Im your typicle teen girl who likes to hang out with some freinds, go to the beach, camp or the mall. Im an animal lover. Ive done the whole dating thing even the braking up thing. I have a younger sister who can drive me a lil nuts time to time, but thats what siblings do. I love helping others ans il help as much as i can!
E-mail: lil_miss_mandy16@hotmail.com
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alrite everyone i need some major help .. i know this is weird but im 19 years old and ive never had sex.. and im a female just to get that straight.. i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about 2 months now. and he wants to have sex. i knew he had sex with his ex girlfriend all the time so when we first started dating i told him i just wanted to wait awhile to have sex with him. now that its been awhile our relationship is kida crummy bc we dont have sex i suppose. but i dont know what to do because i want to have sex. but im scared to death of getting pregnant. he told me that precum has no sperm whatsoever. how effective is it to have sex, use a condom and pull it out before he goes? does precum have any sperm in it? do you think that i should get on birth control first and does birth control make you gain weight? plessseee help:( (link)
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Hey,
Don't worry its perfectly normal that you havn't yet had sex, some people just choose to wait and others don't. The only way to have sex and not get pregnant is to go on the pill. Gaining a little weight is a side afect that afects some girls, its basicly just retained water. But its either the pill and sex, or just no sex if you dont want to get pregnant.
Oh and remember to use a condom aswell, even if your on the pill, such thing dose not pretect against STD's.
Hope this helps!
xox Mandy
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I have a HUGE problem. I've never made out before. And basically, very soon I'm going to have to. The thing is EVERYONE thinks I have already. I have no idea what to do. I'm so scared someone's going to notice that I've never made out before. Is it really as hard as I'm thinking? I just don't want this person to think I'm stupid and disgusting because I wont be able to kiss good. I really don't know what to do! I'm freaking out. Somone please help! Give me some advice on what to do or something. Or please explain how to do it! I'm scared. HELP! Thank you OH SO MUCH. ♥ (link)
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Ok first of all calm down, making out is no big deal and is quite simple. Just go with the flow. And dont put toomuch importance on kissing or els you'll just drive yourself insain with panic.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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Here it is. The famous kissing question. I know you are all probably sick of answering this question, but please I'm desperate.
A few weeks ago this boy and I started liking each other. I went over his house,but nothing happened because of a certain reason that has nothing to do wtih this story. anyway, and then the other day he kissed me on the lips, and so soon I'm pretty sure that soon we're probably going to make out. A lot of my friends just said go with the flow, do whatever feels right but is that really it? Can anyone relate me back to there first make out and what happened and how they felt? My guy friends always talk about how when someone is a good kisser, they just want to kiss them over and over again. How do you be a good kisser, liek what qualities does a good kisser have? Please, no one send me links to teen magazines telling you how to kiss. I want the real deal from actual people.
Thank you so much :) (link)
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Honestly your first real kiss will most likly be a little akward seeing as its your first time. But don't hold back becaus of that. No one knows exacly what there doing, but with practice you'll learn and become a pro.(Now this dosn't mean go kiss every one and evry thing.lol) Just fallow him as he guids youz(as your freinds said "Go with the flow". Soon you wont even have to think twice on what your doing.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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do you think that its weird if i want to break my own hymen with a tampon
so it wont hurt when i eventually have sex for the first time? (link)
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No its perfectly normal, although even if you break your hymen with a tampon that does not mean it wont hurt durring your fist time having sex. Usualy your tense, and a man penis is at least 3 times the size (in with) of you super absorbant tampon.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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well my b/f and i have been going out for a week or two and all we have done is hugged. i want it to move a little faster. what should i do? (link)
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Then make the next move when he goes to hug u, u kiss him.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over a month now. She had been a very touchy feely person, not in any sort of sexual sense, but always holding or playing with hands, or hugging and such.
Up until this week. She has been in an absolutely horrible mood since Sunday, really hasn't talked to me or returned calls or anything, and hasn't been fond of any sort of physical or social contact from anyone. I would chalk it up to PMS (sorry about the stereotype, girls) but it's literally been all day all wee. I had asked her earlier in the week if she was okay, and she said yes, that she was just feeling weird and didn't want to be around people. Today at lunch it was awful. I asked her again, walking to class (just to note, the first time she didn't hold my hand walking to her class) and she said she didn't want to talk about it. She didn't say anything else, and I hugged her an kissed her goodbye, but still.
I've treated her very well, and I've been giving her space. I'm pretty sure it as absolutely nothing to do with me, but nonetheless, what am I supposed to do? (link)
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She dos'nt seem to be ready to talk about the situation. Just don't take it personal, let her know your there for her when or if she wants to talk and just be there for her. Other then that try to get back to your normal rutine. Dont let the situation side track u.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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iam 14 and in the 9th grade and I want to do more than just hug and kiss my boyfriend.Is there any other things that i can do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend?I know that there is sex and iam going to do that if that's the only other thing i can do i just want to get closer and if i do have sex iam already on birth control becouse of my messed up period and iam going to use protection.what can i do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend? (link)
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Well theres always oral or manual stimulation. Like handjobs blowjobs aka Brains or head... getting eaten out, or fingering.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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Right, I am not going to give their names for obvious reasons :)
so let's Call Them A B C D E
A is the girl i love, she doesn't want a relationship though i think she's likes me.
B is the girl who is one of my best mates, who really really loves me.
C is a girl who i liked, but then eventually got over, and it turn out now she likes me.
D is first proper girlfriend, who liked me but is now checking someone else, howver, she still says she's in love.
E is a girl I met when out, she likes me, but i don't feel anything for her.
What should I do, because this is messed up ?
Help! (link)
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First things first, you and girl D have to figure out you and girl D feelings for one and other. If love is there stay, if not, move on. Talk to girl A find out if theres something there, if she does'nt feel the same way as you...you cant force it upon her. Girls C and E are canceld out seeing as you don't feel for them. Yet as for girl B you don't say wether or not you like her...and she seems to have a great deal of liking towards you...think about giving her a chance if you think you can return her feelings.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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I have been hurt by a few boys previously in the past.
I have been in love once, but hurt by other boys i liked. I am 14/f btw.
So there's this one guy that i have liked for a while, and after a long time and him blowing me off, i decided i needed to move on.
So this other guy friend of mine (we've been aqantienses for about 2 years. got close a few months ago)
we went on a date. and it was so much fun. and he likes me and i do like him.
i just dont want to be hurt again
my parents are recently divorced, and every relationship i have ever seen has failed.
i am afriad of him getting bored with me just like the rest of them
so here's my question,
Give him a chance, or move on with my life? (link)
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Heck,give him a chance you two could have a great deal of fun with one and other. You should'nt give up on guys just becaus of a few bad relationships you had in the past. Your 14, you don't usualy find true love at your fisrt shot.
Hope this helped!
Mandy xox
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