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bf's Aunt
My boyfriends aunt like hates me. Now we can't hang out because of her and i really love him and he really loves me ut it's so hard because we'll neever see each other. I never even did anything bad or wrong she just hates me for some reason.well maybe because i broke up with him 2 times for VERY good reasons. What could I do to let her let us hang out? Or at least see each and hang out somewhere! thank you!
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maybe call her up and say hi Mrs ( her last name) this is (your name) you no (your boyfriends name) girlfriend. I can't help feeling that you don't like me very much and I just wan tto know why. I love you nephew very much and I jusst want to figure out what the problem is so maybe we can resolve it. If she is nice hopefully she iwll begin to talk to you but thats not nessacarily going to happen. If she doesn't give you a truthful answer drop the situation and maybe bring it up when you see her face to face. If this still doesn't work maybe you and your boyfriend need to talk to his parentss. Afterall there in charge so it depends on them if they want there son hanging out with you or not. This woman to me sounds a little disagreeable. I hope I helped
Kel
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Try asking your boyfriend to talk to his Aunt about this maybe she just doesnt like any of his girlfriends but who knows
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Ask your boyfriend what the heck you did to make that old fart hate you (in nicer words, of course.)
If there's really no reason, then he should tell his Aunt to buzz off. He's old enough to choose his own girlfriends, and even though family is important.. well, it's technically none of thier business who he does and doesn't date.
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if i were y0u, i w0uld talk t0 her. it may s33m weird, but if y0u want this wh0l3 thing t0 b3 0ver with s0 that y0u can just hang 0ut with y0ur b0yfri3nd, th3n just talk t0 her. Ask her why sh3 hat3s y0u s0 much. Mayb3 sh3 just misjudg3d y0u at first, but 0nc3 sh3 s33s that y0u ar3 a r3sp0nsibl3 girl, and had th3 n3rv3 t0 talk t0 h3r, than mayb3 sh3 will chang3 her mind ab0ut y0u! h0p3 i h3lp3d!!
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chocolate. send her chocolate.
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You need to find some time where the two of you (your boyfriend and you, that is) can sit down and talk. Just have a heart to heart. Explain to him (again, if you already have) that you don't understand why his aunt hates you so much. Then let him know (again, if you already have) how much you care about him. See if he feels the same way. If the two of you are really in love, he should forget what his aunt thinks. Love is really special, and when you find it, you have to do everything you can to hold onto it. I don't know if this was helpful at all, but good luck hun!
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Some "older" people just get it in for you for no apparent reason. They just do so dont think much about it. Maybe try calling him and asking to meet somewhere. Or email/im him a lot. There are definitely ways to stay in touch even without his aunt's permission. Don't worry and keep being nice to her to show that you really are a decent person. Good luck!!!
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