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13.m
there r 3 girls i like at my school, but they all have bfs already with no sign of breaking up, ive been really good friends with them for a while and have gone out with them in the past, i just really miss having a gf and im lookin for advice

ps-dont say look for other girls cuz every1 else at my school is too preppy and green

Hmmmmmmmmmm...green aye?? hahaha!! dude I'm a girl and I have them same problem...well, you know...with GUYS I mean....heh! Well, it depends on how you act around them. If you just act like the "The-best-guy-friend-but-nothing-else-guy" then they might not think you are interrested in them that way. I know it may same akward, and hard/weird to act a little more... like you like them without being obvious ( and if you have mastered this already God has done you good son!) but If my guy friends did the same thing (or vice verca how ever you spell it) I think we would have a better chance of getting together. Just like you and your friends/ex GF's.
maybe you should talk to them when the time is right. Thing s will trun out right for you. dont worry

hope I helped!!_L.M.*...sorry for the longness!

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i like a boy whose a senior and im a freshman.. ha if my mom knew we ever did anything shed kill me.. what do i do?.. continue to do what ive done the past 2 weeks behind her back.. or drop him?

you should talk to her about it... or HINT to her subtley. Ask her how far apart she and your dad (if you have one-if not I am SO sorry) -that always seems to get my mom! I know tons of kids who do the same thing- you guys are only 3/4 years apart.You should be able to choose..but you wouldn;t want to get in trouble and mess things up with your mom.

GOOD LUCK!!-L.M.*

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Okay this boy in my year iv'e known him since first school and we've always been good friends. Im 13 by the way.I've been out with him a couple of times but nothing serious just a laugh really. I've always had something for him and a couple of weeks ago he asked me out I said no because i didn't think it was right.Then he asked again and i still felt the same. But now i REALLY REALLY like him.He blanked me today and I feel as though i have no more chances?He's not the same with me and he hardly talks to me. Am i right or can someone out there help?? Thanks xxx

I think the only way anything is going to change is if you talk to eachother. You guys sound tight, you should feel comfortable (somewhat) talking to eachother.

GOOD LUCK!!-L.M.*

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I seem to attract women who are not currently single.

This wouldn't be such a delima if I didn't fall for them when they seduce me, but I seem to do that too.

It's happening again now, for the 3rd time in my life! I know morally I should avoid the situation, but it's too late for that now, I'm in knee deep. What should I do?

age/gender, huh? I'm an adult Male.

think about this-HYpothetical situation:

You come home from work at the end of the day. You're stressed out of your mind because there have been continuous lay offs at your job including a couple of your close friends. You are just aching for a little TLC from your wife. She was your high school sweet heart. Your Juliette. The missing half of your heart. She completed and sealed each and every single day with a kiss. As you step into the house to get out of the rain trembling out of the sky, the perfume of your favorite barbeque ribs slathered in your own secret sauce that you and your wife created from scratch while camping with Rick, one of your friends who got layed off. You throw your worn out rain coat on the kitchen counter as you stop in front of the dining room.

The old dining room that you SWORE to your wife that you would re-make and peel the sticky wall paper off of, and make beautiful, was truly that. beautiful. The Egyption cotton table cloth evelopes the thick mahogany table laiden with the crystal and the silver, even your great grandmother's china. But Who other was dancing at this grand Ball , laughing with your Great grand mother's china, dining with your Juliette, is a tall slender man, with whisppy salt and pepper hair,with smiling eyes, and had the most magnetic charisma, you were afraid that your watch would be snatched from your wrist and dragged to this skin. The sound of crystal breaking echos through the once magnificent room. Your wife scrambles to pick up the splintering glass as she stammers " H-Hunny?!!?? My, I'm a- so glad...?I thought you were staying late at work??..." the ring on her left hand danced on her finger. It was princess cut...because she was your princess.......+


The end...

do you see?? I know you probably know what you are doing, but this dating married or otherwise attached women must stop. Just ask yourself how would you feel if the story above ever happened to you??
You might want to save this on your computer or some place to remind yourself next time your eye wonders where it shouldn't.

