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My names Maddie.I look at life as having endless possibilities. And I don't let others tell me different. I have all different kinds of friends and I won't judge you on what you look like. Meaning, your hair, clothes, or age has no affect on me what-so-ever. I'll love you for who you are, inside and out.
I keep a diary, and I don't care how cheesy it sounds. I like to look back on my life, because it reminds me of all the love, hate, pain, and good times I've been through. I don't complain about my life now and if you ever meet me, you'll come to find i never do. I live life as it comes, so I pretty much NEVER plan anything.
High school. The topic EVERYONE dreads, but not me. You learn how to take care of yourself in high school. As much as it hurts, you become grown. You learn that the friends you had, turn into bitches, and the ones you've kept have meant the world to you. You laugh, you cry, and you fight your way through, but once it's gone, it's never coming back, so you need to have fun.
I'm a writer. And I don't steal peoples stuff. So that means, if I find something of mine somewhere else than where I've put it, it gives me a right to have a lawsuit. Plagiarism is a crime and I will put the judge into action if it happens to me.
I'm not fake, and I really dislike Fake people. There is nothing wrong with being yourself. And I really stress on that. I don't want to have to look at a new friend and wonder if they're lying straight to my face.
To come to think of it, I'm pathetic. Just like everyone else. People will never stop hating me, and I will never have a moment in life where theres not a rumor going around about me. I won't fall in love for a very long time, because I'm only 15. I have a whole life ahead of me. People will never stop talking about me, and calling me names. And you know what? I really don't care. I like being the center of peoples attention and it means nothing to me when they sit there and think up horrible stuff. Yes, i hook up with people. Its because I'm a teenager. I drink, I party, I have a good time, and I honestly could care less if people hate me.
The simplest things make me happy. Like bottle caps. I love them.
I love to get dressed up on Friday nights to go to Starbucks and drink lattes with my friends. I like to go to concerts and run around and laugh. I laugh as much as I breath and no one will ever take that away from me. I don't stress about the little things, I fix them. I love to paint, and draw, and I love Broadway.
Im very random at times, but that's what makes girls, girls. And I'm very proud of being a girl.
I live off of nothing. I can't afford to eat the same as everyone else, dress the same as everyone else, do my hair and make-up the same way, and act the same way. I like myself for who I am and thats the way every other teenager should be. I don't let men get in the way of anything. They're nothing but penises on a pole, and when the right one comes, he comes. But I'm in no big rush.
advice
do girls like giving blow jobs, or is it just something that girls do cuz the guy asks them to?
Yehhhh.....
it depends on the girl
me personally, it does as much fo rme as it does for him
i like it....
i think its a real turn.
gets things heated up
but i also know some girls dont like it because its his "nasty place" in her mouth. just ask. thats all i can say because it varies from girl to girl.
(16/m)
What do girls like to get as a gift?
(only girls answer!!!!!)
Well, I have no clue what a "preppy tuff girl" is, but i'm assuming its a sort of girl....
and most girls i know are really into stuff like
jewelry
gift cards
money
stuffed animals
chocolates
normal stuff like that
but if you really wanna be remembered, try stuff like this:
Buying a pair of movie tickets in advance to a show shes been wanting to see and tell her you have the matching one and suggest going to see it together....
getting her a giftcard to a favorite place of hers to eat
writing little notes leading her to her locker or somewhere and giving her her gift that way
stuff like that
idk if you like this girl, but stuff like that stands out.
hope i helped
Male, 25
My girlfriend keeps trying to push me into sexual things I'm not comfortable with. When I say no, she asks what kind of guy I am and such.
How do I get her to respect my decisions and not end up fighting as a result about it?
Honestly (and no offense should be taken here).....If she's trying to get you to do things like that and you TELL her you're uncomfortable and she gets mad at that then she's not right for you. If someones trying to make you do things and you dont want to do them and that happens, they're being really immature and you need to address it.
Tell her that she's acting out way too far, and that if the relationships going to work out, then she needs to stop pressuring you into stuff. The whole thing that makes a relationship work is working together and being completely comfortable around one another. It's also about trusting eachother and respecting one anothers opinions and comfort zones.
I know i would NEVER make my boyfriend do anything like that if he was uncomfortable, andif he was i would like him to tell me so I can fix it.
She honestly doesn't sound right for you.
I really hope i helped. If i didn't im sorry. and I'm also sorry in advance if any of that offended you. That's just my opinion: )
Hope everything works out: )
-Maddie
ohkayy.so i really really like this guy but he treats me like crap and has cheated on mee.well.i cant brake up with him.!!!!!!!!bc i wud brake down and cry in front of him....and i REFUSE 2 do that.!!!!!soo.i need some way 2 get him 2 brake up with me and i will not cheat on him...!!!!but i cant figure out ne other wayy.!!!HELP....
It's kind of dumb to get HIM to break up with YOU because thats basically doing it yourself, but in different terms.
But...
You can becaome very very very picky and really clingy. Guys really don't like that.
