Hey Guys! My name is Laci, I'm 18 years old. If you send me a question I will try and answer it ASAP :-)
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Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend? (link)
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You are going to have to ask your friend before you make any type of moves. Make sure he is ok with it because thats the last thing you would want to do or who you would want to hurt. If the girl really liked the guy a lot then I say just be a close friend to her and try to help her out and when you notice that she is over it then wait 2 more days and ask her on a date. If she is already over it then I would wait about a week then ask her out on a date. But just make sure you asked your friend if he is cool with it or not. The girl might not care going out with you even though she was with your friend. But I'm not that girl so I can't really say. Hope I helped! Let me know if you need anything else!
*Laci
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I'm 13 years old and female, and almost everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend / girlfriend or at least someone who likes them. Not me! I'm going into 8th grade, I have freckles and pale skin and I'm a redhead. I have friends, but boys like to tease me or they avoid me. help?
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My boyfriend is a redhead and he has pale ksin and freckles. Not everyone is attracted to redheads like not everyone is attracted to blondes or brunettes. I personally think redheads are cute! But don't get down on yourself because you havent had a boyfriend sooner than later you will find an amazing boy that you will be with. Untill then just live it up with your friends. Your turn will come to have a boyfriend. Hope I helped!
*Laci
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heyy im 13 and i was wondering how can i start a good converstation with my boyfriend on the phone (link)
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You could always start a good convo by asking him how his day went, if he did anything fun, if hes all ready to go back to school. You could always talk about what he wants to be when he gets older or you could just talk about movies youve seen. Just keep it simple those usually end up in the greatest convos. Hope I helped! If you need anythign else I'll be glad to help!
*Laci
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Im 21 and female. I broke up with a guy about 2 years ago and ive had feelings for him ever since. I basically broke up with him because of another guy and regreted it after. Weve kept in touch and im pretty sure im in love with him and have been even since we broke up. I recently found out he is going to propose to his girlfriend. This really upset me and i dont want him to marry her. I guess my question is, is it wrong for me to tell him how i feel about him since hes planning on marrying this other girl? Should i tell him or should i just leave it alone and try to move on?
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I saw you should tell him. But that just might be me. These would be my reasons for telling him if I was in your situation:
-He might not know how you feel for him
-You don't want to you the rest of your life knowing that if you told him how you felt it might of changed his mind marrying his girlfriend.
-You will feel a whole lot better knowing that its not on your chest.
-You can see what he says. If he says he doesn't have those feelings then you can just live by the mistake you made and try to move on.
-Its better to get feelings situated so friendships can build.
There are some other good reasons, if you think about it. I say tell him. Hope I helped! If you need anything else I'll be glad to help you!
*Laci
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i think i'm gonna tell this guy i like him tomorrow. the problem with that was...yesterday i thought i was going to do it today...but i didn't. i think it's because 1) i have no idea how to put it into words that don't creep him out a bit, and 2) i open my mouth to do it, just..improvise...and the words melt away and i'm left with air...
so my question is this....how and when should i do it? i see him at lunch all the time, and he rides my bus, if that helps any. (link)
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Don't do it on a bus. Dpending on his reacton theres no way you can get away from him. Also you might not want people to over hear it or anything. You could tell him at lunch like you could pull him aside. Or when I was younger I would write people notes. So you could always try doing it in a note. Or to save yourself from embarassment you could just ask him for his screenname and start talking to him online and then be like I like you or whateva you plan on saying. I suggest you just say "hey, you know what, i kinda like you" I say do it online. Hope I helped! Let me know if you need anything else!
*Laci
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do you think that it is weird that a 24 year old guy is dating a 16 yr old girl? i do but i need other opinions, the girl is my best friend and i dont like it. I need help on how i can be more open about the situation. please help!!! (link)
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I think its not weird. I know a lot of people that do that I just cant understand why guys have to go so low as to find someone who isnt legal to drink, buy cigs, buy scratch tickets, or DRIVE. Also guys that are that much older are more experienced with sexual, emotional, physical things. To tell you the honest truth I'm not into that much of an age difference. If it really bothers you, you could always talk to your friend about it. Try to show her that hes so much older and hes more experienced and can pressure her into doing things without her even knowing shes being pressured. Hope I helped! If you need anything else let me know!
*Laci
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umm a couple days ago this guy asked me out but he didnt really just ask he was like umm so if we like eachother maybe we should hook up sumtime . .i'm kinda confused . .can sumone translate pleas?thankss
kelsey (link)
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Well it depends where your from, guys in Mass will say maybe we should hook up sumtime meaning maybe we should fool around. If your from or around Mass chances are thats what he meant. It also depends on your age. But I'm almost positive that hook up means fool around all over the US. Hope I helped! Drop me one if you need anythign else!
