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Guy trouble
I have some trouble getting boyfriends, well, that's my opinion. You see, my friends always tell me I'm pretty and popular but I never believe them because of course your friends are going to say that right? Well, I've been asked out a few times and I've had two b/fs. I'm 13 already and I have this crush on this guy at my school. We're like, best friends and he knows I like him and he liked me awhile back but I want to know if you have any advice of how I can win him over because I probably won't see him next year because we'll be going to two different high schools. Please please help!
~Christine~
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Hey Christine,
let me tell you right now hun, you will have lots of time for boyfriends.(im sure you've heard that and you tired of hearing that) But its true. Its good that he knows you like him. You should def. see each other before you start going to different high schools. Hang out once in a while, talk to him a lot. But dont annoy him. Dont call every 5 seconds. Let him call/talk to you.See if he will IM you first. Ask one of his friends who he likes. Or one of your friends to ask him who he likes.Heck, since you guys seem close, you could ask him if he likes you.Say "insert name here, as you already know,i like you a lot, more than a friend, and i was wondering how you feel about me"
If he doesnt like you more than a friend because he doesnt want to ruin what you already have as friends and what not, be understanding. Before you ask him this though, make sure you hang out with him a few times,or at least talk on the phone, flirt with him,either verbal, or when you talk to him in person touch his arm,play with his hair, whisper in his ear, you know be firty with him, if he doesnt seem to want to flirt then dont carry on (duh) dont force him into anything he doesnt want to do. Make sure he feels comfortable in the situation. Maybe he still likes you,and is shy to say so 95% of guys want you to make the 1st move.
Hope that helps...
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