My name is Charles. I want whoever is reading to know that Jesus Christ Changes Things. Jesus has made such a change in my life. How I think and see the world and everything around me. I love to worship and praise the Lord. I like to play football, and I sing(Good) too. Ima coo guy that gets along with pretty much anyone. So if you a coo person holla at ya boy. Especially the Ladies.
- Much Luv
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Age: 17
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Ok.. this has been buggin me alot lately.. I'm 14/f, and I have never had a b/f. I know that my time will conme and everything, and Ijust have to wait. But, what bugs me is that I know I'm not gorgeous, or really skinny or anything, but I see girls who are a heck of alot uglier, and bigger than me who have b/f's, so it just makes me feel like there's something wrong with me, cause they can get b/f's and I can't. So, I know my time will come, but, my main question is how are people gettin b/fs when they are so ugly and fat, and the normal girls dont? I rate 5's!!! Thanks!! (link)
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The reason why a lot of those girls r w/ guys is because they either do stuff to them or the guy is using them. Know that there is a guy out there that will love you and be able to tend to your needs. Understand that you don't have to do stuff to guys or fake who you are to be with someone. You just keep being yourself. Don't try to please guys or fake who you are 2 be with them because you'll only end up being hurt and lonely.
-God Bless
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Saw a waitress (shes 21, im 25) at local pub, big crush, five months later I'm pretty sure she likes me, never talked to her but she stole glances (as did i) so I asked her out for coffee, she said yes. I phone her the next week, she is ill, phone again a couple of times to hear how she is doing. The next sunday I phone her again, no awnser, 5 minutes later she sms me back that she has a boyfriend "but we can still have coffee". I sms back that she should just give me some time, decide to get over it.
Next time I'm at the pub she comes and chats with me (sitting next to me), and the next time, and the next. The more we talk the more I love her. She even tells me when shes working (I didn't ask). Last Tuesday i'm there again, chat chat chat. One of my friends drips wax on her hand and it comes out that she doesn't have any feeling in her hands, looked at her hands, her left hand, her ringfinger has a ring on, ask if shes engaged, she replies yes, ask how long, she replies that since a month back (the weekend after I first called her). Promptly ask the her to fetch us some tequila and toasted on her good fortune, put on the "Nothings-wrong-Im-the
happiest-bastard-here" act, drink alot more, enough for me to lose self control (not falling over or slurring-speech) and I tell her that I have liked her since the first time I saw her (17 February, 19-21:00) shes still working so she
away from the table comes back and i notice her eyeshadows is a tad smudged.
I go home later weeping and cursing, the whole week im a total mess, can't sleep for more than 2-3 hours, I'm a bit better now, could actually sleep last night thanks to some pills.
I don't want to see her again, but if I close my eyes there she is staring back, and if I see her again I'm going to fall apart all over again.
I don't know what to do, do I move to a differant city, country? do i try to break up a relationship that has gone on this long for a chance of karma biting us on the ass?
i REALLY need some advice. (link)
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I think you should tell her how you deeply feel. Say everything you feel when you are with her and how you feel when you are apart. If you don't let it off your chest you will regret it forever. Tell her how you feel about her. Ask if she felt nothing when you were together. Ask her how she feels about you, but after you tell her how you feel about her. If she gets married and doesn't know exactly how you feel about her, both of you might regret it for the rest of your lives. Let if off your chest so you won't be burdened and so you won't regret that you said nothing to her about how you feel. Tell her how beautiful she is and about little quirks she has that you love and about how much you love to see her smile. Tell her that if she were with you you would never want to see her cry. Tell her that if she were with you, you would make sure she had joy even when she is sad. Tell her you love her and you can't live without her. Tell her that whoever she is marrying can't love her as much as you can. There not married yet, but show her she can have true everlasting love with you.
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Over the past 2 months, I've had 4 crushes. One of them I met online, she likes me too; one of them likes me as a friend; one of them I really don't give a damn, but I think she was hitting on me; and one of them is my best friend's sister. So, when I had a crush, when I loved, it was the best feeling of my life. I never wanted to lose that feeling, it was (I quote "What is this feeling?" from Wicked) "Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe". But in a good way. A very very good way. Problem is, I've lost the feeling. Good feeling's gone. I love no longer. But I want to love despaately, I really do! I want to keep the feeling! I want to be truly happy again! Advicenators, what should I do? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. There was a point in my life where I had just gotten out of a 1-year relationship and I wanted that feeling again. But you know what if you keep searching for love from girls you'll never be satisfied. That feeling that you feel is a void. And Love is the only thing that can fill that void. But not love from a girl. Love from Jesus. Jesus Loves you more than you'll ever know. He even knows the person that your suppose to be with. And he wants you to be with her. Don't try and chase girls because you'll only get heartbroken and bitter. Live your life for Jesus and he'll put that special girl in our life.
