Well Yo Dogs... yea... i don't think i'm black i just always say that. Its liek my trademark. Ask me whatever... i'll give ya straight up answer or a sarcastic answer... depending on my mood. But i'm usually brutally honest especailly since i don't knwo you peopel and your feelings won't get hurt and i don't care what you think of me. And thats that
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My friend asked the guy I like what he thought about me.
He didn't really know her, he recognized her as my friend but didn't even know her name. But she was trying to talk to him and he just told her he needed his space and pushed her back saying "back up, we need to be this apart" and telling her not to get close, and she asked what he thought about me he didn't answer and just went with that "your getting to close" crap. So could someone tell me what this means???
Thanks so much! (link)
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it means he knew what she was tying to do. It's pretty freakin obvisou when someone you barely know comes up to you and asks if you like a specific person that they are trying to find otu so that they can tell you. i mean how freakin often do you walk up to a random persona dn ask what they think of your friend?
all it meant was he knew what was up and wasn't willign to spill the beans yet.
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hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX (link)
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Seeing as boys mature much slower... i think it would be hard to date a younger guy at that age. Especailly when he's 12. I mean he's still in MS and you are in HS. Two completly different lifestyles and priorities at your age. For him its about having fun and goofing off and for you its abotu working hard to get good grades and start thinking abotu your furture. I think it's a bad idea but who am i to say because i'm 16 dating a 19 year old.
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Hey! Skool is about to start and i have a problem! Well I started dating this guy um.. 7-12-05 well he goes to a different skool and well i dont like long distance rel. b/c i always think they will cheat! Also now that we have been together for a couple of weeks he acts different then he did when we first started goin out like he dont care as much! And well i sorda never got over my ex like a year ago and i miss him i need to know what to do like i wanna break up with this guy but i dont know what to tell him! please help!!
ASAP
Love Kayla (link)
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i think your biggest concern is learning how to spell before school starts... not some guy you seem to have trust issues with
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thanks for the advice it was great, however ive asked her about the entries and she says that her "friend" wrote the scrapbook one..but she does seem to lie alot so... (link)
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yea... i think you know the answer... its just hard to admit it to yourself that its the right thing because the heart plays a strong role in decisions. Good luck with the situation though.
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Okay let me warn you this thing will be like 2000 characters, but let me start by saying i met this girl when i came to missouri to visit my grandma, we like eachother, well we love eachother, i dont feel like i could live wtihout her...we dated last year and broke up and then i tried for a year to get her back and finally did, however i found these questions asked on advicenators..about her ex..while we were going out:
*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!*
i knew her ex was coming over to get the scrapbook but she said that was it and that she didnt have feelings anymore and what not...but the most painful is the next one...
hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME!
sent while we were going out yet again, i love her with all my heart and i dont know what to do, i finally won her back and i dont want to let her go but i feel like its just a game and she is playing me. Should i keep her or let her go? any advice? (link)
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Ok... i understand you have feelings for the girl and i say this in the most sensetive way possible... dump her. Your too good for her. You seem like a great guy if you care this much and have this much feelings towards her. She is, like you said, playing you. If you don't want to be too drastic maybe approach her and try to discuss the two entries with her... maybe there is an explanation... are you positive they are hers? You don't want to jump to conclusions. But be careful... she seems liek a good liar. Your young, there are a lot fo other girls out there that won't hurt you like this and realitically this girl isn't "the one" for you so you might as well move on and get a girl that truly cares about you. Hope i helped. Thanks for your question and feel free to ask more.
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Alright well I have this ex boyfriend that i was with for over a year...im only 15 right now so thats pretty long in my eyes. Well we fought alot and broke up but still remained kind of friends. Well we had plans last week that we were going to get back to gether, than friday i called him because he wanted to hang out that night and this girl answers his cell phone..then she was mean to me and he was like "I dont wanna talk to you right now" then saturday i called him and hes like "I really like this girl and I want to be with her". Ive never cried as hard in my life as I did this weekend..Now last night he calls me saying that shes missing something that he needs, and then he says that he misses me. IM so confused right now. I dont mind him being with some one else as long as hes happy but I think that girl is into him for all of the wrong reasons..because my ex is rich, really rich, his parents drive hummers and corvettes..he has a camero and all these different cars. I just dont want him to get hurt..ya know? but then again im hurting because i love him and hes a great person...ughhhh i dont know what to do...please help me!!!
