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hey..Im kind of in the triangle here..I have a boyfriend named russ but two other guys like me..I really like all 3 of them but im not sure what to do..I feel like im losing my best friend becuz of my new boyfriend, but im falling for him..The other guys name is Billy..and i was with him for 3 months and i fell for him too..and the new guy name is Justin.Help me what should I do? (link)
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Go with your instinct. The guy you really like the most. And don't ditch your friends for guys or anything. That just messes up stuff big time. But with the whole guy thing, I would stay with your boyfriend and just tell the other guys to buzz off and that you're already taken.:-D
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There's this guy that I'ved like for about a year or so now and he's told me that he's liked me to. We've hung out outside of school a lot and everything went great. I really love who I am when I'm with him. He's such an amazing person and I love spending time with him. The only problem is that lately he's been distancing himself from me because he's afraid to get hurt. When he told me that I seemed to distance myself from him so I didn't fall even harder just incase it didn't work out. I still have really strong feelings for him and we talk all the time, I'm just not sure on what I should do. I've told him how I feel. I think I really love him. Should I lay it all out on the table and tell him everything I think about him and the way he makes me feel or should I just give him his space until he figures out what he's feeling? (link)
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I think you could do both. Tell him exactly how you feel .. and if you have that strong of feelings for him, you'd wait for him until he figures out his feelings for you as well. Waiting might be hard. If he takes too long then maybe being friends is just something that has to happen there. But just flat out tell him everything you feel and have him figure out what he's feeling as well.. Good luck
*__Shannon
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Okay, Here is the deal. I'm usually good at givng myself advice, but I don't know what to do on this one. I like 2 boys. Corey and Charles.
I've known CHARLES for about 1 1/2. He's like a best friend to me and I told him before that I like him, but I guess he never really thought about giving me a chance. Charles is always making me laugh and I just love being around him ( I can be myself with him and he wont put me down). Corey, Well I like him too (ALOT).. although I've only known him since this year, But I've liked him since I first saw him. I always thought he hated me, and my friends would tell me that he thought I was ugly,( People say I'm not ugly though) and he hated me. That stuff was NEVER said. Him and I were in class one day and we were passing notes.. I asked him about the things people were saying that he said about me, he said they were never true, he also said that since he's gotten to know me that he thought I was cute and cool. So now, me and Corey are good friends ( I like him because I can be myself around him also, and not have to worry about being put down).. His EX girlfriend, Dylan, she hates the crap out of me, but I hate her with a passion too.. Corey said that when she moves he will think about giving me a chance. It's all really hard because I like both CHARLES and COREY. Not only because they're REALLY cute, but because of the way they are..the way they act. Anyway, I just needed help on what to do with this problem. I've always liked Charles, and now I'm starting to like Corey even more.. I know Corey likes me (cuz he told me on the phone, using the words, "I like you") but I don't know about Charles. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, Chris, so that I could have a relationship with Corey,( and cuz Chris cheated on me with my best friend) I would like to be with corey more than charles because I am comfortable being close friends with charles. It's all really confusing because I'm not sure if Corey still wants to be with me when Dylan moves. (like he said before)Corey told me he hated my best friend and I didn't like how she was treating me, so now I'm not friends with her.. and I wonder if it made Corey think twice about me.. I mean now I can finally be myself and not have to worry about people thinking I'm like my best friend, Vonna (everyone thought I was like Vonna because I always hung out with her)..So, What do you think I should do.. What do you think my problem is... should I try to talk to Corey and tell him that I really want to be with him. (I already told him tons of times that I like him no matter what anyone says, that I was always gonna like him, and I told him I couldn't wait to be with him).. I just dont know if he cares. I sent Charles an email telling him that I still like him.. and he hasnt responded yet.. so if Charles decides to be just friends,(thats fine, its better that way for me, friends with benifits) what do I do about Corey, cuz corey is the one I want to have to relationship with, cuz he's a good guy. Help me soon, please! Give me any INFO you can about my problem, anything that will help, I'm desperate to know. THANKS TONS
-CRYSTAL!- (15, Female) (link)
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Well if i were you, I wouldn't wait for Corey. I mean, maybe he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend and thats why he wants to wait until she moves so then she won't get in the way of his feelings for you. But that's not fair to you at all. And with Charles, You guys are really good friends, would you want to break that up? If i were you, I wouldn't go for either of the guys. Being with charles could and might ruin your great friendship in the long run and having to wait for corey isn't something that is fair to you. You shouldn't have to wait for him. It's just not right. Maybe staying friends with both of them is just for the best. And i'm sorry to hear about Chris, What a jerk!!! he has no reason to cheat on you.. and it's pretty low of your best friend to do that to you also.