You can also be snobby and talk about him to his friends behind his back (not cheating, just flirting or something like that)
You can act really mad at him or pretend to get really really jealous over a girl hes simply talking to or something like that you know?
Guys like low maintence girls, so become the opposite, only to him. He'll soon get the picture.
Hope I helped.
so i have a friend that is into drugs, and we used to be best friends calling each other every night. doing whatever. i think i had a crush on him, but i didnt want to because of the age diff [hes a senior and im a sophomore] recently, i saw him. i hadnt seen him for a really long time because he was into drugs and alcohal, and we lost communication but i never stopped thinking of him. i saw him, and barely recognized him. we hugged for a long time. but it was like something was different. and i cant get my mind off of him. what should i do? i dont want to like him, but i do. jekal;d.
I guess,
you like this guy right? So if you're going to want him...the drugs are going to come with him whether you like it or not. Decide for yourself what to do because youre the only one in this decision that really matters. If you go out with him, you're going to be above the drugs and alcohol anyway, so i guess you just gotta sit down with him casually and talking to him about it. And ask him to stop because you're worried about him.
I hope I helped.
Well, my bf has a little drinking problem. Its not all the time, but when he starts he cant stop, but hes not dependant on drinking. He doesnt do it all the time. Well, one time he said he went to a poker party. I went out to a club with my girlfriends. While i was there, i danced with my girls. Well, this particular club had like little beds with a sheer curtain around it for people to hook up. Well, i saw this girl getting a little friskey with a guy, like shed known him for a while, well they closed the big black curtain, but before that she took off her clothes and so did he. I thought i saw my boyfriends face so i ran up there and i peeked through the black curtain. I saw the back of the guys head having sex with the girl, well he had long brown hair like my bf. I didnt want to seem like a pervert if it wasnt my bf, so i crept to the other side and saw it was my bf!!! I ripped open the curtains and was like WTF JAKE and hes like katie, come join, i love threesomes! and i was like WERE OVER. The next day he called me and didnt remember anything at all! I told him about it, and hes like well i was at my friends but i started drinking, and we ended up at the club...then all black, then i woke up in the club with no shirt on. I dont know what to do. I was like well were over, and he showed up with flowers, the next day with candy, the next with a diamond necklace. I think he really wants me back. Should i take him back, or kick him to the curb??
Well.
I wouldnt take him back,
only becaseu if that happens, and he cheats on you while hes drunk, chances are he'll do it again and not remember that either.
But yeah
its your decision though. You've gotta figure out if you want him back after what he did to you, or if you dont want him back.
you know?
OKay my boyfriend ,..hes a lil shy..ive made all the moves....ased him out,...asked him to a football game,..asked him to the movies...and i was talking to him over the entr net last night telling him im gonna kiss him soon...and he seemed really embarresed..i meen i was to..but he said hed be too nervouse for him to kiss me so id have to kiss him..i dont know what i should do!?!?!?
Um, ok.
Well, talk to him about it first. Tell him there's no need to be nervous, it's just a kiss.
Make sure you're alone, and talking a lot. It helps if you guys are hugging and stuff a bit before. Like, invite him to the movies/mall, and hug and hold hands and stuff a lot before the movie, that way you can kiss him and it won't be like you've never touched before.
Tell him you're ready for it, and that you want him to. It should take off some of the pressure.
Hope I helped:]
If you need more help, or more details for this question just ask.
I'm here.
i go to movies and hang out with my friends at main street almost every weekend and when I see a movie this girl that I like(she like me too lol)olivia will kinda lean on me--and she keeps giving me hints to kiss her...wat should i do and how should i do it? i dont want my friends to c it btw.
It's not a big deal. Grab the girl and kiss her. She likes you and you like her back. Whoopdeedo. If you dont want your friends to see, go somewhere private, or like, go to the movies by yourselves.
do you believe in saying that boys have to call girls first? because if a girl alwyas calls the boy first, that might seem a bit too eager or desperate or something. what would you do if you like a guy and you want to talk to him? would you wait?
Um no, I don't believe that. If you like the guy, go for it. It's not a big deal really. Wait until he knows who you are really before doing anything like that. Like, have a conversation with him, then ask for his number, or something like that. Start off slowly.
she cries and does things so sweet and fights to keep me but shes always so secretive.is she a true lover?
The best way to find out is ask her.
You'll never know for sure if you don't, and if she lies, you know somethings up. If she comes clean about it, and something really is up then i guess you'll have to dicide from there.
Well hello everyone i hope everyone is doing just dandy and having a good part of there life that is happy. well lets get started you see i am dating a wonderfull girl but sometimes i am unsure if she truly cares. she sometimes tends i dunno when we talk on the phone it seems like she always gets upset with me. and i dunno what to do because i know what we have is true love and that is very rare to have or find in todays societies. so what can i do to i dunno show her how much i care so that i may know how much she cares about me. i mean is there anything i can say or do to show her that i care.
thnx for all the comments
god bless you all
monn
Try to do something really sweet for her after she gets mad with you. Like, bring her a single rose just because it's a certain day of the week, or something like that. She'll eventually get the point and see how much she means to you.
