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Why would it upset a guy that you're just dating (not living with or sharing any expenses) that you finally found a good job at that you're happy with? I have my own appartment and my bf has his own place. He has a very good paying job in the oil rig camp but with crazy hours. When I told him how much fun I was having at my new part time job he was acting really strange, like he wasnt happy for me. This was really weird because he used to be upset when I was unemployed and encouraged me to find employement. I almost got the feeling that he was even jealous? Or maybe it was my imagination.
Anyways, now he hasnt talked to me in several weeks. What do you think is his problem? (link)
he probably realizes that now that he pushed you into getting a job, your're time cant completely revolve around when he is and isnt working. he feels like he is losing you to your new part time job. just call him or go see him and ask him whats wrong... if he doesnt want you to work then he should pay your bills!! :-)


ok...i am a guy 14 and i like this girl,shes 14 too.So how i make sure she likes me?I tried asking her out she said no srr im too busy this week...how i know she could like me?or to make her like me? (link)
basically, girls like compliments and feeling special. make her think she is the best thing on this planet. let her know you wanna be friends and let it take off from there.


ok i am 13 and a gurl....and i am having major guy problems.....every guy i go out with wants me to do stuff to him sexually and stuff....and when i tell then that i am not ready for that they eather leave me or act like a two year old .....and if they dont leave me for that i find out the next day they were getting it from my best friend any ways, so what should i do? i can never get a good man....

~used and abused~ (link)
this is a problem that happens with every girl. ALL guys can be pigs sometimes. but if you are ending up with the same kind of guy over and over, you need to look for a new type of guy. and if you are dating someone who says they like you... they need to respect what your feelings are. if they really do like you they will back off until you feel like its the right time, and only you can know exactly when the right time is.


Ok what do i do when my Friend says her brother likes me, but i dont know if he really does??

Ps-The boy already asked me out but i think he doesnt mean it. And how should i act when im over there, i mean she is my bff.

im a 14/f (link)
if your friend, and her brother both said that he likes you then chances are he does. if you like him too you should go out with him! since she is your best friend, be sure that you dont leave her out. when you go over to their house have time to hang out with both of them. or invite him to your house and when you go there hang out with her. just make sure she doesnt mind you dating her big brother... because good best friends are hard to find


I really like this guy named Mike. Me and my friend Logan went to the movies with him and he held are hand and kissed both of us. Then after that he gave us his number. I was really attracted to him. He asked out my friend Logan but she said no. I really like him and he knows i do but now he likes some other girl. why would he kiss me and hold hands with me and telling me all this stuff on the phone and now likes another girl?
signed,
confused (link)
well maybe he felt guilty for liking your friend, so he decided to treat you the same way. guys dont know what to do when it comes to girls. ignore him. find someone who likes you and who you like back. "MIKE" may seem like the guy for you... but if he doesnt like you then there must be someone out there thats a better fit.


my bf always says hes gonna call me back but never does nd we were on the phone like 5 hrs ago nd he said he was gonna call me back but didnt so should i just call him or will i seem desperit? i havent talked to him in a while cause he was on vaca nd when we got to talk before, it was only for like 10 mins cause he had to go cleanhis room or wutever. i dont wanna seem desperit. but ive been missing him. . . please answer fast ill rate! the faster, the higher (link)
guys will be guys. they will always forget to call. you wont seem desperate. so dont worry. 5 hours is a long time to wait! simply remind him in a joking way that he forgot to call back. he will laugh it off and not think a thing about it. since he is your boyfriend, you should be allowed to call him no matter what. and since you are his girlfriend im sure he is always glad to receive your calls! tell him you missed him.


ive been talking to this guy for 5 yrs. but weve never been together and he lives in flordia right now. Well he just asked me to marry him,i really love him....but i don't want to get married, ive never wanted to get married. I don't know what to say.

HELP
-twiSTed (link)
dont do anything you will regret. but when you love someone, its always right to get married and commit yourself on that level. its only fair to the person you say you love to marry them. and if it is REALLY love, it shouldnt be that big of a deal to marry them because you should already want to be with them forever. but only you know whats best for yourself! tell him how you feel.


Alright, so I know this girl, i've known her about a year and a half and we have dated once before for like 3 months. It was quiet long distance and we really didn't do anything. We got into a stupid fight about stupid thing's and stopped talking for about 7 months. Well, about 2 months ago I started talking to her again because I wanted to get to know her again and be cool since she will be going to the same high school as me this year as apposed to last year. So instantly we started talking on the phone and now we talk till like 3 am almost every night. I see her a bit more now and we spent the fourth with each other and now im like seriously falling for her, she is everything I could ever want. BUT, I don't really thinks she feels the same and she never tells me how she feels. She just says, I don't want a boyfriend during the summer. What should I do and how does it sound from a female point of veiw. (link)
it sounds like you really like this girl. have you told her how much yet? if not, you need to. she might be feeling the same thing, but sometimes girls wont open up to guys because they are afraid of getting hurt. let her know that you like her and that you arent going to be like other guys she may have been with. if you get rejected it wasnt meant to be. but if she feels the same then taking the risk of being rejected was worth it.. right?


idk what to do...i was "together" with this guy.(im 13/f-hes 14/m) hes a grade older than me but we got to know eachother this year and started going "together" this march i think. well hes really really really busy w/ sports and we used to talk atleast like 3 hours everyday. now hes going to hs and hes been acting like a jerk lately. he hasnt talked to me in a long time, and he was talking to my friend and said that its not gonna work out, but he wont talk to me so hes leaving it up for me to figure it out even though i know already. what should i do, cus im having a hard time moving on...thanks.
-emily (link)
ok i have been in this exact situation. and its always hard to get over someone. i think you deserve better than him. any guy who stops talking to you without giving any reason isnt worth your time. he mite be too scared to tell you that he doesnt want a relationship anymore, but not talking to you is even worse. try calling him. ask him whats wrong but dont be too pushy. if he acts like he doesnt want to be together, break it off. it mite be hard, but in the end you will be better off. its not a good relationship if one of the persons in it doesnt want to be in it.


i have this guy friend((i am like best friends with him and his sister))and he is always calling me and stuff he will call me like 7 times in one day...he flirts all the time...do yall think he likes me?? (link)
oh wow. this one falls right into my category! chances are if any guy calls you, he has atleast some interest in you. i say if you like him go for it! just make sure his sister wouldnt mind you dating her brother!




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