15/f & 16/m (both are 16)
***THIS IS LONG!!***
I was dating this one guy named *Dustin* for about 1 year and a half. We both had sex and we were each other's first.
Well that was about 2 years ago. After we broke up, we decided to stay really good friends. But now i've been dating this one guy named *Brandon* for about 8 months. Everything is perfect, but it seems like *Dustin* is jealous. But he hasn't exactly told me. You can just tell though. And he still is ever since I started dating.
*Brandon* invited me to a family trip hes taking. And we were planning on having sex there. Somehow the word got out & *Dustin* found out and was crushed. He got soo mad at me and soo jealous! He was practically calling me a slut and a whore. I was soo sad that he said that. And of course Brandon knew what Dustin said that so he came over the same day and he was just there for me saying how it was okay and how he loved me and stuff. Brandon of course knew about me and Dustin's relationship. And I can just tell that he thought we should belong together(me and Dustin). But i made sure that Brandon knew i loved being with him.
The next day Dustin CAME OVER my house IN THE RAIN riding his retarded little bike and knocked on my door. He was saying how he was soo sorry for saying that and it just made me cry seeing him so hurt! Then *Dustin* grabbed me and started kissing me. Now remember, i was still with *Brandon*. I NEVER TOLD ANYONE WHAT HAPPENED! I didn't want anyone to find out and having it eventually getting to Brandon. So we are still going on the family trip. =\. And still planning on having sex. Dustin thought it was going to change something(the kiss), but it really hasn't. I mean, i just couldn't tell Brandon what happened because i knew it would crush him! They both are really great guys. But when i was dating Dustin, he cheated on me & that really hurted me since i put soo much trust in him. Brandon NEVER did anything to question our relationship. But Dustin just made me feel really better about myself & stuff. He always did cute little things for me.
*Problem*- The family trip is tomorrow & i just need to decide. Should i stay here with Dustin & break it off with Brandon? Or should i go with Brandon to the family trip and end up having sex?...Ah its totally freaking me out! I have the choice if we want to have sex at the trip.Brandon will totally understand since hes caring/nice like that.
I have no idea what to do! Brandon's family really likes me too and it would crush them if i broke up with Brandon. Nobody really accepted Dustin, but he's just so perfect for me. But so is Brandon. What do you guys think? Please help me. I feel soo stuck and confused! =( Thank you so much.
its ultimatly up to you. dont stay in the relationship with the guy your with right now if your just doing it to make him happy so you can feel good about yourself. and if his family likes your great but if your not as happy as you think you should be then you need to end it. if you think that if you went back to your first that you would feel better do it. I just want you to know that you will always feel a connection to your first until you do it again. just relax i know you dont have much of a time span to think about things but i dont think you should sleep with the guy because i think that will just cause more drama going on in your head...
relax and think who makes you happier? honestly who made you feel the best about yourself? who held your hand and made you feel like you were not afraid of anything?
of course you are going to be really attached to your first as i stated above but is that who you truely want to be with?? he is going to make you feel bad about yourself because he wants you back but think about the situation flipped around how do you think you would feel.
remember your still young and you still have alot to learn...so dont sleep with this other guy just yet...i really think that would be a mistake and make things alot harfer on you...
hope i was of some help
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How do you tell your parents that you are bisexual? Please help me!!!
i dont think that it is that important to tell them until it ebcause a big problem or they ask...being bisexual is normal althought most people wont admit it
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simple question, long story behind it, but i want to know, what do girls want in guys?
they want:
a guy with brains
a guy to defend them
a guy who holds there hand no matter where they are or how hott it is ouside
a guy who kisses them randomly and tells them they love them
a guy that they can get along with in a friendship and a relationship
someone they are not only physically attracted to but mentally.
someone who shows them the same amount or more of respect and love that they give
someone who cares about how they feel and can tell when there is something wrong just by the sound in their voice!
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hey um, i dont know what to do anymore because there is this girl that i have liked since like pretty much an exact year ago, and well after the summer i realized i liked her even more, and well everyday that i see her, (every other day not including weekends) i tell her that she looks beautiful and how was her day and what did she do, and she gets all mad and tells me to stop. it hurts me alot when she tells me stuff like that, and on top of that almost everyday in class, she talks about alot of other guys in class even though she knows i like her and i sit by her, she is always after seniors when she is a freshman, and she thinks shes mature enough to be dating one. anyways she is always getting her heart broken when guys tell her that she isnt mature or has low self-confidence. one day since were in band drum line, she got on the bus after a game crying and that was the worst thing i have ever seen and i asked her if she wanted to sit next to me and talk about it and she said whatever and sat next to me and told me someone said she was annoying, then her friend got on and asked her if she wanted to sit with her and she just got up and walked off leaving me alone. well anyways in class she tells this guy she loves him and all of this nice stuff even though shes joking around but sometimes i wish i could get that much, and it seems like every guy she meets that isnt a freshman is her next crush i dont know what to do anymore its been a whole year and she still doesnt care i need help.