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im not happy where i live. all people want to do here is drink.smoke and act fake. im not like that. i feel like im losing all my friends because they are all either moving or turning like "them" (only wanting to drink.
smoke + act fake) i want to move. but then again i dont. but i need to meet new people and be in a new place.. i feel so helpless.. i may be moving anways but do you think that will help? i just dont feel happy.. i dont know what i need but theres got to be more to life.. the only thing i want to do is move away.. become famous and seek love.. untill then im dying here... does any1 have any advice on that.. and thanks!! (link)
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Yes, there is more 2 life. There's a life in Jesus. Because w/o Jesus you have no life. You don't know who you are or what your purpose is. Jesus Loves YOU more than you'll ever know. He came down from Heaven and came to this Earth and died on the cross for YOUR sins. And even if YOU were the only person on Earth he still would have came. Jesus wants to help YOU and bless you. He doesn't wanna condemn YOU he wants to save YOU.
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for YOU," declared the Lord," plans to prosper YOU and not to harm YOU, plans to give YOU hope and a future.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish(Go to Hell) but have everlasting life(in Heaven). 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
Jesus Loves you so much and he is happy that you don't wanna drink, smoke, or be fake. But he wants you to pursue Him. He wants to help you and take away all the hurt, pain, shame, lonlieness, sorrow, grief, hopelessness, sadness, depression, everything he wants to take it away and make you feel whole and new.
Revelation 21:4(This is in Heaven)
He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order oF things has passed away.
Pursue Him and your LIFE WILL CHANGE!!!!!!!!
I'm a living witness; it's true.
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im not happy where i live. all people want to do here is drink.smoke and act fake. im not like that. i feel like im losing all my friends because they are all either moving or turning like "them" (only wanting to drink.
smoke + act fake) i want to move. but then again i dont. but i need to meet new people and be in a new place.. i feel so helpless.. i may be moving anways but do you think that will help? i just dont feel happy.. i dont know what i need but theres got to be more to life.. the only thing i want to do is move away.. become famous and seek love.. untill then im dying here... does any1 have any advice on that.. and thanks!! (link)
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Yes, there is more 2 life. There's a life in Jesus. Because w/o Jesus you have no life. You don't know who you are or what your purpose is. Jesus Loves YOU more than you'll ever know. He came down from Heaven and came to this Earth and died on the cross for YOUR sins. And even if YOU were the only person on Earth he still would have came. Jesus wants to help YOU and bless you. He doesn't wanna condemn YOU he wants to save YOU.
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for YOU," declared the Lord," plans to prosper YOU and not to harm YOU, plans to give YOU hope and a future.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish(Go to Hell) but have everlasting life(in Heaven). 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
Jesus Loves you so much and he is happy that you don't wanna drink, smoke, or be fake. But he wants you to pursue Him. He wants to help you and take away all the hurt, pain, shame, lonlieness, sorrow, grief, hopelessness, sadness, depression, everything he wants to take it away and make you feel whole and new.
Revelation 21:4(This is in Heaven)
He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order oF things has passed away.
Pursue Him and your LIFE WILL CHANGE!!!!!!!!
I'm a living witness; it's true.
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ok so i finally got the courage to tell a guy friend of mine that i really him, and it took me forever! He told me that it was good news to hear, and then he's been gone at camp to help little kids and everything... it was all pretty new to us to tell eachother how we felt. And he and my friend just broke up (she cheated on him) and so they're not even friends anymore.. i was jw how to keep him intrested when he comes back? I want him to know i'm still kinda crazy about him.. but i don't know where to start.. and i don't wanna come off psycho! please help! thanks!
----> the girl next door (link)
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Just stay the same. He's probably thinkin about you just as much as you are thinkin about him. So, when he comes back just so him some interest and affection and he'll feed off of that.
-God Bless
Jesus IS The Way
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my boyfriend of 7 months got drunk the other night and planned on hiding it from me. i found out from someone else who was there. my boyfriend always promised & swore that he would never drink and how stupid he was. he ended up getting drunk with his friend and when i found out, i gave my boyfriend soooo many chances to confess and tell me the truth and he didnt. later he finally admitted it and i was so outraged that i broke up with him and told him i never want to see him again, and i hung up. he hasnt tried to call me or fix things up. my friends called him and said he was crying and too afraid to talk to me. i dont want to call him first...but should i forgive him? he broke my trust. (link)
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You should forgive him. People make mistakes and that's a part of life. If you rely on people all the time to come through they'll almost always fail you. Put your faith in Jesus and he'll never let you down. Plus you can't be forgiven of your sins if you don't forgive others. That's what the Bible says. In addition to that you never know when you'll mess up and need someone to forgive you and show you mercy.
