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ok i like this guy and i dont know what to do i dont know if he likes me or not.i dont know if i should tell him how i feel because i have been hurt in the past by guys what should i do?

tell him that you like him...and if it isnt the answer you want to hear screw him your still young and have all your life to find a guy so just live a little and ask him

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So I've been going out with this one guy for a little over a year and all of a sudden alot of people that I dont even know are telling me that he's cheated on me and I don't know who to believe. He's never cheated on any of his other girlfriends and I'm probably the most serious relationship he's been in so I can't really see him cheating on me but idk I could be blind. I have no proof but uhh what do you think?

well the thing to do is ask him not me...but if you are pretty sure that he's not cheating on you dont worry about it you aound like a good person who cares about people so i wouldnt let this bother you...

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i have several ?'s for you all mighty answerer of all ?'s...first: if you choke a smurf...what color does it turn? second: what day does the second full moon occur during the month of ramadan? third: i've liked this girl for like 4/5 months and i'm really not sure if there ever gonna be anything b/t us bcuz i hear all this crap about how much she likes/doesn't likes me and i'm very doubtful...whats there left for me to do but sit and wait to find out?

1st...red
2nd...During the Fast of Ramadan strict restraints are placed on the daily lives of Muslims. They are not allowed to eat or drink during the daylight hours. Smoking and sexual relations are also forbidden during fasting. At the end of the day the fast is broken with prayer and a meal called the iftar. In the evening following the iftar it is customary for Muslims to go out visiting family and friends. The fast is resumed the next morning

According to the Holy Quran:


One may eat and drink at any time during the night "until you can plainly distinguish a white thread from a black thread by the daylight: then keep the fast until night"

The good that is acquired through the fast can be destroyed by five things -

the telling of a lie
slander
denouncing someone behind his back
a false oath
greed or covetousness

These are considered offensive at all times, but are most offensive during the Fast of Ramadan

but to answer your ?...on the 27th evening
3rd...just ask her she'll tell you just ask my young son...

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I'm 5'6 and weigh about 128 to 130. Is that too fat for a guy to want to go out with me?

not at all your right in the good range...

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My b/f is 15 (and so am i)he's been trying to pressure me into having sex with him, but I want to wait until I'm married to have sex (I know, old fashioned,but I do!) So should I break up with him or what? Cause he won't let me say no!

well if what you just said was true then you might want to file for sexual assult if he's forcing you to do things you dont want to do...but def. break up with him he doesnt control you...

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I've been friends with this guy forever...and I really like him. I don't know what to do...but I really wanna go out with him and hook up with him. Sounds cliche: but i don't wanna ruin our friendship. Alternatives?

uhh..dont go out with him if you dont want to ruin your relationship im sure you can hold off if you
try too...if not best of luck...

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ok so there is this guy.. he is a senior and he knows i like him... and i think he has been dropping little hints that he likes me too, like one day he had sugar all over his mouth and he asked me to wipe it off for him... and it was so sweet.. he is always so flirty around me but idk... im not the most attracted girl and this guy is pretty popular... what do i do?

that all depends if your not a senior he probly isnt flirting with you from that one thing he did...he doesnt sound like the smooth...but if your convinced he's flirting with you talk to him about it...

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My boyfriend lives with me, and he's always here (I'm 14/f), that's not the problem though. I just feel like he never really pays attention to me. He's playing video games, or he's on the computer, and I do so much for him, all I want is attention. How do I talk to him, or make him want me more, not even in a sexual way, but I just want attention. How do I tell him this without him thinking I want sex and without him being mad and have it actually work? sorry it's confusing, but I really need advice. I'll rate.

well he's a 14 year old guy (im assuming) hes not interested in having a long term relationship the 2 things on his mind are 1) whats for dinner? 2) how do i beat level 5? just give him some time to develope and if that doesnt work maybe find another boyfriend....or you could just tell him but i dont think that will work as well...

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i have a friend who has liked this guy for 4 months...she obsesses over him...he is friends with my group of friends and recently i have started talking to him...he is really nice and really hott...i dont want to admit it, but i like him...he told all his friends that he thinks im hot and that he wants to go out with me...i feel bad because this is making my friend pretty mad...i want to go out with him really bad, but i dont want my friend to end up getting hurt... what should i do...

its not your fault he likes you more than your friend...if your friend doesnt see this and gets pissed at her...screw her she isnt your friend anyways...

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To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do?

dont do it its never good to have that large of an age difference at our ages...he'll only hurt you or force you to do something you dont want to do...he'll put unwanted pressure on you and really nothing good can from going out with him...

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My boyfriend is absolutely the bestest person in the world. I don't love him yet seen as I'm only 14 and we've only been dating now for about a month and 3 days. But still, he always hangs up on me when we get into stupid arguements. He pranked me the other day with his friend, which I knew was him and I asked him about it and he called me a stupidass bitch!! I hung up on him and left a message on his voicemail saying I didn't want to date anymore. But we're still dating. I dont know whats wrong with me. I told him I hate when he says mean things to me and when he hangs up but he still does it. I can't break up with him either because no matter what I do I always tend to run back to him because I think I need him in my life. He means so much to me and I don't want to lose him. This is the longest relationship I've ever had in my life. And I don't know. What should I do?

move on you dont need to be going out with assholes like him...the only reason guys hang up on girls is to show that they have the control in the realtionship...personally if i were you i would just not call him back ever again once he does this...