try laying off of her. dont talk to her too much and when you do talk to her be chill dont really be all flirty like just say whats up and dont talk all flirty like...
i was like that, i had a guy who liked me and wanted to be with me and loved me and ignored him and didnt talk to him and look at me i've been with him for four years now...just wait and relax dont get to into something that might not happen...xoxo
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how can i convince a guy to break up with his girlfriend bcause he thinks its okay to have me and his girlfriend at the same time and i want to show him its not i know this sounds mean but he wont leave me alone and i dont want to do stuff with him untile hes single or going out with me
dont talk to him and ignore him before you do that tell him, "if you want to be with me then be with me, if you want to be with her then be with her" tell him its his decition not yours but he needs to decide before your going to do anything with him or be with him!
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year, i thought we were happy until a couple of days ago he said hes not in it and hes afraid of commitment. so he broke up with me. well today i finally convinced him to give us another shot because i love him with all my heart, and i was crying so he said ok. he claims its because he wants to but i cant help but think maybe he just felt bad. what should i do??
i have been with my boyfriend for along time. and its happened. guys are afraid of commitment, believe it or not. you just have to assure him that you love him and you will give him his space but you want to be with him and if he really wants to be with you too that you two can work together to fix the problem xoxox
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What does it mean to make a move on someone?
to kiss them or to tell them how you feel...and then all of the above after kissing!!!
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well a while ago my boy friend got shot and went into a coma for about a week. and i was talking to his friend online so she could keep me updated once and a while on how he's doing. so i kinda sliped up that i was trying to kill my self with a knife and slitting my wrists and that i was trying to over dose with sleeping pills. so she told him once he woke up... and now hes mad at me... what should i do?
give him some time and then tell him you let the sitution get out of controll and your lost it and you went crazy and you wernt thinking but you just wanted to be with him, and you know you should have been standing at his side the whole time but it was just too hard for you...he'll understand
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*15 female*
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and like 2 weeks. I care for him a lot, but i'm such a jealous girlfriend and I can't help it.I mean I get jealous even when he says jlo is hot or someone else famous. I don't like when he hangs out with other girl unless i'm there to. I feel this is wrong of me. I trust him with all my heart but sometimes i just can't help it to be jealous. any advice?
Thanks in advance
I've been with my boyfriend for a long time. But yet I get the same way too. Its like your confused...your like wait your with me but your talking about another girl who is hott infront of me...lol (even if it is just someone famous) and then he always goes and partys at his dads house and i know there are tons of girls there and it bothers the hell out of me but i just relax and as hard as it is for me I just go do something to try to take my mind off of it like go out with some friends or just go to sleep or call him and ask him whats up and tell him how much you miss him and hope he's having fun. The first step to a healthy relationship is TRUST and you can say you trust him but you cant after two weeks so you have a reason to be jelous...try this ...get to know his friends real well and they will start inviting your over to hangout too and then you'll never have to worry about him being around other girls without you!
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okay i have been going out with this guy for a month and by christmas would be three months. i am needing help on what i can get him for christmas. i dont know what to get him b/c we would be going out for three months and i dont want to get him someting that special. so can someone plz help
thanks alot
punkbaby69
I've been with my boyfriend for awhile...and when It comes to presents its easy for me why? i dont know! hehe but go buy him some cd's or dvd's something he'll like and then maybe a shirt and then a picture frame with a picture of you two in it...believe it or not he'll have it standing next to his bed the whole time u two are together
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Hello.ok,I am in the 7th grade and my boyfriends never does anything with me like go up town or go to the movies.I am haveing thoughts of dumping him because he hasnt even huged me and we have gone on a date yet but i love him 2 death. WHAT DO I DO?
~*BLONDE*LOVE~
As hard at it might be you need to sit down with him face to face and tell him how you feel and that you want more to a relationship than he does and if he wants to keep it that way you need out...it will solve the problem i promise...go for older guys way more muture if u ask me!
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Well ive been cruching on this guy for like EVER! well tonight i finally told him. and we didn't get to talk anymore about it b/c someone walkied around the corner. but i just want to know if it was stupid of me to tell him or not? he is like always staring at me and what not, or he was idk if he still is but i need help!
hey, what is there to lose. you dont have him as anything more than a friend right now, so if you tell him you like him its going to make or break you. He will say no and you'll be bummed but luckily your not head over heals inlove with him. If he says yes then there you go...go girl. Good luck dont bring it up to him anymore wait for him to bring it up...
xoxoxoox
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