I rate high im sorry for how long it is (link)
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I don't think he's worth your time... if he's gonna to toy with your emotions liek this then he's not worth you. I'd move on and find someone that really knwos how to treat a girl
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I know there have been alot of kiss questions lately so I'm sorry if this has been asked before. When my boyfriend & I are kissing, we don't use any tongue & I think that's because we haven't been dating for long & we're just getting used to eachother. Is there anything we can do to make the kisses more exciting without tongue?
Thanks,
Elle (link)
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You could try nibbling his lip... although this is dangerous because you could accidently bite to hard and piss him off
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Hey! I need some help! My boyfriend can express his feelings to me, no matter what. But, when I really want to tell him how much I love him etc. I tell him in a letter or an email. I just can never seem to get it out. Any suggestions. I NEED HELP! RATE HIGH (link)
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Oh my goodness i am liek your twin. I am so the boy in teh relationship when it comes to being sensitive. My boyfriend will say things to me that other girls would find sweet but i find compltely cheesy and find myself holding back laughter. There is really nothing you can do other than to try to say something verbally to him every once in a while. I'm not saying it has to be "i love you" or "i can't live without you"... nothing to dramatic or anything. A simple "you are awesome" or "i like spending time with you" will do. Remember... he is a boy. Just casue he is good at experessing his feelings doesn't mean he needs the same feeligns in return. He'd probably feel on top of the world if you just gave him a compliment. Good luck. Leave some in my inbox if you want more help...
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my bf always says hes gonna call me back but never does nd we were on the phone like 5 hrs ago nd he said he was gonna call me back but didnt so should i just call him or will i seem desperit? i havent talked to him in a while cause he was on vaca nd when we got to talk before, it was only for like 10 mins cause he had to go cleanhis room or wutever. i dont wanna seem desperit. but ive been missing him. . . please answer fast ill rate! the faster, the higher (link)
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In a boys world... if they say call you back it could mean 5 minutes or it could mean a week. Boys digital clocks in their heads are sporadic, nothing you can do to change it. It wouldn't be desperate to call him and ask him whats up... but what is desperate is sitting around for 5 hours watching the clock waiting for him to call. Go hang out with friends. Don't change your schedule cause of him. Have your own life and take the free time you have away from him to enjoy yourself
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You know how everyone will tell you " do it when the time is right " well how do you know when the time is right? (link)
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You just know. when you have no doubts at all and you can't see any consequences that are unbarable in your situation. No one else can tell you personally hwen the time is right. Its not liek a set day and hour.
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This is the only way i can make this short .. me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 months now and our relationship was going well. Like not even a week ago i started to hang out with these guys that he doesn't like or trust .. i told him that i was hanging with them and he got really pissed and we started arguing. In our relationship i am completely honest with him because i don't want to hide something from him and have him find out later from someone else and him get madder than he would've if i had told him in the first place. Well i am starting to have these feelings for a guy i've been hanging out with and i told my boyfriend. He totally flipped out because now he thinks that i like this guy more than i like him - which is NOT true at all. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i always will no matter what happens between us. I'm just wondering if i should tell my boyfriend that we need to take a break from our relationship so i can figure out if the feelings for the other guy are deep or if i should just forget about the other guy or what?! PLEASE HELP! =( (link)
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Well first of all... you obviously don't "love" your current boyfriend if you are having feelings for another guy. Also 2 months typically isn't enough time to say you love them with all your heart. I would say that if you are goign to believe that you love him then you should be willing to stop hanging out with these guys for the best interest of the relationship. If you care abotu your boyfriends feeligns then you would be able to sacrafice. Maybe try haning out in a larger group with them, rather than just them and you.
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What are some things to talk about with friends and stuff. I always have trouble starting conversation over AIM, and I really need help. Thanks (link)
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Ask them Whats up? how's there summer going? Ask them about their interests? Their job? Sports? Family? It doesn't need to be big deep coversations each and every time... and don't feel obligated to talk to them for hours.
