Yesterday me and my boy friend (of two months)were walking holding hands when my friend who was in a fight with another friend goes "We should kill every one named mary" What does he say? "NO because with out the M its Amy"Is my name Amy? NO! Amy is his ex he was greiving about until i asked him out! Did he like me or did he do it cause he couldn't say no or did he feel sorry for me? please i need help
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He's not that bright is he, Mary take away the M is Ary not Amy!
So he really mustve been thinking of her!
I'm sure he likes you and only you can really tell. Confront him, see how he acts, you'll know I promise!
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me: 20.f.asian, him: 21.m.white. in short: i'm falling for my bf, but lately i've been feeling things like: wanting to date someone w/ my race/him having a daughter is starting to bother me. half of me thinks i want to be w/ him for a long time, the other half says i want to be single/date around. advice?
I agree with "ohmylucydarling"
If there reservations of any kind, he IS not the man for you. End it now. It's not fair to him or the little girl for that matter. You are young and it is healthy to be single. You have a chance to get to know yourself. Have fun, flirt, date. Trust me when the right guy comes along whether your race or not, girl you will know, because it will fit perfectly. You won't be able to imagine your life WITHOUT him
As hard as it is to leave the relationship, it'll be harder in a year....
Take a deep breath, say a prayer to the gods and jump in
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i have a crush in school, and at one point he liked. me. then i made the stupid mistake by not liking him. i really really really like him now, and his birthday is next week, and i dont know what to do. what do i get him?!?!? do i tell him i like him again? he knows i really like him, and he acted annoyed by me, but im not annoying :( help. what do i do for his birthday?!
If you really really like him, take the time to research and find out the perfect gift for him. Buy a card and in it say something like,," what an ass I was. You were there the whole time and I didn't notice you. Or, I had my head up my butt, I can't believe I didn't notice you then. I think you are awesome and if you give me a chance, I won't let you down" of course in your own words, I am old.... Hahahah
Straight, blunt honesty goes along way. Admitting that you were an idiot (not literally) takes the awkwardness away. Leave the gift and card somewhere you're certain he'll find it. If you are the courageous type, tell him in person, making sure you look hot and act cute... Use any humor you can think of. People really respect someone who can admit things about themselves.
Now, there is always the risk of rejection. You have to ask
yourself if he's worth that risk. If not, then you can leave it to fate!
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me and my ex had a ruff ending the last time we dated but since then i forgave him and we are quite good friends... My feelings for him never left and recently hes been flirting with me and dropping hints that he wants somthing more than a friendship.
At the same time i have a slight crush on this boy in my grade hes never dated b4 and this worries me.
Whilst i like both these guys i talk to a mate of mine on fb. He goes to my school although we never talk there... we talk on fb for hours on end i im developing a slight crush on him also.... im not sure what to do i cannot have them all.
I say, flirt with em all. You have not made a commitment to any of them nor are you dating anyone exclusively. After some time flirting and having fun you'll know which one you really like... You are young and this is the time for flirting, socializing and having fun. If you Don't cross lines, there is no harm. Crossing lines meaning making anyone of them believe they are THE ONE!! Keep it light! Trust me, you'll know when the right one comes along!!!
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Hi im a 22 yr old female and me and my girlfriend of 3 yrs have been having problems because she says we dont have an emotional connection. the problem is i dont even really know what that means. I dont know how to give her that. Its really putting a damper on our relationship. Any advice?? Thanks in advance.
It's when two people connect on a very deep level. These are examples only: You see your friend crying, it stirs in you tears to well up as well. Or, she laughs and although you don't find it funny, you can't help but laugh because her laughter influences you to laugh too! Or, her feelings are hurt, and although you may think she's overreacting, you can't help but feel the same hurt and instinctivly you want to fix it. Your feelings override your thoughts of logic when it comes to her.
It's a connection you can't really see or explain. Emotions are not logical!
What can you do about it? That's tough because the flip side is that if she really cares for you, she will understand you are not made up that way. Some people are just NOT emotional
and there is nothing wrong with that. Accepting each other for who and what you are defines a true
friendship/relationship
Yes, sometimes we need to change or work on our
shortcomings and character. So here Id suggest ( if she really
means that much to you and you will do anything to make it
work) stop, close your eyes and feel what she feels. Meditate
if you will, by putting yourself in her shoes, pretending to feel
what she does. Imagine a silver chord connecting the two of
you.
Since emotions are more spiritual in nature, you need to take the time to get in touch with YOUR spirit!
If even after trying it's the same, you are best suited with someone like minded. Sometimes things don't work cause there is something better for you out there! It's always painful when relationship/friendships come to an end, but it is a part of life. I wish for all your friendships to be easy, where you just " get each other" it's not supposed to be hard!
