Hey there everyone! My name is Rory... I am 14.. I am a TOTAL beach bum -hehe :) i love it! some other things i love are my friends- i have the best of the best! ummm hangin with them... beach, movies... boys :D(haha typical 14 year old girl!) ummmmm i dunno what else to say... if your in need of a friend, i'll try my best to help! :)
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Occupation: beach bum/student... Durr
Age: 14
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Okay, Hi
Im having a bit of a problem, my friends brother, we'll call him mark, has a MASSIVE crush on me and I'm not sure i feel the same way.. I might a little bit, but definatly not the way he feels about me! I stayed at his house for a few days this summer because his sister is my best friend... or one of them, and i came in looking like myself, i am big on makeup and hair and stuff, but i came out with none, if not hardly and makeup on, a couple zits and limp hair that was a little greasy. I didnt look to good and a week or so later he said that he thinks that im beautiful - not hot, beautiful. On my first night there, my friend fell asleep on the couch and so it was just him and i, we talked for three or so hours and it was so easy to talk to him, and i could tell he was sooo happy he got to talk to just me... im not sure if that means anything but just thought i would share that with you.
Please help, im so confused as what to do!
and i cant ask him out because my friend would kill me! (link)
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Well this is a sticky situation... maybe you could get his Screen-Name(if he has one) and talk to him online/or maybe on the phone... and get to know him a little better. like you said you like you think you like him a little bit.. well fi that grows and you do end up likeing him I would sit your friend down and tell her your feelings make sure that this wont intrude on your friendship but you have feelings for her brother and are curious what would happen... Good luck champ!
Stay beautiful, stay you!
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This is so weird but..my friend has a pic of my ex bf that I like so much and she made him a website and it has the picture. When I saw the picture, I started crying. I dont even know why. Maybe cuz I haven't seen him for 4 months striaght. I'm supposed to be hanging out with him when I get back from vacation. What if when I see him i want to start crying?? What can I do and why did i start crying like that?? How can help myself from crying when I see him?? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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AWW honey, You must miss him like crazii, thats most likely why you started to cry... as for why you cry... its just emotions... nothing we have control over unfortunately... but if you do see him and feel like crying make sure you can get to a bathroom or a private place fast. hope i helped!
stay beautiful, stay you!
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ok well i really want a botfreind!!! i am 13/f and i really want one this summer or school year! i have alot of guy friends but, its not the same, i want someone i could kiss and hug and stuff!! PLEASE HELP i will rate high!!!
=-(
signed,
lonley (link)
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Hey there! ever heard the expresion "do the right thing and the next right thing will happen"? well it basicly means just dont worry about it for now, worry about school and friend relationships... everything will fall into place, but if your really desperate just do nothing but flirt... one of them will egt the hint... i mean guys are stupid but not that stupid lol..
Stay beautiful, stay you!
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if you talk to a boy online and you never saw him and you love eachother and have soo much in common and stuff, is that considered have a boyfriend even though you have never saw him and stuff?? bc i really love this guy and he feels the sam way but he lives real far away. is this like a boyfriend? and if it is say i went out with him and then i have a boyfriend here, would that be cheating on my online boyfriend?
I RATE SOOOO HIGH!!!
please help me quick!!
signed,
young, curious and in love (link)
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Well sure you can be in love... you dont have to hug and kiss to be going out... althought please be carefull i know this guys might seem harmless, but there are a bunch of sick-o's out there.(I'm not saying what your doing is wrong... i mean HEY my dad met my step mom online, and now they are married and have a new baby^____^). And if you two do decide you are dating it would be considered cheating if you had another boyfriend besides him.
stay beautiful, stay you!
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Can i simply have a yes or no answer to this question:
My brother used to put his hands down the back of my trousers and grab my butt and stuff like that, i told him to stop but he wouldnt. is this abuse? (link)
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Yes
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What do guys look for in a girl? It seems like all the guys go for the sluts and they don't want an actual relationship. (link)
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Guys make act that way... but tust me all they want is sexual stuff from the girl... so don't lower yourself to their level. Stay the same you you've always been. In the long run they will want a real girl, a real relationship not just a slut who can give them what they want for 10 minutes then be done. hope i heleped!
Stay beautiful! stay you!
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how do you get over boys? i was with this guy for 7 months, we never officially dated but it was known that we were together. we had a sexual relationship and i fell for him big time. he suddenly started fooling around with his ex girlfriend behind my back and told me that he never really liked me to begin with. we hadnt had sex until about 8 days before we split and so he had no reason to keep me around to use me. he wasnt getting any benefits for staying with me for 7 months because i never really "did" anything for him. i know hes in denial that he never liked me. once i found out about him and his ex girlfriend (he never told me, my frined did) i decided to stop talking to him completely. i havent spoken to or seen him in 2 weeks. i unfortunatly cannto stop thinking about him. any advice...i know this was long sorry ill rate high (link)
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Well everyone has a first love... your story reminds me of my 1st love... I was "the girl on the side" and we were very very close... but after we had done some stuff.... he stopped treating me the way he use to, he was just plain mean, and he just started to ignore me completely. So i can some-what understand what you feel... It's going to be hard, but you have to go on with life, whenever you start to think about him think of something else like what your going to do with your friends over the weekend, flirt with other guys, act as if you and him never had a thing... it might take a while... but there is no magic cure... you can't just forget about him over night... you can do it, you seem like a strong girl...
hope i helped! Good luck!
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OK, my problem is a bit weird. I'm 16, and that's normal, at least I hope. Anyways, I relised on my vacation last week that I never want to get married. And this isn't one of those "Oh, you're still too young to decide" things. It is one of those impulses that I know I'll have for the rest of my life.
Yet, I still want a child when I'm older. A few years back, I had another one of these impulses which told me that I do not want a child of my own, but I want to adopt.
I really don't know. Is this normal? Or is something wrong with me? (link)
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Its not at all weird! some people know exactly what they want from the time they are 5 or 6... and others are never staying the same, they are always changing... its a good thing you know what you want to do with your life. you have a goal and this will help you because you know what you want and nothing will get in the way.
hope i helped! good luck!
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I'm totally in love with my boyfriend.. How can I show him how much I love him? He went away for a week, and when he comes back I want to surprise him with something. (link)
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well there are a lot of things you could do.... you could:
Have a welcome back party
at this part have:
~his favorite foods
~best friends
~buy/make him something special(like a card or poem)
Good luck! hope i helped!
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this guy i have been hanging out with said that he wanted us to be friends nothing more, but maybe in time we could be bf and gf. I was fine with that. i heard later (from a girl that i trust) that he had a girlfriend. I asked him and he denied it. i dont care that he has a gf...its just we have made out and done stuff together...now i feel like a slut. What should i do with this guy? forget about him or still be his "friend." (link)
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well whatever you do DONT feel like a slut, i've been in your shoes! i would ask around... ask more than just your friends, and if other people say he has a girlfriend i would say they're right. and of course you could still be his friend, but be sure to talk to him... let him know how you feel! and let him know you will not be lied to... make sure your the boss! lol it always scares guys, and they will not DARE lie to you again!
xoxo-hope i was useful
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