HOPE I HELPED- L.M.*

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Me and my bofriend, Rob, have been going out about a month. We dated for about 2 months b4 I asked him out. It seems whenever we hang out its boring. He's already told me he loves me and wants to marry me. We're 16 and 17 btw. I recently met this guy named Ed. He seems cool and everything. Before Ed, everything with Rob was fine but since I met Ed the stuff between me and Rob seems boring and predictable. So my question is should I dump Rob and persue Ed or should I stay with Rob and see what happens?

you should defenitly think. Is rob all that bad?? DO you find youself trapped in akward pauses?? or do you just find him less interesting and think "OO! what would ed do?" or " what would Ed would do ?" because if rob just has puppy love and YOU really dont like him any more or see him as a material object- then dump him. Try taking a break. see what this Ed is all about. if it doesnt work out, then go back to Rob.

HOPE I HELPED!!-L.M.*

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hey my name is kayla and i really am in luv with this boy nick. we went out like 15 times and out of 15 he broke up with me once. he says he loves me when we get off the phone and i say it back,but when i ask him out he always says idk!! should i keep askin him out!! i keep tryin to convince him that i wont hurt him again! i beleive he is still in luv with me and i know i luv him! he hasnt went out with anyone since the day we broke up like 5 monthes ago!! i really luv him and i want him back!!ill pay some one 4 this!!
when i tell my best friend cortnie she says o!! and thats all!! and cortnie and him go to the same school(affton)i cry all the time!!!!pleaze help me im dying to get him back!! IM me at lilcliffordgrl11 and ill talk to you more!!! HELP im begging you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! **kayla**

I think you should just live and let die...or what ever way that saying goes... move on...even if you still love Nick, you will find others who will find their time to be with you.

HOPE I HELPED!!-L.M.*

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my friends and i might be going to the movies and i want to sit next to my crush but i'm scared what should i do? how should i plan this?

as you walk into the theater, just sit down next him,you in the middle of you and our friend so you get ALL THE ACTION!! and like put your feet up on the chair in front you.make friendly covo before the movie starts...maybe try to make him laugh...thats important!! Just make sure you laugh (if its a funny movie of course!) when he laughs, and look into his eyes...and if you are friends or some what close...you can even tell him/ hint to him that you like him. AT the end of the movie, tell him that ou had like the BEST time EVEr and hope to do it again!

HOPE I HELPED & HVE A GROOVEY TIME!!-L.M.*

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I don't like my ex, Jason, anymore. He still likes me a lot. I like his step brother, Steven. On Saturday I was at the mall with my friends. We were sitting down in a restaurant and Jason and Steven see us and come sit by us. Jason barely said a word to me. Steven talked to me a lot. He kept staring at me like the whole time. I was like "stop staring at me!" and he just smiled and kept staring. I put my shopping bags in front of my face and then he whispered to my ex "she's hot". Then he added his cell number to my address book in my cell phone without me saying I wanted his number. Then Jason wanted to leave and Steven didn't want to. 10 minutes later, they left & my friends & I kept shopping. Steven saw me, say hi and yelled my name and waved really big and Jason didn't even say hi, but supposably he stilll likes me, he says. Then sunday night Jason called me. we talked for a min and then he's like "steven wants to say something to you" and then he said i was beautiful and he missed my laugh. later on he asked me out. i told him i didn't believe him, because i didn't. he said he'd ask me out next time he sees me since i didn't believe him. i never really see him since he goes to another school. i don't know if he was kidding about asking me out. he said he was serious. we talked til 1 am. then last night my ex, Jason was talking to my friend and he said "i think she likes steven. they were talking for ever last night and i asked her if she liked him & shes like i dunno but i think she does which then im going to get really pissed if she does because a lot of my ex girlfriends like him and i like her a lot." Soo, yeah... I wanna go out w/ steven but it'd hurt jason and yeah. i'd just feel i wasn't good enough or slutty enough for steven since he's 2 grades a head of me. but i can't go out with him because of my ex. people said it'd be cruel to do, so its like my decions have to be alright by him so he doesn't get hurt. but what about me? i really don't want to hurt him. but i dunno if steven likes me? does it seem like it?