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Ok, here's the deal.. I like this guy we've been friends for a while.. I've told him that I liked him before but he had a g/f and he thought that he "lead me on" or in his words "gave me false hope".. well his g/f dumped him like a month ago and I told him that I still liked him.. this time he thinks it will bring us closer.. well what he said is "like last time, i felt bad that i gave u flase hope, but now i don't feel that, and wit that we could work 2 fix watever and be better friends".. I don't quite understand what he is saying.. can you help?? (yeah I do understand that he is saying he doesn't like me tho!)
-Molly (link)
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I think he just wants to be friends with you. Just let it be that. It's better to have him in your life than not at all right? And plus, maybe if you hang out and stuff a lot .. he might start to like you like that! Then something major could happen and you two will end up together. Starting out as friends first is always the best. It gets you closer so then you can see what you'll get yourself into. Maybe you'll realise that he's too good of a friend .. or maybe he'll end up being the Love of your life!:-D sorry it took so long to answer ..
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ok this mite seem complicating. I always hang out wit my older sis and her friend. Well theres this boy that my sisters friend knos n theyve known eachother for awhile. Well i like boy now and ma sis and her friend always try to ignore him wen he wants to hang out i wanna hang out wit him b/c i like him and they dont kno that.What should i do!? and how can i figure out if the guy likes me or not w.o askin him? he always looks at me n smiles n stuff but i dunno if hes jus b friendly or if he likes me?..xo`help! (link)
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Why don't u call him up on your own and make plans with him. Instead of your sister being around or something, have one of your friends hang with you guys as well till you get used to it all.
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Me and this guy have been goin on and off for awile with liking each other, but everytime we start to get serious about maybe startin a relationship he decides that he likes someone else more. im really getting sick of it and he says it out of no where, but its really hard getting over him cause we have had some really good times, and can sit and talk for hours. should i call it quits with him or should i give it another chance? and if you think i should call it quits how should i get over him? (link)
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Call it QUITS for sure .. if he's just gunna keep doing that to you, then it's really not worth it .. Get over him by finding a new guy, or by just Hanging out with ur friends more so you don't think of him!! You really don't need a guy like that in your life.. It might be hard to get serious if he keeps doin that!! Gettin over him may take a while .. but if you have the friends to help you out, It'll be a SliCe Of CaKe!
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ok im 15 n im in 10th grade....but i like this girl that is 13 n shes in 8th grade...i donno what to do...cuz ya i like her alot n in but she is way younger than me please help (link)
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Well, if you really like her then what's the problem? I mean sure she's younger but give it a chance. Who knows. She could be the love of your life:-D And if people make fun of you for it, then fuck em because you shouldn't care what people think.
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heyy yalll... Waz ups? anywho.. my slave name is tyrone jefferson biggums.. however the crew callzz me Mr.T... Anyway i was wonderin bout my swizzle wang. The problem is its just 2 beg. yeah evevar day i wake up an its stiff as my uncles fro.. wehen u talk bout mornin woodz.. shit nigga this is a mornin wake up call 2 pain!!... u see.. morin woodz can be aight..k B? but whan ur wang is 19 inches an 9 inchs arounz it can be paintfull... do u think i should get it cut off? or just get a girlfriend tha has a loose enof puzzy!!! ~~Signed~~~ ur devoted reader... MR.T...Holla back honkey (link)
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Cary ur dumb! You did the stupid tyrone act when I was with you so just shut the hell up! .. this is for people who are sincere so stop being a dick .. u just wish urs was that huge bitch!
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i cant find any guys that like me so i have a very low self esteem even tho i dont let anybody really see that. how do i find a guy i can cuddle with and talk to and to kiss me and like me for me? any ideas? let me no.
p.s. i am mature for my age so most guys MY age seem imature and idotic. maybe if i could get my self to stop thinking that i could see them better, they still dont see me tho. (link)
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Go for the older guys (they tend to be more mature but .. want more if u catch my drift) and just be yourself .. a guy will come around sooner or later. But you don't need one in your life riiiight now. They don't make you happy trust me. But just be yourself and don't over do it because then they will get to know *you*
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I am a 15 year old girl and i have never had a SERIOUS b/f. I mean its not that im ugly or anything..but i am pretty shy and im not exactly SKINNY. Do you have any tips on how i could get guys to notice me a little bit more? (link)
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The only thing you can really do is just be yourself around them. It's not all about the looks. They should like you for your personality and not just for what you got. You'll find someone that will make you happy and you'll make them happy too! so just be yourself.. and smile .. :-)
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Hey, Ya'll! if a boy ignores you but sometimes look down -n- when you catch him looking at you does that mean he doesn't like you?How can you tell if a guy likes you??
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You can never be sure when a guy likes you! Because they are always so flirty and horny! lol .. But if you always get like a glimpse of a guy lookin at you, he may think your cute;-) hehe and that's a good sign. But usually, guys are really hard to read. The best thing to do, is just ask em!
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- - ok, me and my best guy friend Mike keep getting in fights over shtuff. Like EVERY SINGLE time i talk to him, he has to bring up his girlfriend, who is like one of my friends and he KNOWS I HAVE THIS MAJOR CRUSH ON HIM!! and we always get in a fight over it, cuz how would you feel if you asked your best guy friend out *not the brightest thing to do i guess* and he said no he isn't "ReadY" and then went and asked out your friend..? My god!! and now i dunno what to do, cuz i'm sick of fighting with him......
what do i do?
