im sorry its long but i really really need help!!
my boyfriend dated this girl jessica, i dont know how long they dated but they did date for at least a few months! this was at least a year ago because we have been dating for a lil over a year and it was before us. he was her first kiss and stuff. now out of the blue she is calling him and he told me that they always talk during jazz band (class) and my friend justin said they always go in this dark room to talk and sometimes this other kid goes in there with them but its usually just them. this girl told my boyfriend that she likes him and she thinks he likes her. he said that he just wants to be friends. (im going off of everything he told me). then for his bday a week ago, she made him cookies... he said he asked her to get him something for his bday and she had cookies left over so she gave them to him but there were a lot of cookies in there so idk. the girl is constantly at his locker and talking to him and HE sits by her at lunch ALONE TOGETHER and she calls him and they talk for hours at a time. everytime i come around she leaves. i dont know what the hell to do but its not going away. i tried talking to him and he said that he doesnt wanna feel like he cant be friends with her. how do i deal with this cuz im ready to just bitch her out and be really really mad at my boyfriend because hes going with it and allowing it to happen. thanks in advance! also jessica keeps saying to everyone how hot my boyfriend is and she wont stop talking about him and stuff. now were fighting and he just doesnt understand anything. i tried talking to him but it doesnt work. everyone else (including guys) understand but he doesnt. grrrrr
i would talk to the gril. be nice at first be like hey i dont respect that your talking tomy guy and saying how hot he is .. and then if she is bitchy back to her leave the frist time then go tell ur boyfriend and see what he says and if he still doesnt do anything tell him you cant talk to him until he fixes the problem and that you cant handle it and you really dont want to lose him to anouther girl and that you want him to have friends but you dont want to be left out. hope i helped..
~*Deb*~
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Well i like this boy and he already asked me out once but he thought he liked someone else so i said forget about it. but now we have this chemistry between us and i think i like him.
lol it sounds like me and my boyfriend. well we weent out one time and we broke up cause he liked this other girl and then like for like 6 months after we were talking and well then we started going out again. and well we have been together for like a year and a half. so i think that you should talk to him and telll him you like him and who knows maybbe something really good will happen for you. hope i helped.
~*Deb*~
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So, I'm going out with this girl and everything is going well and everything. Yesterday we are talking on the phone, and she tells me that she is attracted to heavy guys, which I don't mind. I wouldn't consider myself obese, but she says she usually dates heavier set guys. Although she didnt come out and say it, she seemed to hint that she would like me heavier. Now, I'm willing to do anything for her, but I just spent last summer trying to lose weight! I'd rather not gain back that 25 I lost... Is there anything I can do that will satisfy both of us? For your information, I am 15 and male.
i wouldnt gain back the weitght stay the way your are if your happy wiht it. you shouldnt have to change the way you are. if she is dateing you now then she shouldnt stop going out with you just cause your not bigger.
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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much
Sorry its taken me solong to answer this. but see i think that he does like you. so i htink that the night you were together he showed it and now it seem to me like he is scared. like he is scared to show you how he feels and how much you may mean to him. . . so i think that if you could find a way to just talk to him and actualy have him talk back like get together again wiht him and talk and bee like i like you and i need to know what is going on hear cause it is hurting me to much to be lead on. well you dont hav eto say that but you get my drift. Alright i hope i helped and if you have anymore questions or if anything else happens that may give a little more info just let me know kk ..
~*Deb*~
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okay i have a problem =/ my friend who i am really close to asked me to homecoming the other day, and i said no. well all along i have really wanted to go with him but people at my school hate him because he dumped one of them like 2 years ago, and they are still upset with him. the thing is, i said no because i didnt want people to be mad at me since it is only the 2nd week of school. Did i do the right thing? He seems really upset and i really want to go so does anyone have any advice? xO
well if i were you i would go out with the guy it seems to me like you both really like each other and hey you never know it could be the best choice you ever made.. maybe you should talk to your friends and just be like what if i went out with him or went to homecoming what would you do .. and just see what they say.. hope i heled
~*Deb*~
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ok well i kissed this guy the other day and its been great but its the holidays and weve been speaking for like an hour on the phone coz he was at the airport going home so when he was on the plane just before he left he txted me and it was great and he said that he missed me and then i said 'so are we exclusive?' and he asked what that meant and i said just what are we? and so he replied what do u want us to be and i said what does you want?am i just a rebound (as he split up from a long term relationship) and he said 'look ur sexy and cool etc and we could go on 1 date or two' and then straight afterwards he said 'or loads of dates' and so then i replied loads of dates sounds prefect! so he just said lots and lots of love my bunny. ok sorry this is long but what did all that mean that he does like me?or that he just wants a couple of dates and stuff...i like him soo much i might be inlove so i need to know!!! im so sorry but ill rate high!!!! thank you xxx
well it sounds to me like he does like you and he is in a flirtatious beat around the bush kind of way telling you that.. .. so i would go for it.. tell him that you like him and that you want to be wiht him and then see what he says back i would tell him you need to know soon befor you put anymore of your heart into the relationship.. hope i helped..
~*Deb*~
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Hey, i kind of like my best friends boyfriend,...but the thing is,...i hooked them up,...it's all to strange for me and i dont know what to do. he's nice, funny and cute and everything....i got myself into something big, i know and her mom is like real sick and she's gonna die soon which makes the drama so less appealing
wow well the fisrt part about likeing her boyfriend i totally understand i did the same thing i hooked up my bestfreind with her boyfreind and tehn i started to like him... and well i felt horrable when i started to like him. i thoughti was the worst person in the world and then i told her and we talked it out and then she said that if i realy liked him and it stared causeing problems then she would break up wiht him.. so maybe you should talk to your friend.. but it is hard becasue her mom is dieing isnt it.. well if i were you i would talk toyour freind and tell her how you feel.. and then see where it goes you dont want to hurt her feelings though just be like hey .... im realy sorry but i have to tell you this.. and then tell her and tell her you didnt intentional mean to like him itjust happend.. hope i helped..
~*Deb*~
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i have trouble with french kissing. Ive tried but i think i think about it too much. my bf hasnt done it b4 either and hes tried to get to that point but i wouldnt let him. how would i do my lipsand what do i do?
thnx
just go wiht it when he is going to kiss you jsut with tongue jsut go with what he is doing.. i didnt know what to do either but then when he did it i just followed what he was doing hope i helped
~*deb*`
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okay so yesterday i kissed my boyfriend and it was terrible! i want to know how to get into a situation with kissing without just saying hey lets makeout. i want to know what to do when i kiss him and what i should do with my lips, hands, and everything else. i want to intimatly makeout with him but im not sure how, please help I RATE 5's ALL THE WAY
you should just kiss him then after you do that go wiht what he does. just move your lips around put your hhands around his neck and just kiss i know it sounds stupid bbut if you do it again it might be bbetter. That is what i do wiht my bboyfriend and welll it is allways fun . and leads to more things. lol hope i helped.
~*Deb*~
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