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Q: Recently my boyfriend introduced me to his good friend say...'D'. Now D and I became friends but we aren't that close...I mean all we do is just say hi... Now I think D likes me because he just tries to avoid me and my friend told me that its because he likes me and doesn't wana hurt his friend... Fine...that didn't bother me so much..but now like im always on his hi5,myspace profile...Looking at his pic... leaving comments...he doesn't reply to any of my comments... BUT I LOVE MY BF LIKE ANYTHING...I FEEL SO ... IMPURE...wat SHUD i DO??

You are obbsessed? You got yourself in a situation. You should tell your boyfriend how you feel. He will understand. The rest will take off from there.

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Miss Anonymous

Q: I really like this boy, and his mom told my dad that he had a crush on me! Last night I had a dream that he kissed me (on the cheek)! I really liked the feeling. How can I see if he really likes me or if his mom is just saying that?

Awww...puppy love. If his mom said that he liked you, weeel, he most likely likes you! A dream states that he kissed you, it means that you and him have confused feelings about each other. You both like each other, but don't know how to make the first move. So, the next time you see him, go flirt you butt off!

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Miss Anonymous

Q: me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 7 months....and im getting mixed feelings from myself...he says he loves me and he really does...and i dont want to brake his heart and i like him but idk how much i like him and idk what feelings i am having..can some1 please helpp

please.

At least you like him, right? If you like him but dont like like him, brake up with him. He might plead saying, "But I love you, doesnt that mean anything?" You might cave, but try to stay strong. It will feel better with him off your back. If you really like him, but dont love him. Tell him! He will understand. Good luck!

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Miss Anonymous

Q: ok im going to the movies w/ some friends tomorrow and the boy i like is going! does anyone know any hints or stuff i can do to let him know that i want to do stuff ( if you no what i mean.. not all the way) like while we are walkiing around and during the movie.!! so that he can make the first move!!!!

Well, when you are inthe movies sit next to him! That will give him the idea that you are confident. Before, talk to him!!! If you to are the first ones there, go get a starbucks! I did that same thing with my crush! Whatever you do, don' show off your new phone or ipod or purse. He will get bored and annoyed. So flirt with him and talk with him. The sparks will start there.

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Miss Anonymous

Q: Ok, so my cousin has this boy friend, and he is in 8th grade, she is in 9th, they have been going out for over a month now and she thinks they are all good but today me and my friends found out her boyfriend has been cheating on her with a guy who is in 10th grade, its gross and we dont know how to break it to her, she will be ruined but its better to hear it from her cousin and friends than someone random calling her boyfriend a queer if it gets around, but we are not telling anyone

Your friends bf is cheating on her with a guy? He is gay, even though nothing is wrong with that. He should tell her about seeing another man. Or you could tell her. If you tell her, here are some hints:
-Give her a "goddie bag"
-Ask her for a sleepover
-Tell her slowly
-Give her a shoulder to cry on
-Talk it over
-Giver her tissues
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Miss Anonymous

Q: ok-i have a major problem... i like this guy, but i think he likes my friend!!! my friend thinks that ge is weird- but w/e- sarcasim solves all her probs... so anywayz... how should i figure out if he likes me? should i ask a friend of his or what?
thanks- hottguy trubbles....

Dear Hottguy trubbles,

Wow! The guy YOUR crushin on is crushin on YOUR friend. She also might think hes cute even though she said hes wierd. I had to cover for myself when my friend started crushin on the guy I like. Since she is new to the school, she doesnt know that I like him. You can go ask one of his friends. Just dont get your friends involved.
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Miss Anonymous

Q: hey im a 13/f and i just got dumped my my boyfriend of a year and a half.he just sadi he did cuz im f-ing ugly and that im not worth anything and that im white trash. what should i do to get rid of this awful feeling??? because i loveeeeee him soooo much and i cant stand it!!! so can you help???

Love,
Crying sooo hard can barely breath

It is always hard to be dumped. But it hurts the most when [he] says your ugly. The only way to forget him that I reccommend is having a girls night out with a tight group of friends. Watch movies, eat icecream (you get the most of course), have makeovers, and my favorite, frozen bras! Another favorite is to give a clown-makeover to the first who falls alseep. Don't worry, she'll laugh it off. Then think if you really love him. Love him more than spending time with your friends? I didn't think so. Even though you think you love him, you really only love your family, and your soon-to-be husband. Trust me, he isn't part of your family. So try to imagine him as a dust speck, floating away.
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Miss Anonymous

Q: Okay, I'm a 14/f.
The guy I like is a senior, he's a good friend of mine, hes 18 going on 19 this June. I won't be 15 until August.

I really like him, but unfortunately, he is obsessed (and believe me when I say that) with my best friend. She's 15 and a year above me in school.

Anyways, she doesn't think of him as more than a brother and has told him this multiple times yet he can't get over her. She wants to go to prom with a guy she dated and he's actually thinking about asking her. However, the senior I like has already jumped and asked her, but she hasn't answered.

I don't know what to do.
Should I tell her she is leading him on if she goes with him?
Am I too young for him, do I have a chance?

WOW! You have a chance. Your best friend may not admit if she likes him, but if she does, talk to her! Tell her how you feel. You guys should just get over him. If she does not agree, then she isnt a real friend. So, go up and talk to him. Be flirty! Be cute! But he should like your personality, not looks. One thing will need to another! xoxo Miss Anonymous

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Hey everybody! I love giving advice so ask away! My favorite quote is, "You laugh at me because I'm different, but I laugh at you because we are all the same." That quote discribes me a lot! I also like "Live Love Laugh!" Anyways, I had a website (misshelp.site.with.us) but it was deleted. When I found this site, someone took the name already! So I used my sister site's name. If y'all know me, y'all know my advice is great. So, ask away!

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Miss Anonymous