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Okay.Well me and this dude were dating for 10 months and broke up a month ago.i was crushed.but he seemed all kool with him.it looked like he wasnt hurt or missing me at all.Well i miss him tons and so i decided he needed to know how i felt bout him.so i told him.well he would act like he didnt feel the same way or he would be all i love you and stuff.But then he decided to tell me that other girls are hot and stuff like that.And yes it does make me Jealous.but i wanna know if he really likes me or not.What should i do?

Okay. Well, since all guys think other girls are hot, even when they are commited, there are just those who say it out loud and then there are those who are silent about it. Becuase he is telling you that he thinks other girls are hot it's because he wants to make you jealous.
Also if he didnt care about how you felt or what you thought he wouldnt worry about trying to make you jealous, he would just not talk to you. It's probably just that his heart is broken so he's trying to mend it by talking and thinking about other girls, telling you about the "hot" ones, and trying to make you feel bad because he knows he lost you.
I don't know if he still likes you but if he does he probably is scared to admit it to himself and you becuase he probably dosent want to get hurt again like how he got hurt before.

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I really like this guy, John. I talk to him all the time on the phone but I don't get to see him that often because he lives 30 minutes away. Well he knows that I like him, and he tells me that he likes me too, but he constantly is telling me about all these girls that he hooks up with. He knows it gets me jealous because i've told him but he continues to do it. How can I stop being so jealous???? I really want him to like me, I feel like i'm being played ... Please help!

Okay. Well, although it could be true ALL these girls probably don't exist, well some of them maybe but this guy is probably just doing it to get you jealous. He wont stop becuase lets face it guys are assholes and they are going to piss you off. He probably likes you too so you should give him a taste of his own medicine. Next time you talk to him talk about guys that you like or hooked up with or whatever. Probably one of the worst things you could do would be to tell this guy that it does get you jealous it's only going to make him do it more. Act like you don't care and are actually interested in these girls. He wont know whats going on.
Two can play this game. So mine as well join him.

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to the ladies, what are some ways in which a guy can approach you and just start a conversation or something without it bein really weird. in the movies for example. hwo could a guy best present himself and possible ask for a sn or phonenumber.

for the guys: same question except what are some stuff that yall have tried

I say,
Get some balls and just walk up to the girl you want to talk to ,and be confident, and just say "Hey whats up?" or something. If you don't want to do that then just think of something not as forward like bumping into her "accidently" or something and then just introducing yourself.

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Ok, so you're familiar with the concept, there's this guy i really like and well we talk sometimes but mostly he teases me and I'm pretty sure they're just jokes, he can be pretty sweet too. Recently, I found out we both have the same birthday, which is this summer, and we're both going to the same water slides, so we'll probably see eachother there. I also have his address and phone number. I'm too shy to tell him that I like him during the school year, but I think writing would work. If so, what should I write? I don't want it to be too corny. And should I write to him or will he be creeped out because he didnt give me his address? Is it a bad idea to call him and say happy birthday? Just so he knows I'm thinking of him?

Well, from what i read it sounds like you guys flirt majorly.
You can call him and say Happy Birthday and get him a little gift and do little things for him just so he knows you're thinking of him. Or you can just write him a letter thats just says you know something like. "I really like you." or something like that. If you are too scared and don't want to do the "I really like you" letter than just do little things so he knows you are thinking about him.
Like, i used to like this guy and i was scared to tell him so i would just do little things for him just so he knew that i cared and that i was thinking of him. Like one time he wasn't feeling too well. He was depressed and all so i made him a mix cd and i printed off all these funny pictures wrote him a little letter put it in an envelope(with a candy cane)((it was near christmas)) and put it in his mailbox.

Just think of something cute and original and he might get the clue and ask you out or you might find the courage to ask him out yourself or tell him that you like him.
Good Luck.

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A guy I've liked for a very long time and me became friends this year, and we both found out we had feelings for each other for a while, and now we're going out. I'm happy, but... now I'm panicking. I realized I don't know much about him. I don't know what he likes to do and I don't know how to get him out of the house so we see each other out of school.

