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im an 18/f my bf is 19/m. i have been with my bf for almost 2 years. we have had our rough times, and i dont feel he is committed to me. he hasnt cheated to my knowledge, but we havent been together for more than 8 months straight without being on a break.
tonight i took his phone and looked through his facebook messages. was it invasive? yes it was. but i feel i have the right to know considering his past of flirting with girls online, hooking up with girls during our breaks from going out, etc.
in his messages i saw him encouraging girls to cheat. the girls see hes in a relationship, and they say no, but i am so hurt by this. i really think one day he will cheat on me..im so lost, i love him but i dont want to get hurt. he has promised me before he would stop but he hasnt! he lied to me also. he told me he stopped talking to this one girl, but they havent stopped. he wants to meet up with this girl! he doesnt drive, neither does his mom, and i just feel if he did drive he would dump me or cheat on me. any experiences like this? any advice? thank you (link)
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Just end it , from the sounds of things , he's not pulling his weight in the relationship !
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16/ f
me and my girlfriends went to a waterpark for me and my best friend's combined birthday party, and we met a group of guys there. the guys go to the highschool in the town next to us. me and one guy got especially close, we exchanged numbers and even kissed eachother on the cheek. we've called eachother a couple of times since we parted, and talked on facebook, but we havn't seen eachother.
i casually mentioned to my parents that we met a group of guys that we might hang out with again, and i even told my mom that my friends all think i should date one guy in particular. i didn't tell them that we kissed.
the problem is, ill be getting my licence soon, (he already has his,) but i know my parents aren't going to let me drive over to his town (especially alone, as a new driver, in a strange town). or with anybody for that matter! i could lie and go over there when i said i went somwhere else, or i could invite him over to my house, but his parents might say the same thing to him. how are we ever going to see eachother again? how can i ask my parents to let me drive over there, when i know they'll say no? (if i ask them and they say no, they'll be suspicious always that im going over there, im afraid) if we could possibly start dating, should I even tell my parents? what should i do? HELP! (link)
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Meet somewhere in the middle again
Go to a resturant or something near the waterpark.
Hope I helped
xoxo
Stephii ♥
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16/f
i can't stand my boyfriend anymore, we've only been dating a couple months and he is always telling me how much in love he is and how he never loved somebody as much as he loves me. he made me meet his entire family, church members, friends, etc. and always tricks me into going to his grandma's house so i can become "friends" with his grandparents. and for christmas he got me a bracelet that has an engraving of "i Love you more than anything"... i just got him a blanket? again, we've only been dating about a month and a half!!! This is moving WAY too fast for me and i told him that he just got mad and ignored me.
second thing, we never do ANYTHING physical,not even a peck on the cheek. I don't really find him attractive but i didn't think that was an issue because i loved his personality, but it makes it difficult to be physical and im growing tired of his dirty jokes. He is so awkward about everything, he has to announce when he is going to put his arm around me or try to kiss me it makes me really turned off.
i want to break up so badly, because im really tired of all this, but the thing is he gets so moody about things. Before when i tried to break up with him he said "this isn't going to happen again." and it really freaked me out. Now i have his entire family, friends, and church members breathing down my neck if i want to break up with him he's going to make it so chaotic!
i guess my question is, how can i break up with him in a way that i can make him feel good about it, or at least not make him upset?
what should i say?
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Be 10x more annoying ...
Then He'll dump you
Problem solved
Hope I helped
xoxo
Stephii
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I couldn't really pick a category that fit my question very well. Anyway, here it goes: (Bear with me, it will be long.)
I found out about four months ago that I am pregnant. At the time, I was just 15 but I am 16 now. My mom is fine about it, because she and I are very close and she understands me. My dad was upset, but he is better now. My boyfriend is 19 years old. He wants to be fully involved in the baby's life as well as mine.
The main problem is that my dad (Whom I live with; my parents are divorced) is very controlling. He barely even lets me see my boyfriend, and even insists that the baby's last name isn't after the father. I think this entirely unfair.
Anyway, the question is this: My baby is due in May and my boyfriend and I want to live together... We want to have our own apartment, just him, the baby and me. This could be done; he has a good job and I am going to finish school even after the baby is born.
Being that I am a minor, I don't know how I can do this. I want to leave and be with my boyfriend and baby once the baby is born. I know that I am legally considered an adult if we were to be married, but I am too young, aren't I? Is there any way I can move in with my boyfriend? My mom would give me consent, but I highly doubt my dad would. Please help. (link)
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Why don't you see if you and your boyfriend could move in with your mom ? I think I'd do that !
