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Q: im a guy who is shy and i like this girl who is like my best friend and i want to have a bigger relationship with her, what should i do to get her attention? please help!! thanks
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Kinda subtly let her know that your single, hang out with her more, give her more of your attention, etc. If she doesn't already have a bf, you could talk to her or ask her out if you think you could. If not, just spend more time with her, and talk to her more. Hope I could help!
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Q: ok, so this is the deal..i met this wonderful guy this summer, but he has a GF. Anyway, we spent 6 weeks together and we made out, held hand and all that (IT WAS WONDERFUL!) please dont tell me what i did was wrong, i know it was but i dont care cuz i love him, i really do. And he's told me that he loves me too. We made a deal yesterday (he's been with his GF for about 2 years, and he says he loves her too) he said, he doesnt want to cheat on her anymore cuz he loves her but if the feeling is right-something could happen between us this summer. And i was like: what do you mean? and he asnwered: well, im gonna have my place all to my self this summer soo..who knows what could happen between us!? ;) anyway, i live in japan and he lives in america so we only see eachother during the summer. Hmm, id ont really know what my question is..im just so cofused..i love him so much, and i miss him..i really dont give a damn about his GF (i know i sound like an evil person, but i really really really love him, i cant help i.)Is there anything i can do to get over him? should i even try to get over him? should i sleep with him? (he's 18 and im 14) what's gonna happen between us? ( sorry, i know you cant answer that question) he's just so amazing i dont know what to do. Alot of guys like me here in japan, but i dont like anyone of them im just soo stuck on joshua.
Help! please?- mariana
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okay, you asked alot of things, so i have alot of answers.
1. There are things you can do to get over him. Hang out with friends, go out with a guy back in japan, eat chocolate, just go on living life the way you normally would've
2. yes, you should try to get over him, because it sounds like (to me anyway) that he isn't going to be your bf, he just wants to sleep with you.
3. NO, you should not sleep with him, because doing so will probably not get him to be your bf, becasue he's already told you he doesn't want to break up w/ his gf, and besides, he is 4 years older than you
4. I can't say what is going to happen to you, but i can guess. If you do see him again (i don't know if you guys made plans, or you might accidently hopefully see him again), he might've moved on, or be happier w/ his gf. i mean, there's a chance that, over the year, he broke up with her, but i dont know
5. I realize you only had four questions, but i'm just going to summarize it, becasue it was really long (sorry about that). I don't think he's right for you. It seems he's just using you, and all he wants is too sleep with you! I mean, he's 4 years older than you! Do you really think he'd keep you as a gf while in college? (not to sound mean) Besides, he already has a gf. All you can really do is try to get over him. I hope i helped!
Oh, btw, i looove your name! It sounds really awesome! Mariana! Lol, just thought I'd tell you.
Hope everything works out for the best!
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Q: Ok here's the deal....I like this kid named Brett we are going out and stuff i think he likes my friend,Kalysta but he says he likes me my friend kalysta likes him.What can i do???
Please help because i ♥ him,
Confused
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maybe you should just keep kalysta away from brett whenever you are with him. just dont hang out w/ both of them at the same time. Hope that makes sense.
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Q: Tonight I'm going with a few friends to see a scary movie. My boyfriend is going to try to come behind his parents back to go with me. This one guy that I know who really really likes me is also going, and I kinda like him. What should I do because I'd rather cuddle with my guy friend than my boyfriend. Help!!
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If you'd rather be with your guy friend who you know likes you, then maybe you DO need to break up with your bf. But if you still like your bf, then just tell him, "You shouldn't come, becasue if you get caught your parents will ground you," or something like that so he wont come.
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Q: 17/f...anyways i like this guy and his name is james.... i texted him on valentines day and whatever and then he told me to call him tomorow so i called the next day and he didnt answer so i tried later that night and the same thing happened he was probably workinbg or had class....anyways i didnt leavea message eventho i probably should have so my question is should i try calling him again tomorow and if he doesnt answer leave a message?
im really confused because people are telling me to do different things..and my past with him is a long story so please any advice would be helpful
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You should call again, and this time, leave a message. Since you didn't leave a message the 1st time, he might not know it was you (unless it was his cell). Just be like hey, just calling to talk, but since your not hear, i'll talk to your machine(or some line that suits ur personality), so call me back at ..... I Hope This Helped!
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Q: My bf and i were making out when he started to slide his hand up my shirt. We had to stop suddenly after though, cuz my sister came in. Does this mean he wants to go farther? How can i show to him I'm ready? We've been going out for 4 months, btw.
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IF you think you're ready, the next time you guys are making out, you need to make the move, and run you hands over his shirt.
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Q: 15/f What are some good movies to watch @ a party?
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depends on what u like. A cinderella story (Chad) pirates of the Caribbean (Orlando) white chicks (just because) um... oo, i loved bend it like beckham (that one guy in it's hot, the coach!) lol. wait, why wasn't i invited? Jk! have fun @ ur par-tay! lol.
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Q: what is a good way to ask a heavy metal guy to a prom?! and when should i ask him cuz our prom is in may.
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can you say: planning tooo far ahead?
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Q: ok, everytime i start to like a guy, i tell myself im not good enough, and i wonder why any guy would want to be with me. im 14 and have never had a real boyfriend, but i desperately want one. and when i finally do start to think im good enough for the guy, i woory about what his friends and my friends would think... i just dont know what to do...
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It's because u worry too much. see it from this point of view: im not good enough for you, please dont go out with me.
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Q: 18/f. what can i give my bf for valentine's day? we've been going out for 4 months, but i dont just wanna get him chocolate.
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It depends on how close you are. if you are close enough, u could take it to the next level, if you know what i mean ;)if you aren't, you could just get him like a shirt, or a movie he really likes, or something. hope i helped
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Q: Okay, stupid question: what is french kissing?
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It's when you put your tounge in the other person's mouth.
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Q: Ok, well my parents dont really approve of my boyfriend, just because he's 3 years older than me, but he's really nice, but they wont even let me see him. i know how to tell them he's not like that. i love him, and he loves me. what can i do?
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The perfect answer: be sneaky. have him over when they're not around, or sneak out to see him if you get home before them and he lives nearby. or, if possible, sneak around at school. Tip: lunch time is a good time.
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I like giving advice, so ask me. But if you have a stupid question, i'll give you a stupid answer! No really, try me!
*Not all Dumbs are Blonde
*Why are you reading this?
*I didnt loose my mind, I sold it on eBay
*Never put a coat of nail varnish on before taking off the one under. This is the key to leading a successful life my friend.
*I'm Out To Conquer The World......Ooooo Look Something Shinny!!!
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Gender: Female Member Since: January 16, 2005 Answers: 29 Last Update: April 13, 2005 Visitors: 3512
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