*Laci
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okay...i was with this guy for a month and then we had sex but the next day an old guy friend called me and we talked for a while even tho i was still at his house. then he got really upset and started yelling at me and i yelled at him saying how he cant talk to me like that and he slapped me across the face. i broke up wit him right then and there and called my sister to come pick me up and the next day he called me saying how hes so sorry he was just going through a lot and has so much stress on his back (which i knew he did) and he called me and asked me to take him back..this was today and i know that i shouldnt but i love him and i have all these feelings for him..what should i do because there is always a chance that he could do it again???? (link)
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Don't take him back. He might have stress in his life and on his back but that doesn't give him the right to physically abuse you. No one has that right. I think you deserve better than that and can get better than that. He might be sorry because he realized that you left him. I personally think, if he hit you this early in the relationship I'm sure he will again when feelings get stronger. Hope I helped! If you need anything else let me know ok?
*Laci
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ok..i've just started talking to this guy on the internet and my friends have told me good (: things about him and im really starting to like him..but he has a grl friend and shes younger than me..how do i give him hints that i like him but i still want him to know i respect that he has a grl friend? (link)
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Just come straight out and tell him you like him but you respect that he has a girlfriend. That's the best way to do it, because he might not get the hints if you give them. Some people get flirted with a lot and dont know when someone is being seirous or not.
*Laci
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my family is very racist and very controlling when it comes to mixed relationships and recently i started goin ot wit an 18 year purtirican/black guy. i am italian/mexican and im 14 my family stilll does not no and i dont no what i should do bout this i wanna be with him but i dont want my family to disown me at all. what should i do ? (link)
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You should sit down and talk to them. They might hvae a problem with his age because he is 4 years older than you and probably very mature and wanting to try things you ahvent done yet. Don't get pressured into doing them only because you want to be with him. Your family needs to understand that its unfair to be racist on someone that they dont even know. If they don't approve then tell them you are going to do it anyway, if then they ay they are going to disown you. Your goign to have to pick but I doubt they will disown you. They proabbly will just have to get to know him so hang around the house for a while!
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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Is it ok to have a make-out buddy? I mean, not a sex buddy, we're not having sex...but we're only making out once in a while. We dont like eachother, but is it still ok? Does it make me a slut? (link)
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It's ok just as long as you don't have a boyfriend and he doesn't have a girlfriend or dating anyone. Just make sure that he doesn't have any feelings at all because if he did that would be basically leading him on. And ofcourse it does NOT make you a slut. People call other people sluts when they are insecure about themselves. You could be a virgin and never even touched a boy and people could be calling you a slut. It's basically nothing personal.
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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i'll be 16 dis (link)
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i answered this on the first question you sent me! Hope this helped!
*Laci
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Well i'v lyked dis boi since da beginig of da
"03-04" school year and i knew when he first sat nxt to me in class i would lyk him. we flirt wit each otha lyk 24/7 n EVRYONE use to ask y i dont go wit him n i was lyk "ur askin da wrong person"! he was really popular n ALOT of grls lykd him so he flirted alot, n i got jealous but neva really let it get to me cuz i flirt alot too! but he moved durin x-mas break n we kept in touch n planned to go to da movies a couple timz but neva wrkd out. is dat a sign i should move on? He's also da type dat dont call, he want u to call but i dont lyk dat but i do neways. well i havnt called him since june 13 n i REALLY miss talkin to him! i mean he makes me melt when i hug him and i smile when i hear his voice and i just think im in love, but sometimes i fell lyk he dont feel da same. My b-day comin up dis thurs (July 8) ima see if he rememeber....if he dont should i 4 get him? or call? or wut? PLZ HELP
P.S do u think im in love?
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Well first I need to kno how old you are goin to be
You should call him after your birthday if he didn't remember and ask him whats up. Be like hey, i feel like your leading em on and everytime we try and make plans they never seem to happen. What up with this? Is there anything between us or are we just friends. And if he does remember your birthday or call you before it then you should just ask him the same thing. Hope this helped I'll be glad to answer any more questions!
*Laci
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Me and my ex were together for 10 months and we loved eachother alot! Everything was great and we hung out everyday..recently he started to work alot and we drifted apart a litle bit. We'd only see eachother a few days a week. Well then it started to be like a week 1/2 without hearing from him so naturally I would track him down and ask what was up! He told me nothing and its just he's been "really busy" but hes going to find more time for me, blah blah blah blah. Next thing you know he shows up MY BIRTHDAY NIGHT at 2 a.m and of course stupid me drops my friends and goes with him!! Ugh Im so stupid. So we went to HIS buddies house,ended up having sex and he took me home the next afternoon. He kissed me told me he loved me and I never heard from him ever again! Its like he disappeared?! A couple weeks later he has another girlfriend!! And everytime I see him out on the town he acts as if NOTHING ever happened between us! Even if hes alone without his girl, he acts this way! Whats goin on? Im still deeply in love with him and I need some VERY GOOD advice. Please HELP
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Seems to me from what you said that he was just using you for sex. Did he know it was your birthday? Maybe he thought you might of wnated "Birthday Sex"? Just try and get over him because obv if he has a new girlfriend he has moved on. Try not to let it bother you and go out with your friends and scope out the guys! Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any of your questions!
*Laci
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