Hope I helped !
xoxo
Stephii
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Im trying to get over this guy I liked, and my friends are trying to convince me it wouldn't have worked out anyways. hes a jock, he probalby only talkes about football and boobs. I talk about the wonderfull music were playing in band, (were in the same band class, same instrument) and how beautiful nature is, and how i love to express myself though dance yadda yadda...
are my friends right? would it have worked? (link)
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1.you're being really sterotypical and mean
2.theres always a chance
3.if you like him dont let your friends get in the way !
xoxo
Stephii
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Anyone have any tips for how to kiss i just want to be ready for my first one so i don't look like an idiot! (female) (link)
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Lay back and let the guy/girl lead you .
When you get a bit more experiance try lip sucking / nibbiling .
so sexy
and kissing their neck
!
=]
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I have 6th period with the guy i like. When I get in the class I blush ALOT & i have to sit next to him. Today I got super sweaty & my face gets red when its hot or i feel uncomfortable. I look super weird because I am the only one in the class who will be all red and sweaty so I turn my head away from him until about 10 minutes into the class when Im not as nervous anymore. I absolutely HATE this. Is there anyway to make it stop or something? (link)
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Get comforatable with him , talk to him try to just be friends.
hope I helped
xoxo
Stephii
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14/f sorry this is long!
im a freshman and my brother is a junior. he and i have lunch during the same period and our tables are literally 10 feet away from each others.these are the guys that sit at my bros table:kevin,patrick,matt,ben, and jason. everyday kevin looks at me and winks at me. and he has like a scheming smile on his face when he does.and he asked me to give him head like 7 times.and i said no everytime.and he asked me to homecoming like 3 times but i kept saying no because i thought he was being cocky and i didnt believe him. he also gave me his number one day but i didnt think it was him..but i texted him and it actually was.and he was actually nice when we texted and i dont get him because sometimes hes nice and he flirts but other times he acts like a perv.. and i knew that i would start to like him and i do [[unfortunately]] but im not gonna let him know because idk what would happen.
but i really like patrick too..hes nice to me and me,him, and my brother hung out an entire afternoon and hes pretty cool.he talks to me and hes like tried to help me with my homework sometimes.
does kevin really like me or is he just being an idiot?and how do i get patrick to see me as more than just his friend's sister? (link)
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Okay I know from personal experiance , don't bother with Kevin , if you give him what he wants he will be done with you , and if you go out with him he'll expect it and if he doesn't get it he'll dump you .
As for getting this other guy to notice you , I think [from what your saying] that he already does notice you , he's helped you with homework and all.Just flirt with him , see where it leads .
Hope I helped !!
- Stephii
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Um I have a really personal love life question and id rather not post it on public internet, so I was wondering if a couple of people could volunteer to answer it? (ill send you a question to your inbox)
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Sure , lay it on me !
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I like this girl and I asked her out but she dosent know to say yes or no, How do I get her to say yes. (link)
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Be flirty
Look nice
Smile ! :D
Look smart
Be nice
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This is quite long but bare with me !! i need your help ASAP ! .
This guy named "Liam" he .. well confuses me .. i mean i like him ALOT! but like before he gave me all these sighns he liked me i mean we hugged at the end of te day and we talked and when smeone said my name he'd blush. So i was like awsome just got to wait till he asks me out and THEN he became friends with "kaykay" and the have so much in common. Plus their next door neighbors. Thy both skateboard love Kiss and do alot together.. and i must admit i got jelouse then all the sighns he liked me were gone. I see them together constantly.. Mondays and Thursdays they go out to eat lunch together out of school property. They arent in the same class but they hid it from the teachers that their locker partners. They walk home together and the only one thing he does .. that ight styll show he likes meis he stares at me alot .. thats all .. everyone says their all friends BUT she has a bf in another school and she won't tell Liam . i think because maiibe it'll sto him from asking her out and wen he does she'll dump the other guy? Seing them together makes me so deppressed!?? we stopped cummnicating and i kan't hugg him cuz she's their what can i do? do they like eachother? should i move on ? should i just believe that their just friends? HELP! (link)
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It sounds like these people are dating and shes cheating on her boyfriend , they're probably not spreading the fact that they're dating cuz she doesn't want her boyfriend to find out . The one thing you said that shows he still likes you is probably true , he probably does , but he can't do it too much because he is [ probably] dating this girl . Maybe you should just believe they are dating and move on .
Hope I helped !!
-Stephii && Miia
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my boyfriend is very insecure and asks me over and over again certain questions like "are you cheating on me?" or "Are you doing drugs?" because we are straightedge so hes always afraid of me breaking it and doing drugs because a year ago i hid doing drugs from him before i was straightedge but anyways. Hes trying to work on it and he said someone told him that he has to ask me to make it better and really thats not working at all because its been going on for a year and still has not gotten better.
I'm wondering how to make him feel better or help him with his insecurites.