Well I am really awful at showing my feelings. Well, there is this boy i have a crush on and I can't even show him that I have feelings for him. What are some small acts of affection I could do so he might see that I care about him.
Um. Why don't you try and do some little cute things for him. Like hold his books when ya'll are walking [or at least offer too, if he's a gentleman he won't let you], or write him little notes and stick them in his locker, and when you walk by leave your friends to go and talk to him. If he's a normal guy he'll get the picture. lol.
15/f
OK so this may sound weird but I'm desperate. The problem is that neither me or my bf are very good kissers. Not to say that I don't love kissing him anyway, I just want it to work and be great but I've never had much experience nor has he. I've heard that practice makes perfect and hey, I'm willing but I was just wondering if there is anything else I can do like any techniques (for lack of a better word) or something that can help me or us become better. If you can, please help.
The best thing you can possibly do is practice.
You aren't ever going to get better if you don't.
But on the bright side, it would give you more time to spend with him, and it's fun too! :]
i went to school with this girl in elementary
we met up, dated-and broke up
i just noticed now...that i wasn't being myself with her and don't know what to do
how can i get her to like me?
or "attract her"
what do girls like?
or find attracting=\?
Aww:]
Well, just be yourself around her. Duh. lol
Girls like when you make her feel special. They love it when you do those little things no one else has ever done for her. Like, write little notes and stick them in her notebook at school when she isnt looking. Or get her a rose and give it to her in front of your friends.
My ex used to come up to me and wrap his arms around me from behind and whisper sweet little things into my ears. Like "you look beautiful" or something like that. Girls like it when you call them beautiful, rather than hot or something like that.
Be sweet. And yourself.
Good luck.
my boyfriend asked me to marry him but i thought i was under age so i said i cant then he asked to get engaged to me and i dont know what to say
im 15 and hes 16 is it ok or not?
I would wait on that.
Just tell him that you could get engaged, but hold off on the 'wedding' until you are both age appropriate.
You can't get married until you are 18 in some states, and even then, it's still young.
But make sure he isnt just kidding around. That's happened before.
But, anyway, if you love him, go for it. You'll just be engaged for quite a while.
do all my friends get boyfriends and i never do. is there something wrong with me? i mean guys tell me im hott & cute but i can never get one to be my boyfriend.
f/15
Aww. Theres nothing wrong with you. Don't TRY and get a boyfriend, be yourself and have fun and the right one will come to you.
alright im 14/m and theres a girl that lives in the neighborhood next to me whos 13/f and really pretty, however her friend, 14/f, get jealous of me whenever i hang out/talk to her and she tells the 13 year old that im a player and a bunch of bull$#!T that really makes me look bad and i was wondering how i get around that cuz i REALLY like this girl.
The best thing to do is to go up to this girl who's talking crap about you and tell her to stop and that it's getting on your nerves. Either way, you live next door to the girl for christ sakes, tell her how you feel. If she likes you back she won't listen to her little crap talking friend and go out with you. Tell her that her friend is wrong and that you're not a player.
How do you get over something like this? I mean like I see my girlfriend with just some friend of hers and I just get crushed I don't know how to fix it :(
Umm, well. No matter what, she's always going to have guy friends. You can't stop that. If she likes you a lot and ya'll are going out then there's nothing to worry about. You need to trust her. There is no point in having a relationship without trust. If you start to get jealous just start talking to one of your friends to take your mind off it. She's not flirting, she's probably just talking. Its no big deal. Hope I helped:] Good luck.
ok i realy like this other girl but this is my best freind i talk to her way more and iget along with her more so this monday is her birthday so iwas thinking of doing something nice for her or even asking her out so what should i do for her any ideas?
Ok. Umm, ask her out. lol. DUH.
But like, do it in a way no one has ever asked her out before. That way she'll say yes.
Like, Make her something and give it to her with "will you go out with me?" inscribed in it or soemthing creative.
Girls love it when you make hem feel like you worked hard for them. Either make her a case for something she always has on her or get her a camera and take a picture of a piece of paper or soemthing with "will you go out with me" and when you give it to her, make her press the review button so it shows on the screen.
Come up with something like that to ask her. She'll remember it.
ok well i asked her about it like one of this people toldme to to do but she wants to wait and i dont want to wait! and i have begged and stuff but she wants to wait what should i do?
andi have so much presure like these guys that arae going all the way with there gf and i just want third base!
sign
a guy that needs help
OK.
First rule. NEVER PRESSURE A GIRL INTO DOING SOMETHING SHE DOESNT WANT TO DO! and I stress that because if you do it too much, shes going to leave you.
Second. Ignore your friends. Theyre showing off and chances are, their girlfriends dont know theyre doing it. Not every girl wants their love life painted on a wall.
Third. DONT BEG. Thats making you sound desperate. No girl wants a desperate boyfriend.
If youre really into the girl, dont push it. It'll come naturally.
Ask her when she thinks she'll be ready, and then work on doing a little more experimenting when youre making out or something like that to really tell her youre ready. But again, DONT PUSH OR PRESSURE HER INTO IT. She wont like it.