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well me and this guy were together.. but i never kissed him bc i didnt think i was ready.. now i just found out that he was playin with my head the whole time and that he has a gf... i wanna forget about him but he just stays in my head! all the things he told me and everything is stayin in my mind! i cant stop thinkin about him even though hes a scumbag! wat do i do??
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he's not worth a dime babe. Look i went through that too. it broke me apart, like bad. try doing some extra cxurricular activities like a sport gardening, or hanging otu with tfreinds. write all of your feelings donw in a notebook and then burn them or throw them away as if you are saying i've said it all now i'm done with it. doing yoga and breathing techniques helped me alot. hope that helps!
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ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react.. (link)
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When i had a boyfriend i had to make the biggest decision to have or not to have.. Well i chose not to have and i'm glad i did too. b/c he broke up with me after 7 months.. So you see no matter how much you might think you love them.. they always backstab you.. well at least in my case.. I would only suggest to you that you defiantly should wait *i've decided to wait till marriage* b/c then you could regret later down the road if you find someone you love MUCH more.. and at your age.. well it's just a shame. i had a friend who is like my sister who wasted that time with someone she is never going to see again. I really hope you think long and hard about this and tell your self that you are worth more than that. if he likes you. or loves you he WILL wait for you.
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Okay, so I like this girl, she knows I like her, but I asked her if she liked me once, she said that she likes me as a friend. I really want to hang out with her, etc, so that maybe I'll get her to rethink her response, but I'm at an age where co-ed is kind of discouraged. So, like, I got into an advanced science class, and there's only 20 people in that class. I was thrilled when I found out she had gotten in. The bad news? One of my other friends---a guy---also got in, and so I'd probably be expected to sit next to him, if we had a choice in seating.
Also, whenever I throw a party, should I invite her? I mean, theres some 15 guys there, hanging out, talking about DnD or how far we just got in Warioware, but then it would be kind of awkward to have just one single individual girl theere. I'm really kinda screwed in the head right now, she invited me to her parties, but then again, there were like ten guys there. What should I do, advicenators? (link)
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.. they had some good advice.. definatly do not invite her to a party where it's just going to be guys.. I know if it was my dad He wouldn't even consider it.. b/c you always hear about . girls getting in bad situations. any way.. yea go like bowling or something in a group like invite her and tell her to bring two her friends and you invite two of yours, or somthing .. oh hey DUCKPIN BOWLING.. is really fun.. but hard to find.. depending on where you live.. look it up. costs like 25 bucks for like 6 people to go for an hour. or so. and it's fun. or like go out to steak n shake with her and some other people *not just guys once again* something you can all do that involves both sexs here.. okay any thing else drop one in my inbox.
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My boyfriend started to french me but I pulled away and said I didn't feel like it. Well, truth is, I don't know how and I'm worried I'll be bad at it. Does anyone have any tips or websites that can help me out?
Thanks,
Angela (link)
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When i first started dating my Ex I was afraid of the same thing. well here are some tips i've picks up..
1) Dont' put too much toungue in his mouth.
2)Mirror what he does to you.
3)dont use too much lip either.. you dont want to slobber all over his mouth.
4) go slowly and passionate .. FAST kisses are meaningless and messy.
5)wear some kind of moisterlock lip gloss you dont want your lips to get dry or you can't keep them open!
6) if you have braces dont worry too much about them.. if he does.. dont worry too much about them.. but try not to touch teeth haha.
7) Brushy teeth or have a mint at hand.
good luck!
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Hi guys.
Sorry if this is really long...i rate high.
Alrighty.
Well i have a boyfriend and i love him to death. We've been together for over 3 months and ever since ive knwn him he never EVER talks about his problems.
If i know somehtings wrong he'll say things like.."Its not important" or "Its nothing" when i can seeeee that its bothering him a lot. I want him to know that he doesnt need to act all tough around me. And i need him to know that he can talk to me about anything. I just dont know what to say to him.
Ive tried the usual..."you know im always here for you" and all that and he says he knows but it doesnt change anything.
Do you guys have anything i could say or do that would get him to know that im always there...and ready to listen?
Any advice is great advice!!
Thanks...
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Well it could be that he's trying to protect you from something.. Or maybe he's embarassed about it. But if it really bothers you then i suggest that you say "I know you might not want to tell me but I think honesty and trust is good in a realationship so if you can tell me then we should talk IF it will make you feel better." Or "Hunny, i love you and I need you, but we have to be open with each other and i'm worried about you will you tell me what's been bugging you." Something along those lines or you can *if you know what its' about *break the ice with a joke and then say btw about that.... and so forth. Hope that helps.
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OK....i am like BOY CRAZY....yet sometimes i look at girs but i still really like boys and i get crushes on boys all the time...im confused does this happen to a lot of ppl?? PLz help i rate high! (link)
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Dude you're fine.. even if you get that inkling that you like a girl it's likely that you just think they are pretty and could be jealously.. I get it all the time and trust me I"M STRAIGHT. don't worry too much about it.
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14/f Ok i have really liked his one guy for about 3 years and we have dated a couple times but we never really lasted. But i just currently broke up with my ex boyfriend. But i was talking 2 them both last nite on the computer and i still have feelings for them both. My ex boyfriend he dumped me because there was just 2 much going on in his life like his ex gf was up and he didn't know what would happen. But now that shes leaving sunday. He wants 2 go back out w/ me. I dont wanna get played like that but i also have feelings for him. And my "dating guy" hes cute and all but i think all hes interested in is getting laid. He says he loves me but... im really confused please help! i rate high for good answers (link)
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Well okay i dated when i was your age and i have to say none of them meant anything. From my personal exsperience i would also say try to forget your feelings if you know one of the guys just wants in your pants he' NOT worth it, and you should recognize that. the other well he just wants a girlfriend and it also jsut sounds like it whatevers available. Hun i wish i had more to offer but i've been there and it's not fun. I hope you can find a level of understanding there and choose a good answer for yourself.
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Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.
who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.
who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that? (link)
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Hunny .. so do I.. and i thought i had that But i didn't and I lost. b/c the truth is that they just like you siad tell you they lov eyou to get in your pants.. well he got far enough before he realized i wasn't going to put out ne more than i had already. hehe. Ne way.. The point is yes we all want that it's hard to find but for now what you need is a best GUY friend a guy who loves you and will kiss you but doesnt' want to date you until you decide and find that you do want to date and by then you never know what could happen. I dont know if that helped but good luck!
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ok...heres the story...
boys starts liking girl, girl doesnt like boy, boy and girl hang out for some time, girl starts liking boy but doesnt know what to do!!
*by the way, the boy is shy and the girl is far from it...please help!!!!!! (link)
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If you know he liked you .. then you shouldn't have a problem telling him how you feel.. I guess the problem lies with him being shy right? okay here you go:
You can try subtle hints and even smiles you never give him.. Or you can be blunt and say it nicely and calmly that you like him and ask him how he feels about that. if I was right then you could have a better relationship. I hope this helps. And good luck this sounds sweet.
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