Signed..
- Stupid Best girl friend (link)
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You're right. That is kind of prickish of him to bring up his girlfriend when he knows you like him. Just, dont let it get to you. I'm assuming that you can do way better than this guy anyway. I mean, when he brings up his g/f .. that's totally a prick move. Just don't worry about it too much. You guys are just friends, and that's all he wants to be right now. As for the fighting, maybe you guys just need a break from eachother for a while. so then you guys don't fight, and you dont have to feel bad everytime he talks about his girlfriend. Then later on when you're both chilled out .. start talkin up again!
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There is this girl that I kind of like. I'm not sure if she likes me or not, but I think she does; the only problem is that I like another girl too. Is it okay to go out with this girl, even though I like somebody else? Thanks, Love Ya (link)
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Well, it'd be fine but it wouldn't be fair to your girlfriend that you like someone else. I mean, everyone has there little crushes on people when they have girlfriends/boyfriends .. but I would just try to stick with one girl. Your g/f might find out somehow .. and that wouldn't be good
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I'm 14 goin on 15 here soon and the same with this guy I like. We've been best friends ever since I've moved to Texas which is about a year. Our relationship didn't really take off until spring break of 2004. He was the first guy I met in Texas that I had a crush on him and he told me the first time he saw me he wanted me. So we finally told each other this spring break. Since, spring break we've been keep the fire goin, but we haven't kissed or anything like that. The most we've done is flirt big time and hug tons. What should I do to really get this relationship off?? (link)
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Make the first move! maybe he's scared but you don't have to be.:-)
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ill be on the road tomorro.. and i just wnt to know some serious good ways to block out the rest of the world.... i need a couple of days to myself... i mean.. my heads spinning.. is there anything wrong with just shutting down for a few days.. or is it like non social... (link)
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Not at all! everyone needs a break from everything sometimes. It's always good to get away from the things you are being bothered with. But once you get back, you'll have the same problems again. But it is good to get away for a while. Just relax and don't think about anything that's bothering you!
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alriitee..i`m c0nfused ab0ut my boyfriend..he says he l0ves me, but i haven`t talked to him in a while...we`ve been q0inq 0ut f0r ab0ut a year n0w and he d0esn`t call me..hardly ever unless i tell him t0. we talk 0nline and stuFf and we`ve d0ne s0me stuff 2qether and its qreat..but i d0n`t kn0 if he`s shy 0r what. but whenever i d0 talk t0 him he`s always happy t0 talk t0 me and stuff, and i`m always happy t0 talk t0 him and he say`s he l0ves me and all, but wh0 knows-- s0meone help. thankS in advance* (link)
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Call him up, and ask him what's been going through his head .. tell him how you are feeling about the whole situation. Maybe he just doesn't want you to be the center of his world. Not to be harsh, but he might not be the kind of guy that drops everything just to be with his girlfriend. But i'd for sure talk to him about it.
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The other night I was with a few friends and I met this guy that I really started to like.. he seemed like a totally awesome guy and I wanted to get to know him better.. and I guess I kinda did :-\ we did alot of stuff that I now regret ALOT .. he wants to hang out again soon.. and probably go even farther.. I really thought I liked him but now he makes me feel really uncomfortable.. I don't know what to do!!
.. Meghann 8) (link)
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First off, don't regret anything because it happened for a reason. It was a mistake and you can learn from your mistakes. If i were you, I would tell him straight out that you don't wanna do anything with him anymore because it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he doesn't understand then tell him you need time to decide if you like him or not. It's all up to you and I think u can make the right choice and decide for yourself how you wanna handle it! Good lucko!
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hor do u suck on girls titties? tell me what to do if they have large nipples or little nipples
please answer back
thanks
i love you shannon (link)
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Just put ur mouth on it .. and suck? lol .. i've never experienced a good nipple suckin! also .. play with it,.. with ur tongue:-) .. like back n forth .. so it kinda tickles! u can use some teeth but don't bite .. maybe a nibblage on nipple!
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ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do?? (link)
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whatever you feel comfortable with and what you are ready for is what you should do.
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I Think I'm in love with my best friend!! I know I would do anything for him, and I told him a while ago that I really liked him but he said that "I should know that he likes me too, but we're just to close" I understand that, but I really love him and I think we should try to date, but I guess he's afraid that if we date and break up then we wont be friends, and yet i*ve told him all this but he just doesnt seem to understand! What can I do??
I appreciate you help!!
xox--Ale x i a--xox (link)
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Make a promise with him .. be like, "we like eachother you know, and I know that our friendship won't be ruined if we just try to date. I promise it won't. I won't let it" and stuff like that .. show him that u actually care about your friendship but you wanna try and take it a step farther
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