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ok im 14 1/2 ok and theres this awesome guy at my school and i mean i like him and i think he likes me i mean he goes to church and everything job but the thing is he's 17 and ive heard rumors saying that guys make bets and crap on the freshmen to see how fast they can get into there pants i mean im not going to do anything like that but i don't want to be apart of a cruel joke so should i take the chance and go out with him or no..................

Okay .. if you really feel that he would'nt hurt you and he really does like you and hes not messing with you then have something with him and if he still trys to get in your pants just tell him no and if he dont respect your discission then hes not worth it and hes just like every other prick .. its happend to me before and it sucks but not every older guy is like that so give it a try

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heyy..iight well i met this kid baq in liike march..and we were wit eachotha for a lil bit i had this gut feelin that he was gonna play me sO i backed off..and told him i didnt like him evn tho i realli did..and then a cuple months later i did stuff wit his best friend and that really pissed him off..and maybe like a 2 months ago i was like i neva stopped likin u i wanna be wit u..sO wut qot baq together..then like a month into it he tells me he cant be wit mee bcuz of wut happened wit me nd his best friend..and i like him sO much an i kno i aint gonna be able to get ovr him..wut shuld i do

somethin kinda tha same happend ta me.. i jus hadda learn ta get over him becasue i jus kept gettin hurt nd u dont wanna keep gettin stronger nd stronger feelinqz about him nd then if u guys break up again u`ll qet reeli hurt soo the best thing ta do is talk ta him about it and if nothin happens then fuck it and get ova him becasue no guys worth gettin upset ova ... hope i helped xoxox

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I sometimes feel the need to have a relationship, like my self-esteem is really low because I believe I need one (like a serious one)... is this normal? what should I do?

wow ur in the same sittuation as me .. ive been single for like 7 months haha its pathetic i no.. i have mad low self esteem too nd i alwais wanna b wit someone cuz beein single is boring soo jus like flirt a hell of alot nd dont b shy around guys cuz they like when ur beein urself turst me u will get someone it works.. i flirt like crazii nd all the guys tell me how pretty i am now nd gorgues nd shit .. jus trii it

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How long should u wait to know someone before you should kiss them??????

HEY iight well i dont reeli like look at how long i kno them nd stuff like i got with guys the first night i meet them its kinda jusz a wai of flirtin in aint that serius ! xoxo

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my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?!

well thats fucken up ... 4 fucken years ... dont listen ta him he hadda have sum feelings for u after four years thats bullshit.. wutta asshole.. hes prolee one of them guys that like jusz use girl s

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okay im 17 years old and after my last relationship( with a guy i fell in love with)i havent been able to find anyone that i can go out with and not think about and compare them to him what should i do

hey sweets! i well try nd forget about him nd like go out wit ur friends nd like flirt nd have fun .. u been thinkin that becasue hes been on ur mind ... hope i helped !

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I'm goiing into 8th grade and have never had a b/f and i think i no y. In school and in my neighborhood i'm constantly playing sports. I've always loved to be involved with the diff. kinds of sports and wen i'm playing(which is A LOT of the time) i'm mostly playing wit guys. So i've been known as "one of the guys" wen i'm playing basebal nd stuff. Since i like never do any of that gurlie stuff no guys have crushes on me(or even like me as a girl). Are there any ways I can SHOW them that Sports aren't my life and get them to take me seriously?

well mayb start ta wear makeup nd outside of the sports just take care of urself nd reeli care how u look nd dont talk about sports alot nd on ur free time go to the mall wit ur friends nd pic up some guys! hope i helpd xox

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what are some good ideas for gifts for my boyfriend (of 5 months) birthday?

hey babe..iight good ideas are maib like colon..or get pictures nd stuff that u guys have nd like all of ur songs nd make a scrap book outa it..thats wut mii friend did for her boyfriend after 7 months ..good luck *Jessi

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Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!!

i dunno maib he does like u becasue that does happen somtime people jus get automatic feelings for people..its happen ta me before..

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Okay well their is this boy at my school and we have gone out and broke up alot! Well now i think im startin to really like him again and he likes me to ! Im tired of breakin up and all but i really like him! Should i go out with him or say No??
Sighed
Boy TrouBle!!

hey okai..well jus tell him that if u do sai yes u dont want ne imiture bullshit with breaking up nd goin back out again 2 dais later..sai..u reeli wanna try something serius with him becasue u reeli think it wood work out...hope i helpd...xOxo Jesi

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okay, i am a 17 yr old girl, and the guy i am crazy for is 18, only like 3 or 4 months over tho, and my mom is freaking out over it! she's like, "if you guyz do anything, i will get him for rape" im in a tough situation and i dont really know what to do. i went to my friend and she said "follow your heart" how typical... ;D (luv ya tho sis!!!! if ya see this here! lol) ...anyways. i dont know what to do because i simply adore him, and my mom is okay with us hanging out and holdign ahnds and stuff, but i dont know about dating. help me!!!! cuz i dont wanna lose him (not that i am gonna do anyhting sexual with him anywayz! ) and i dont wanna dissapoint my mom... so either way some oen gets let down, and i really dont know what to do!