-God Bless
Jesus IS The Way
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my boyfriend of 7 months got drunk the other night and planned on hiding it from me. i found out from someone else who was there. my boyfriend always promised & swore that he would never drink and how stupid he was. he ended up getting drunk with his friend and when i found out, i gave my boyfriend soooo many chances to confess and tell me the truth and he didnt. later he finally admitted it and i was so outraged that i broke up with him and told him i never want to see him again, and i hung up. he hasnt tried to call me or fix things up. my friends called him and said he was crying and too afraid to talk to me. i dont want to call him first...but should i forgive him? he broke my trust. (link)
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You should forgive him. People make mistakes and that's a part of life. If you rely on people all the time to come through they'll almost always fail you. Put your faith in Jesus and he'll never let you down. Plus you can't be forgiven of your sins if you don't forgive others. That's what the Bible says. In addition to that you never know when you'll mess up and need someone to forgive you and show you mercy.
-God Bless
Jesus IS The Way
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0k wat do u like in a girl? do you like there eyes? body,boobs,personality?
what do you want your gf to be like?
plz answer my question!
i rate high!
btw im 13 and oh yeah whats like the age range or w.e that you pick a girl in?
thankz (link)
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You shouldn't shrive to be a people pleaser all the time. Be yourself. Be who you are. If you try and change and make yourself into something your not you'll end up hating who you are and the guys you do hook-up with won't be about nothing and they'll treat you wrong and then you'll be the one looking stupid and being hurt. If you be yourself the right guy for you will come along and give you the love and respect you deserve. Just make sure that you stay clean and like how you look when you leave the house. Confidence is sexy. Wear it!
-God Bless
Jesus IS The Way
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do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him? (link)
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Yes.
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I have a boyfriend named Banard. He farts.. IN PUBLIC! I love him and his farts, but not in public! I mean, I don't wanna be called names, because of him. And, my parents thinks it's soo unexceptable that he farts in public. How should I talk to him about this? What do I do?!?!? HELLPP MEE! PLEASE!
Signed,
Fartness Confused (link)
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Tell him that you love him and his fart and you don't have a problem with him farting EXCEPT when you are in public. Say that it's just rude and nobody likes it.
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This is a long story, theres a shorter question if you want on my next post this is all the details thou ....I'm 14 F, and I really like this guy and we were talking on IM yesterday and I had already told him that I liked him and he said he liked me but that was a long time ago and we kept saying that we'd do something like go to the mall or movies but we never did. So yesterday we were talking and I was like who do you like at the moment, and he's like well theres alot more people flirtin around with me than I am with them. Then I asked like who, and he wouldn't tell me (I knew I was one of them) so anyways I begged and pleaded with him to tell me who else, and he never did, but then he said i wont go out with anyone who likes me right now (meaning me) so then i changed the subject and asked him why he went out with his ex girlfriend and he said it was a long story, then i asked why he liked his ex (its a diffrent question) and he (suprisingly) answered me he said because she was "fun" and he was bored and i was like 'fun meaning..?' and he said like she was just flirty, and i was like oh.. like talking flirty or something else? and he said like something else, and i was like 'what?', and he said like 'touchy' flirty, and i asked would you ever go out with some one like that again? and he said yeah if i could find someone then i said "this is soooo uuuunnnnnfffaiiirrr, yyoooouuu doooonnnttt knnnooowww what i would do if i actually saw youuuu i feell likkke a sssllluuut for saying this but its true!" then he asked what would i'd do if we were alone, then i said id do anything except for sex or stuff with sex in its name (i thought about it like 4 days before and i was going to tell him that i wanted to do stuff but i didnt know how to tell him, got that out of the way) (then i asked him what he thought of me saying that and he said he was intrested, which im glad because i want him) but ive never done any thing before and i dont really know what to do, or what there is to do....
what is there to do like between making out and sex(anykind)???
and if you want to tell me how, that would be more than helpful if you explain what it is
If you give an answer ill give you a 5, no dumb crap thou please! (link)
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Well, I think you should take the fact you are a virgin and never done anything a good thing. Think about the situation a month a two from now. You are probably going to regret messing with that guy. Clearly he only wants you to mess around with him. I think you should think about it some more and ask yourself do you really wanna do that. If a guy says he wants to mess around with you, he does't mean I wanna be with you. He just wants pleasure.
-God Bless
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