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Okay, i need help, well I have a myspace and my boyfriend does too. and he comments on some of my friends myspace's saying that they have a nice ass, and look hot etc. but when i confronted him about this he said "i was only playin please, dont be mad at me i love you soo much ill cry if your mad at me. etc." and i forgave him .. but now i found another one of my friends on myspace and she is flashing the camera and he said. nice pic. then commented again and said take off the bra lol j/p.....but the thing is i dont think he was just kidding. i mean wow .. i didnt know he was like that before i started going out with him? i dont know.. but can you guys help? please? (link)
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Boys will be Boys... if you've confronted him once and he doesn't understand he has obvious disrespect for oyu. Try confronting him again and don't fall for his sensetive act. But be direct. The first time you confronted him did you tell him it made you uncomfortable to see him commenting on other girls liek that? You need to be straight forward and tell him exactly how you feel. If that doesn't work then i'd say lose him because a man that doesn't respect you doens't deserve you.
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Does anyone know of a web site like match.com or eharmony that is free. (link)
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no serious sites thats for sure. espinthebottle.com is kind of fun. its not really for find love though
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I have this ex-girlfriend, ok? And see what happened is she just broke up with the guy that she broke up with me for. And I'm kinda worried that she might try to go back out with me just because I'm their and I'm familiar. Plus we also were lightly flirting last time we were together, which was about a month ago so I think I'm safe. What should I do to let her know, without a doubt, that I won't get back with her now, but do it lightly so it's not really noticeable? (link)
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Stop flriting with her when you see her. It send the wrong message. And if she asks politley explain that you don't feel that way for her anymore. Its a sticky situation theres not real easy way to go about this. Just gotta be tough and do it.
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I think I like my guy best friend. We used to have a relationship, but we broke it off (this was 2 years ago)... I know for a fact he doesn't like me (I asked who he liked, and he told me he liked my one friend who doesn't like him)... my friends think he likes me, and it does seem like it.. but I guess not.
One thing I'm thinking about is moving on, but I don't particularly want to do that. Any other ideas? (link)
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It didn't work once... unless the too of you have changed to eliminate whatever broke it up in the first place... its bound to fail
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hey me and my boyfriend have only seen eachother once. We talk a lot but we never see eachother that much, and i really like him. All my friends say to break up with him but i really like him, i dont know what to do? I always ask him when can you hangout he says i dont know. But when my friend asks him he gives a day. We were supposed to hangout this weekend but he never called me back. He always says he loves me one day we stayed on the phone till one in the morning! Hes so sweet but i never see him. I dont know what to do anymore.
Julia xox (link)
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Ok... quit being naive. 1) its sounds like you jumped into this relationship too fast if you've only seen him once. 2) if you've only seen him once you don't love him. 3) Get rid of him. You sound too young to have a boyfriend and there are plenty of guys out there that i am sure you could find one just as good that you can see more often and will call you back.
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okay so theres this boy we'll call him john... well me and john went out before and we got along well... me and him have a big history of us being together and being in love with eachother many times... well latley hes been talking to me about our past relationships and hes all sayin like "i miss you and i still think about us all the time" and he was sounding kind of sweet but i didnt wanna fall for him again so i didnt pay much attention to what he was saying.. well now i find out that he has a girlfriend... and shes liek one of my mayjor enemies... a girl that i really dont get along with and he knows that.. is he tryin to make me jelous? or does he really mean what he says? (link)
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It didn't work once. Who the heck cares whats happening now. Ignore him. If he';s gonna mess with your emotions liek that, he's not worht the time
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every girl i like doesnt like me back...they say they just like me as a friend...and i really need a girlfriend i just dotn know what to do...is there somethin im doin wrong...? (link)
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you never need a girlfriend... they don't liek complete you or make you a better person. Just keep truckin'. Plenty of girls out there and lots of life to live. Maybe you are sharing too much with these girls I mean no big deal, tell them your favorite color, but don't tell them all the intimate details abotu you becasue that might make them more friendly towards you or not want to get involved with you. Try to keep a slight distance with potential mates and make them chase you a little. Be flirty more-so than friendly, but don't be a jerk.
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