Blessed Be
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This girl and I used to talk and we did for awhile but she decided she just wanted to be friends. We're pretty much best friends and she tells me she trust me with everything (I still like her a lot) but if something is wrong she won't tell me what's bothering her anymore, it kind of hurts. We don't talk a lot either or as much as we used to. She periodically complains about how close we used to be and how its not like that but she doesn't really do anything to change that when I'm trying my absolute hardest. Like I said I still have feelings for her but she only sees me as a friend now but I'm starting to get confused now, its as if she doesn't want anything to do with me. We'll talk in the morning and a little at night and that's it, she'll just stop texting me all of a sudden for some reason. Its just weird...
A couple of answers here.
1: she knows you feel more for her than
she you and doesn't know how to be best friends anymore, so she is pulling back from you.
2: something is going on with her, something painful and she isn't sure on how to communicate it!
What can you do? Unfortunately my dear, there's not much you can do. Unless you want to win her heart. If you do, always be there whether she talks or not.
Sometimes people need to sort their feelings out silently.
She will come around.
Pull her aside, look in her eyes and tell her exactly the way you feel! First figure out how you feel so you're clear, then BE HONEST...
Good luck
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Well im going into High School next year and there is this really cute guy on the football and and wrestling team and he is 1 grade older me and he knows I like him but we have never talked my cuz told him and just smiles and he will look at me and smile and turn away but my question is when I do get to High School how can I get him to like me how do I make him mine. thats just how much I like him this may sound silly but I think I love him. I dream about him every night and think about him constantly and when he looks at me I loose my breath my heart skips a beat its like I need him. Please help me you could change my life. Please help me nomatter how dramatic I may sound but its true. What do I do? What do I say? Please and Thank you!
I believe you and I had the same experience while I was your age. I was so so in love with this guy I didn't even know. If you feel it now, it is real. dont' let anyone tell you different.
IF this guy is a good guy, someone who is NOT stuck on himself and has a good heart, have your friend introduce him to you. Before this happens, write on a peice of paper, in colors, how you want this introduction to go. In detail, write it out... Don't leave anything out.
Meditate before hand, seeing yourself as someone to gets any man she wants. Imagine him feeling the same way about you as you do him, Feel confidant, not stuck up. Trust you will say the right thing when the time comes, and you have built up your confidance. Say affirmations to yourself, such as, "I am witty and always say the right things." Then you will.
If after doing all you can, and he isn't interested, please please, please know, the perfect guy, someone much cuter and nicer is waiting for you, and its only a matter of time you meet him. He will treat you like a princess and kiss the ground you walk on.
Good luck.
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20/f, do not laugh at me, haha..
I've started hanging out with this guy that I'm really really starting to like. It's been a long time since I've gotten butterflies like this, and I've had them ever since I met this boy. I'm pretty sure he likes me too, because we openly flirt, but we've only hung out once before and that was with mutual friends. We're both SUPER shy.
We're hanging out at his house alone Friday night and I'm really nervous. We're gonna watch movies and stuff and through texts we've been flirting and "joking" about us cuddling and holding hands.
Basically, and excuse me for being such a loser, I need to know how to naturally make flirty physical contact.. like how do I put my head on his shoulder while still kinda being cute and subtle? I don't want to sit far away from him like middle schoolers do. Any other tips and advice for movie date night you can offer??? I haven't dated in over a year. Help! Thanks in advance, advicenators.
I agree with jobrolvor. Take a deep breath, smile, and hold his hand. Or when talking or laughing, nonchalantly tap his shoulder.
Sit close to him on the couch. There are many opportunities to show him you want to be touched.
I like the scary movie technique, very brilliant.
When you two greet each other, give him an extra long hug, make direct eye contact and a nice long peck on the lips...
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people at my boyfriend is going around the school telling my boyfriend friends that im ugly and i really think are relationship is about to end and myboyfriend mom think he need to think about school before he need a girl friend and i really dont want to loose this boy this is my heart and my soul mate i really love him please help
If he truly is your soul mate, you will be his too, and he will defend you from the rumors and not let his mom influence him. If he breaks up with you because of these things, as painful as it will be, he is NOT your soul mate.
What you can do is be honest with him and share with him your fears and your feelings. It is a scary thing to do, but this is all you can do. If this doesn't work, Walk with pride, care about your appearance, smile on the outside until you start smiling on the inside. Let him see your inner beauty. Men do love a woman with confidence.
Know your worth, you are a beautiful woman... Dont let any man make you feel less than that.
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