Well im going into High School next year and there is this really cute guy on the football and and wrestling team and he is 1 grade older me and he knows I like him but we have never talked my cuz told him and just smiles and he will look at me and smile and turn away but my question is when I do get to High School how can I get him to like me how do I make him mine. thats just how much I like him this may sound silly but I think I love him. I dream about him every night and think about him constantly and when he looks at me I loose my breath my heart skips a beat its like I need him. Please help me you could change my life. Please help me nomatter how dramatic I may sound but its true. What do I do? What do I say? Please and Thank you!
IF this guy is a good guy, someone who is NOT stuck on himself and has a good heart, have your friend introduce him to you. Before this happens, write on a peice of paper, in colors, how you want this introduction to go. In detail, write it out... Don't leave anything out.
Meditate before hand, seeing yourself as someone to gets any man she wants. Imagine him feeling the same way about you as you do him, Feel confidant, not stuck up. Trust you will say the right thing when the time comes, and you have built up your confidance. Say affirmations to yourself, such as, "I am witty and always say the right things." Then you will.
If after doing all you can, and he isn't interested, please please, please know, the perfect guy, someone much cuter and nicer is waiting for you, and its only a matter of time you meet him. He will treat you like a princess and kiss the ground you walk on.
Katlyn answered Sunday March 21 2010, 8:02 pm: I think you should just go up to him or have a friend introduce him to you and then just talk to him about his wresting or football and ask if he would like to hang out and eventually he will tell you if he likes you or not and ya just hang out with him because thats the only way he will notice you or even start to have feelings about you. [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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