My name is Valerie.
I'm 14 and i currently live in Maryland.
But I act a lot older, and am a lot wiser that a normal girl my age
I'm Italian so i have dark hair and brown eyes.
I love to play the guitar, and sing.
I've been dancing since i was 3 years old and i
I love music.
Its my life and there reason why im here.
I enjoy giving advice,but when it comes to giving advice to myself... it doesnt work.
If I made you laugh, or helped you out, rate me and I'll answer any questions you have. :)
Oh and one more (random) thing.
labels are for cambell soup, not people.
Have a nice day. :)
Website: A little bit more about me
E-mail: valzpro@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Maryland
Occupation: none
Age: 14
AIM: Shegotrevenge xx
Member Since: July 30, 2005
Answers: 48
Last Update: September 17, 2005
Visitors: 8084
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How can you hint to a guy, that you like him? (link)
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Get all flirtishy, i know thay can seem scary at points, its easier said than done, just kinda sit close to him or touch his arm, sweet talk him, compliment him, dont get really clingy though, cuz that would be annoying to them.
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i've just had sex with my dad. before this i was a virgin, he came in me and i think i could be pregnant. it was the most amazing night of my life.. but its my dad. what should i do. (link)
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um wow. Did you choose to have sex with your dad?Or did he force you?I'd get a pregance test.Wait atleast two weeks though,you won't know if you pregant right away. If you didnt want to have sex with him and he made you, you need to tell someone now. Go to the police or something cuz thats not right.
HIH
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Ok theres this kid i know, and we met at camp. were always making eye contact and at the dance he waited til the last song to ask me to dance.. i kno i like him, but im not sure if he likes me.. i wanna talk to him more but when i talk to him i get all shy and stop talkin. Wat are some good topics to talk to him about and do u think he could possibly like me?
please anything!
i rate 5's!! (link)
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Find something you both have incommon, and see what happens from there.
HIH rate me.
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ok so i have a boyfriend that i've been with for about 6 months now. im 16, my boyfriend is turning 19 in september And about four months into the relationship, i got raped by his older brother and now his family is blaming me and telling ppl it wasnt raped so now im questioning myself if it was rape or not. and then the cops got involved because my boyfriend called the cops since i told him what happened when i slept over. so when the cops were investigating, they found out that me and my boyfriend have been having sex as well. so now me & andrew arent even allowed to see each other legally and im just wondering if i should stay with him after all this happening, we want to have kids in the future and he even asked me to marry him...is this a good idea? (link)
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His brother raped you. Things would never be normal. Hoildays visiting the man that raped you? Your childrens Uncle raped you? How does that sound? Not to plesant to me. If you love your boyfriend and believe he is the one then by all means spend the rest of your life with him, but the brother thing might be a little awkward...
Sorry to hear about that.
HIH.Rate me
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im 15, blonde, athletic, skinny and about 5'11 and i don't think im ugly..but idk if guys are like intimidated by my height or what..i have alot of friends..but not that guy friends that i hang out with..so any suggestions on how to be more outgoing around guys w/ out being self concious about my height..or just any general advice would be great! (link)
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model. deff.
Or like a poll dancer...
but personaly i would go with working on the modeling skills. You dont want to get a slutty rep.
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Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.
who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.
who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that? (link)
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Awe.. i dont want to burst your bubble.., but sweetie your dreaming.
Those guys don't exist. But one day you'll find someone who is perfect to you and you'll be all happy.
And other people like me will be like "pssh pathetic"
aka im slightly jealous and disgusted how lovey-doveyish your being.
:) hope i helped rate me.
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this may get kinda long...well i have this boyfriend and weve been going out for about 2 months now, ive seen him mabe once in this time period. he always is with his friends and has time for them but never asks me what im doing or if i ever wanna do something. i can tell he likes me i mean he calls me everynight and if he cant call me, like if he gets in trouble or something, he will tell one of his friends to call me and tell me he cant call...i know this sounds bad and all but i had one of my friends that is a guy call him and casually ask him if he was cheating on me cause i figure mabe hes sick of me and he says that he hasnt been...so i dont know what to do, i really love him and i never stop thinking about him so its not so easy to say, just dump him, thats the advice ive been getting from all my friends...i know i should talk to him about it but im to shy to say it on the fone...i would really appreciate anyyy advice anyone can give me i rate 5's!!! thanksss (link)
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You could ask him on some type of instant messagner.But then you wouldnt hear him the sound of his voice, like if he paused to think about it.
lol my uncle was looking over my shoulder and he is always saying that i cant give advice well jokingly so i proved to him that i can! :) and he had some advice too.
he says: ask him on instant messager/e-mail.In some way of typing it. Because if you ask him in person/on the phone he will feel like he is being put on the spot and will have to react quickly. Which might lead to lying.Then you would have to react back to whatever he says. Putting you on the spot. aka(dont put him on the spot)
You might want to ask him to hang out,tell him what you told me,"i really like you and sometimes i feel like you could be cheating on my because we never hang out, even though you call often i would like to see you more".