Yes I always so no I won't do that and I'm not doing that and i understand about it now but I just don't want him to feel this way
Is there anyways to even just make it a little better?
Thank you. (link)
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He needs to work on his trust . He needs to know you are telling the truth prove to him that you are clean.
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umm alright
so this guy wants me to talk dirty to him
can someone help me on what to say
cause ive never really talked dirty to a guy
hahha
soo help me! (link)
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Say thing's you wanna do to him [I wanna rub your ______ until you feel so good you _______,I'll suck your ______ until you freak.ext.].Just go with the flow.Hope I helped.
-StephI
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how do you know if your boyfriends in love with you? and hes told you how he feels about you and everything
but he hasnt said those 3 words.
like how do they act and what do they say??
is it a bad idea if the girl says i love you first? or should the guy say it?
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If you feel it's the right time to say it , say it.The girl in a relationship now-a-days can do anything first second or third haha.So just go for it BUT tell him he doesn't have to say it back if he doesn't feel it.Hope I helped !!
-StephI ♥
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My boyfriend used to weigh 300 pounds but he lost a bunch of weight and hes around 180 now. He lost his weight so quickly so he has some skin hanging. He is so self concious about it how can I make him feel better about it? (link)
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Well good for you , going for personality instead of looks. =] and just say things / do things to help him bost his cofidence [I'm not really sure what] but yeah and just always tell him you love him and stuff like that !! Hope I helped !!
-Stephi
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okay so im a 16/f and i think i like my best friend that i've known since i was 4. and we use to play soccer together and we went to elementry and middle school together. lol and we might hangout soon at the mall. but im not sure what to say to him or if i should tell him that i like him. what should i do? help!!! (link)
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Say something like have you ever liked a really good friend ? if he says yes ask him what he did about it then be like well I like my best friend , either he'll get the message or you tell him then talk to him about it =] hope I helped you
-Stephi
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13/f
Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks now. We both like each other alotalotalot.
We've hung out with each other every weekend. He met my mom & dad, i met his mom, and our moms met each other.
The previous times that he has hung out at my house, we've just cuddled on the couch watching a movie. We've never made out (once i tried to..), just regular kissed. We both want to makeout with each other, and we've talked about it. Except everytime we plan to, my mom is at the top of the stairs, or we're supervised SOMEHOW. When we try to go outside, my mom is always like "NO KISSING" and she watches us.
I've made out with my last boyfriend several times, without my mom getting involed. I don't know if it's possible for my to go over my boyfriends house, because i know my mom would be suspicious and know what we want to do. (link)
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HAHA I geuss I'm just lucky cuz my boyfriend is allowed to make out in his living room with him mom right there...and his mom gave him condoms !!!!!!! He's not allowed to have sex in the house tho......
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Ok, so i like this guy that goes to my church. The problem is, he's 2 years younger than me. Im in 8th grade, and he's in 6th. But you see, he doesnt act like he's in 6th at all. Hes really mature, funny, and im pretty sure he likes me back. But I dont know why, but i care what other people think about me. Would it be too weird for a almost fresman in high school to go out with an almost 7th grader? I dontknow!! I dont want advice like, who cares what other people think, because I do!! I don't know what to do, Some people might think thats too young, but i dont know. What should i do?? (link)
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I'm a sevener hahha I went out with this guy Ryan hes in grade 9 hes 14 and we had no problems...I broke up with him...he lived too far away I never got to see him :( oh well...best of luck,hope I helped
-stephi-
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this is kind of urgent. ok so my best guy friend just got dumped by his girlfriend that he had for 7months. he really loved her and is really depressed about it. i hate to see him that way because i care about him, alot. in fact i love him. i've been secretly in love with him for about a year now. i told him that i used to like him but not that i still do. ok so anyway he's been really depressed and he's not sure if him and his girlfriend are going to get back together. if they do i'll be really happy for him because i hate to see him miserable like he is now. but i want to tell him that i like him. so what should i do? tell him or let them get back together and just be a good friend and stay out of the way? (link)
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Tell him ur secret life is about taking risks.
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Okay well i have a boyfriend and he loves me and cares for me and stuff but he wants to kiss me but i dont know if im ready i toled him i would but i keep puting it off . then i get pressured to do it my my friends anna, emma, and meagan. They all have boyfriends and they kiss. Do i have a problem that i cant kiss my boyfriend or not cuz i really want to kiss him. i just dont know how i should or how long. HELPPPPPP!!!!! (link)
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I was totally nervous my first time to...make sure you're alone for 1 so theres no embaressing moments for others to tell all about (drool teeth clank ext) and let him lead.Mail me and tell me what happens if you wnat (please do lol) Hope I helped !!
-Stephi-
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