okai well tell your mom u cant help who you love and its jusz how you feel about them and u cant change that nd its onlii 1 year nd wais..nd tell her how u adore him nd u dont wanna loose him nd stuff im shure she`ll understand good luck
xoxo Jessi xoxo

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Around January i started likeing this guy named chris. We started talking and he told me liked me but that he couldnt go out with me because of everyone always getting into his business and trying to ruin things for him. Well he sortof stopped talking to me and it hurt me really badly. I liked him for the rest of the school year and then for 2 months he was only on my mind once in awhile. We'll in the beginning of July i started thinking about him again. He now wants to go out with me because he says that he didnt go out with me before because he didnt want me to get hurt and all this crap. Well last night we went skating and me and him hung out the whole time and i just wanted to hold his hand so badly but i knew that i couldnt. So around 10 he was like something about me goin out with him or something and my friend said aww are you askin her out and he said yeah and i said well how come now and he said just never mind megan and he said i try to be nice to you but you always seen to be mean in ways that you dont mean to. And so i just whatever chris. and then at the end of skatin ring he have me this really big hug and picked me up. The only problem is that there is a guy that has liked me for a really long time and he is like my best friend and he would never talk to me again if i went out with chris. What should I do in the situation? I really need some help so..b nice and ill rate you thank you!

dont go out with chris becasue if he woodnt take u before he missed his chance nd its not worth loossing one of your best friends over xox Jessi

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I've had a huge crush on this guy for almost a year now. He know's I like him, but he tries to ignore it like most guys do. He's in with the "popular" croud, but he's still acts really sweet and out-going and doesn't care what other people think. He waves at me a lot, he stares at me a lot, he plays with my hair and asks me to do stuff with him (in school, i.e. be his partner), and he also talks with me a lot more then other people. And just little stuff like that.

I know that a lot of people say "If you like someone, you automatically think they like you back", but I really think he likes me. But that's just me, and my friends think it's stupid to talk about, so does anyone have any adivce? Does he like me? o_O;

hey sweetie...damm this guy sounds like a reel hunk! lol but i reeli do think he likes u from mii opinion becasue jusz the wai he acts nd jusz talk ta him about it one time...hope i helpd
xoxo Jessi

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what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that.

bases is like the steps uve taken with a guy
1st base - hookin up / holdin hands/ hugging
2nd base - felt up
3rd base - oral
4th - all the wai

hope i helped xox Jessi xox

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When a guy fingers you (I have lots of questions about it). Does it hurt or will you bleed? and should we make out at the same time..just, what happens and how does it feel and do guys like it when your wet and..well what should I do to make it the best for him too?
And what exactly is an orgasm.
I rate good.
PLEASE HELP!

okai it dosnt hurt when a guy fingers you its supposed to b for pleasure lol and u dont bleed unless he goes too far nd its ur choice if u wanna make out or not it dosnt matter they jus like i dunnO how to explan it ..it jusz happens

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My boyfriend and I have been going out 4 about 10 months. Just a lil while ago he told me how the first few months of our relationship he was in2 porn, but then (him being his sweet self) said that the reason why he stopped was me bcuz he didn't wanna hurt me. Of course I 4gave him and everything, and I no I should b happy that he stopped cuzza me, but I still feel kinda hurt. I also feel... I don't really know... but I have a very small chest and just about no butt, and I feel kinda like he would want more than just me. He always says he loves me and I'm so beautiful and everything tho, so I'm happy about that. I think I'm just bn paranoid or w/e about this... but should I still feel a lil hurt that he was in2 porn instead of me? Also, should I worry about how he thinks of my (pretty flat) body?

hey well if a guy sais that hes gonna st0p loookin at porn for you that shood make u feel speical nd u shoodnt feel paronoid becasue erri guy looks at pOrn its a natural thing u dont have to worrie about him cheating cuz its in a magazine or on a tv screen..soo calm dOnw..u guys been together for almost a year im sure he wont think ne thing wrong of u or let porn get in the wai of ur relationship xoxo Jessi

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my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????

hey hun !! well leave it alone unless he finds out which he prolee will since it was his best friend but jusz tell him that u would like to do more exciting things then jusz to sit around ..tell him that hes been boring u latley nd ur jusz looking for fun hope i helped xo Jessi

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i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\

well if shes ur best friend u shood see how she feels about it nd talk ta her =) xo Jessi

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When you are looking for a boyfriend..what are good trates to look for?

personality is the main on becasue u dont wanna b.f that jus wants ta go out wit u becasue ur popular or ur looks or bodii u want a b.f that will b with u for who u are..nd u want someone that can make u laugh nd that u can have fun with even if it dun involve hornee shit hope i helped...good luck x0 Jessi

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my freind asked me out of a freind that i have known since 3rd gread and now were in the 10th gread and well i like him alot and he likes me so i think... and i yelled out no way im not carzy and i realy am for sayin no . can yall tell me how to say sorry and to get him to be with me? thanx

hey hun..jusz tell him ur sorrie for ur answer nd stuff nd u where reeli shocked becasue like u neva thought it wood happen but u reeli like him nd he likes u soo u wood like to try something wit him becasue u think u 2 can have sumthin
hope i helped x0x Jessi

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