And now we won't really see each other out of school, because he graduated. I was invited to his graduation, and it was fun and I was very happy... but I miss him already and want to figure out how to plan an outing with him! What is something creative and fun and inexpensive that I can try and convince him to do with me?

We're both pretty shy too, and I really want this relationship to last for a while! So if anyone has any advice, please help because I'm really nervous -- I don't have good luck with guys and this is the one guy I know for a fact will treat me right. Everyone's really happy and has made the comment of he will treat me right...

Alrighty.
If you love somebody you should deff. get to know them better, find out what he likes to do and go from there. If he likes dressing up and going out go to dinner and a movie then go out to dinner and a movie. If he likes the outdoors then go camping for a weekend or something. Just do something you both like and enjoy. Also, i find a really good way to get to know people is to play Turth. Not truth or dare just truth.(You could do truth or dare though) With Truth you just take turns asking serious questions that you really want to know about eachother, and each of you have to answer the questions honestly.
It's a great way to get to know someone.
Good luck.

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okay well i like this girl for a while and she liked me and we started going out like 2 weeks ago...wednesday we made out like 4 times in a hour and i never did that before in my life but she has....now after i did it i dont really feel the same way for her..like i dont know if i still like her..i just feel different about her and we have been best friends before we went out so i dont if i should break up with her but i really dont knnow if i like her anymore and tomorrow she is supossed to come to a family thing and i kinda feel unconfortible around her now and we already decided that if we break up we will still be friends but i dont know...please help please!

If you feel uncomfortable around somebody you should NOT be with them, if it's not meant to be then it's not meant to be, and if you really truly care about each other you'll be able to just be friends.

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hey, today my crush dropped a major hint for me to give him my phone number, but i didnt...its cause my parents dont know about him, and i feel really uncomfortable talking to them about guys unless im going out with them and want to go to the movies or something...what should i do? i really like this guy and i want him to call me, but i dont want my parents to know!! please help!!! ill rate...

If you have a cellphone give him that number, Or you can give him your friends number and tell him to call when your at your friends house, or he could call you friend and the your friend can 3 call you. That way you can talk to him and your parents will think that you are talking to your friend.

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All right.. I'm 17 and a girl

So there's this boy.. we've been hangin out a lot lately and it's been a lot of fun like he comes over late at night sometimes and we just hang out in my backyard and talk.. I think I might like him..but I just got in trouble and I'm not sure how long I'm gonna be grounded for or anything..but I still wanna see him..and I don't want him to like someone else.. what do I do?

Talk to him.
Tell him you like him and about how you are grounded but you still want to see him and you don't want him to like anyone else. You guys can probably sneak out together still and hang out even why you are in trouble. Just do it while your parents are sleeping.

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ok i have a bf thats my age. but i REALLY like this other guy who is 2 yrs older than me. i think he likes me too. he doesnt kno that i have a bf though so if he asked me out nd im still w/ my bf, wut do i do?

ps-i think the older guy would b a much better bf!

Go out with the older guy if he asks you out. But break up with your boyfriend after you know for sure that the older guy likes you. So in case the older guy dosent like you, you still have your boyfriend.

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Is it ok to tell someone you like them cause for one they're moving to another state and you might never see them again.... but i have a boyfriend and i'm like in love with him but this other guy i like is leaving and i don't know where these emotions are coming from but i can't help it what should i do
signed,
hopeless romantic

Take it from another Hopeless Romantic.
I think you should go for it. I mean you never know this guy could turn out to be your soul mate. It's normal to have feeling like you are having. If he moves away then it wont really matter, he will be in another state knwoing that you like him and you will be able to move forward in your relationship with your boyfriend. If you dont tell this guy how you feel and then he leaves you are probably going to regret it.
Good Luck.

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ok i need help this girl i was datin broke up with me b/c she said she dont think she loves me like she loved her x and i rlly want her back plz tell me wat should i dooo...




help me

For your little ex, no love is ever the same. She may love her ex but if he broke up with her oviously he dosen't love her and she needs to move on and if she broke up with him oviously she didn't love him then so where did all this love come from. Either way you sort of have to talk to her about it. That may be the real reason that she did break up with you but it's probably not. She's either bored or is just looking for somethng else.

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