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It's those kind of things you only hear about in movies.. I've always been gah gah about my neighbor(who i've known since i was three) named Jared. He gave me my first kiss and he's leaving high school this yr. Which im gonna break down when he's gone! I've told him before i care about him, and he just doesn't want to ruin our friendship, some peole i know think were going to get married after college but the way its going i just can't see it! i mean i would anyday lose my virginity to him, thats how strong my love is for him. (i'm a type a girl who's waiting for marriage usually) Is there ANYTHING i could do to make him see he cares too? Cuz i know he does. Or am i just suppose to let go... plz share your thoughts on my story! Thank you SO much!

well the thing to do is tell him that your in love with him to his face, and ask him if he loves you back..and if he says no move on(as hard as that might sound)...btw i respect you waiting until marriage for sex thats really cool...

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when me and my bf fool around, it makes me feel so good...the slightest thing he does to me makes me orgasm..this turns him on...ALOT..and im beginning to think that hes using this to his agvantage..i dont really mind cause he deserves it too...im wondering whether or not to take it one step farther and have sex with him... everything else he does to me is wonderful, so why wouldnt sex be??? does anyone know if this is a good idea??

its a good idea if your 17 or older i swear it pays off to save it until then...but if you really think this is the guy you want to loose it too then go for it...just use condoms...

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okay so im a 16/f and ive never had a bf. I dont consider myself ugly or anything, and its not like i cant get a bf..i could if i wanted too..only thing is, when i start liking someone im all flirty and then i find out they like me and i TOTALLY stop liking them, I think im scared of a relationship or something because everytime someone askes me out i think its the biggest thing in the world and i just cant find myself to go out with someone...theres ONE guy that i would say yes to on the dime..which is my best friend in the world, me and him are like getting married one day haha, but yeah, anyone know WHY im like this?! WHY am i scared of having a BF?!?! and How do I stop it, or help myself ? :( helppp please, * i rate everyone a 5*

well the thing to do is to try to find someone who makes you feel like your best friend does...its completely natural for people to be afraid of commitment so dont feel bad about it..eventually youll grow out of it...

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ok...i like this guy and we have been friends for awhile and well we talk an awful lot and we both like eachother but i dunno if he likes me the way i like him..whats a girl to do?

well the thing to do is to tell the guy how you feel or if your scared of rejection dont tell him...its your choice...

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ok.. i dunno what to do. me and my bf well he used to live here, and he moved to florida. and we talk all the time, every free minute he has, we are talking. and, he has been talkin to me bout movin to florida when i graduate this summer. and i dunno what to do. i keep thinkin bout it. but all that comes out of it is negative things. like.. what if he dont wanna b with me no more. b/c i dont have a car or anything and he said he would put me on his insurance, and help me find a job and stuff.. but then it just worries me that he will like a girl that looks better than me. i dunno what to do.. there is alot more but i dont feel like sayin it all

dont go your in high school im assuming...go to college and get a degree and if your relationship makes it through then good for yall move to florida but if it doesnt (which it probly wont) youll say hey that extremely hott guy on the internet was right...

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My boyfriend and I have been together for just under two years. We've had our problems and worked through them - we started dating when we were still in high school. (I'm about to turn 18, he's about to turn twenty.) We've always been friends and supported each other, knowing that high school relationships don't tend to last very long. Things have been good lately in the sense that we get along, we spend time with one another and care about eachother very much - but lately I've been bothered about where our relationship is going.

We do not and never have said the words "I Love You", and we both used to agree that too many people misuse those words, causing more problems. He has a bad past when it comes to "love" and relationships, but we've been together for two years. I don't expect him to love me necessarily, or to tell me he does when he isn't ready - but I sometimes doubt his feelings for me relationship -wise. We haven't been talking the same way we had been lately, and I tried talking to him about this and he just stayed silent, (his way of blocking out my questions.) The silence is getting to me. I've even tried asking him flat-out, "how do you feel about me?". He seems to think I shouldn't ask him, and won't tell me why he feels like he shouldn't answer. It's starting to make me feel like we've just hit the end, but we're so connected when it comes to being around eachother, we've been friends and more than friends for so long. In short, his actions are there most of the time, but the words are not. I sometimes feel as if after all this time, I've been with a stranger. We don't have 'fun' as much anymore, and he often seems completely enthralled with his thoughts and less enthusiastic about life in general when around me.
I really would like to be in a relationship where we can say "I love you" after being together for so long - or at least be able to be verbally affectionate. - But I don't want to force him or make him feel like he's being forced. I want him to be happy, too, but I sometimes feel I'm not getting the attention I deserve. Am I being over-insecure? Thanks for anyone willing to read this long thing, and help.

this happens alot...but in your case just get together with other girls or guys that youve always wanted to get to know this usually helps alot...

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I have been weight lifting for a couple of years now and ppl are scared of me cuz they think i am too big what should i do?

that answer depends do you want to continue to be a body builder or if your doin it just to get chicks if your becoming a body builder screw them just focus on becoming one if your doin it to impress girls just take it east for a while...

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My ex recently came back into my life and I admit that I do have strong feelings for him. He also said that he wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. He said that I was on his mind alot and thats why he felt he had to find me. Things keep happening like fate wants us to be. If I do decide to talk to him again, it will be a risk because he do have a past behind him because he's a bad boy. I still want to be with him in a way. We both said we will take it slow to see what will happend. So do you think that I should give it a try because I think fate is bringing us together for a reason, I just need to hear it from someone else.

well there is a reason you arent going out with him now...i dont like this guy he sounds like he just wants to have sex with you and blow you off, so dont give him a second try...

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This is a question for guys and girls but if there are any guys out there that are 14 or were 14 PLEASE RESPOND!! anyway, how do you get a guy to like you, and what do 14 year old guys REALLY like in a girl? how do i make myself seem more available?

well the thing i looked for when i was 14 is a girl who isnt like all the other girls...a girl who isnt afraid of being herself in front of a crowd...you know the one girl who stands out from everyone else...and it doesnt hurt if your a hottie...

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