on IM or call her. I mean, you guys will be a minimum space apart so you wont be embarassed, but you guys are still alone. That way you wont "look" stupid because no one is there except you. I hope I helped, that usually helps when I have that kinda stuff.

xOo Nikki xO

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When my b/f puts his arm around my shoulder is it beeter to put my arm around his shoulder or waist

Waist because you'll feel cozy and you're able to relax. And plus its easier if your bf is taller than you ;] hope I helped

xOo Nikki xO

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Hey i was just wondering do you still like colton and why do you like nick and chris?????

Umm...who is this? Lol, i dunno if i like colton. hes really really sweet though and if he asked me out again i would probably say yes. As for the nick and chris thing...i dont know why i like nick, i'm still trying to figure that out myself, lol. And i cant explain why i like chris....hes really sweet and funny, though ;]

xOo Nikki xO

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