Something like that, if you have any questions or need more advice IM me (AIM) at xforgottenx101x
or e-mail me at valzpro@yahoo.com
Rate me. HIH
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ive never been kissd...im worried it will be too akward
i guess i jut need confidence or something... (link)
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I shall quote a fine movie called HITCHED (starring the sexy Will Smith)
"The man goes 90% and the girl goes the other 10%"
"Ew man you werent supose to actually kiss me!!!"
Or something like that..i dunno but it was funny.
Sorry, someone had to say it...
Rate me and listen to the sexy Will Smith damnit!
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a guy that i like a lot thinks i have lost interaste in him which isnt true at all. i tryed tellin him but he still thinks i dont like him as much and i need a way to prove it to him that i love him a lot can someone plz help me out?? (link)
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Show him you love him.
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I have some trouble getting boyfriends, well, that's my opinion. You see, my friends always tell me I'm pretty and popular but I never believe them because of course your friends are going to say that right? Well, I've been asked out a few times and I've had two b/fs. I'm 13 already and I have this crush on this guy at my school. We're like, best friends and he knows I like him and he liked me awhile back but I want to know if you have any advice of how I can win him over because I probably won't see him next year because we'll be going to two different high schools. Please please help!
~Christine~ (link)
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Hey Christine,
let me tell you right now hun, you will have lots of time for boyfriends.(im sure you've heard that and you tired of hearing that) But its true. Its good that he knows you like him. You should def. see each other before you start going to different high schools. Hang out once in a while, talk to him a lot. But dont annoy him. Dont call every 5 seconds. Let him call/talk to you.See if he will IM you first. Ask one of his friends who he likes. Or one of your friends to ask him who he likes.Heck, since you guys seem close, you could ask him if he likes you.Say "insert name here, as you already know,i like you a lot, more than a friend, and i was wondering how you feel about me"
If he doesnt like you more than a friend because he doesnt want to ruin what you already have as friends and what not, be understanding. Before you ask him this though, make sure you hang out with him a few times,or at least talk on the phone, flirt with him,either verbal, or when you talk to him in person touch his arm,play with his hair, whisper in his ear, you know be firty with him, if he doesnt seem to want to flirt then dont carry on (duh) dont force him into anything he doesnt want to do. Make sure he feels comfortable in the situation. Maybe he still likes you,and is shy to say so 95% of guys want you to make the 1st move.
Hope that helps...
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Well out of nowhere me and my ex bf got into a conversation..and he told me he missed me and he wanted to hang out..but i saw in his profile tht he loved some girl. So then i showed that to him and hes like "oh thats been there forever you know that" and he took it out. When i went on away message he put it back into his profile. Today he hasn't even talked to me once. It was so weird. What is going on?? (link)
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hun.he has a girl. And its not you.
So make him jealous. Get a guy (or make one up) and piss him off. its works and its funny. But don't use a guy to make your ex jealous like he is prolly doing to this other poor girl. Make sure the guy that you are using to make you ex jealous is hott
Rate me if i helped
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My boyfriends aunt like hates me. Now we can't hang out because of her and i really love him and he really loves me ut it's so hard because we'll neever see each other. I never even did anything bad or wrong she just hates me for some reason.well maybe because i broke up with him 2 times for VERY good reasons. What could I do to let her let us hang out? Or at least see each and hang out somewhere! thank you! (link)
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chocolate. send her chocolate.
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is it wrong if you are 15 yrs old and have a 25 year old boyfriend??everyone tells me that its wrong.. (link)
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yea..somewhat. 10 year age difference. He prolly is prolly just using you.
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how do u give head (link)
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here let me show you...? haha no. Ask your mom.
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i like this guy a lot. i use to like his best friend, and i still kind of do, but im kind of starting to like him more. and my friends witch are his friends say that he likes me too, but hes really shy, and im not sure if i want to belive them, because he ust doesnt seem like he likes me, but hes friends keep saying he does. and im not sure hat to do. because im not sure if he will tell me he likes me because he is so shy, and im afarid to tell him i like him, and have him not like me and i will feel stupid. thanks so much
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i know how you feel about being afriad. But think about it.If you dont go up to him, in 2 months from now your going to wonder what would have happened between you two.So if he doesnt like you, atleast you tried. And you can move on. Its his loss if he doesnt think your are special and a great girl.Most guys are not good at showing their feelings, and 95% of them want girls to make the first move. So get out there, get yourself a guy sweetie. You'll be glad you did. And if he doesnt like you, there is always his best friend right? Or..younger brother?
rate if i helped!
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I am 12 and a half and 4 weeks ago I hooked up with a boy named Luke and I really like him. Although I am supposed to go out with him I am really scared because when my mum will pick me up if she sees him, that she will abandon me from seeing him. I am scared to tell her that I have a boyfriend because I am scared that she wont allow me to see him. Please help! (link)
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Your young, there is lots of time to have boyfriends.Hun, i'll tell you now all the pain that they put you thru being assholes all the times sometimes isnt worth it. The sweetest guy is a jerk. I swear that to you. If i were you, i would ask your mum if your aloud to go out with boys. If she says no, ask her if you can go out with them in group dates (dont call it group dates when you ask) call it.. a bunch of friends hanging out, and the guy you like will be there. Don't sneek around, when she catchs you (and she will catch you) she wont trust you and then everything will suck after that.
If i was any help to you please rate me.
Thanks hope everything works out. Is he cute? :-p
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