dude- call up STEVEN NOW!! yes i siad RIGHT NOW..and say yes...but then ask to talk to jason and tell him how you feel. tell him that you once loved him ( if you did)and you really genuinely care for him, but as a friend ( if you want to be friends...or just say it to be nice) but now you like steven and dont want to be held back by him....and no, it issn;t sluty to date steven....OKM?

GOOD LUCK!!-L.M.*

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Hi, I was just browsing the net when I came across this! So heres the
thing, I'm sure it's over told, I really like this guy at my school. I
find that he's hard to read though, like somedays he'll act like he's
really into me, and likes me, but others he doesn't say a word and acts
uninterested. So, here's what makes me think he is; He teases me in a
flirty way sometimes, and seems to like it when I laugh. He remembers
stuff that we've talked about before, even if I said it like in front
of the class, or mumbled it under my breath. This one time in class, he
was talking and when he said the word "amazing" he was definitly
looking at me. Sometimes he'll smile at me in the halls. When I needed help
with the copier he helped me, and seemed sort of nervous, more so
because it was just us, rather than around all of his freinds and class
mates. I also think he might have been staring at me a couple of times,
it's yet to be proven. But, we really have no connection outside of
school. Somedays, it's like he hasn't noticed me in the room, or
sneaking looks at him, I want him to see me! I've been flirting as
discretly yet noticably as humanly possible! I think he's noticed, but I
think maybe were both being to shy. I would ask him out, but I really
don't want to be rejected from him. I really like him so much. I don't
know too much about him either, I know that he hunts, likes fish (as in
pets), plays football, and loves poker and card games. He knows that
I'm in Tae Kwon Do, and am a vegetarian, and also that I've volunteered,
he even said I was special when I said I volunteered without a
sarcastic tone. I think he likes me too, but he's making it hard, or maybe I'm
not reading him right, either way, please help!

Hoplessly in Love

whoa...I think he totally likes you... or is the biggest loser ever because I have the same troubles too! if you can get over your shyness,you should go up to him and like ask him if hes serious about every thing, or like invite him and his friend and one of your friends to go the movies...or by your self to show him that you want to spend time together OUTSIDE of school....or you could do it the old fashion, thrill-seaking way and send him an annonymus love letter...OH the fun!!

GOOD LUCK!!-L.M.*

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i just got out of this relationship with a guy i dated for a really long time. he broke up with me because we get into little fights. we both still love eachother, but he's afraid to hurt me because of little things. he thinks i'm hurt bc i cry, but i cry bc i don't want to break up. i really want him back, and he says he still loves me. what can i do to convince him that we should be together? i've tried to get over him, i play volleyball n i let my anger out on that, n i write poems n hang out w/ friends, but nothing works! please help me! i donno what to do! =(

I think that you should sit down and talk everything over with him. he seems like he really does care for you and every couple goes through small fights, so if you 2 can work this out, it will show how strong your relationship is!!

Good LUCK!-L.M.*









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hey..ok so here's the problem..i've liked this guy Chris for like Ever. he was going out w/ my friend for about two months and i had liked him the whole time. they broke up awhile ago, and i just found out he likes me. and one of my friends was talking to him and he said he'd ask me out. and i dont know if i wanna go out w/ him..i mean i've liked him for so long and i still Really like him..but we have this Fun Flirty friendship that i deff. don't wanna lose. and i'm scared that if we go out, and break up that we'll be all akward and not even talk to eachother..but i've liked him for so long and i dont think i could turn him down! ahhhh Help pleaseee! I Rate!! xOxO

OMG!! I've liked one of My best guy friends for sooo long, and the same thing happened with me!!

If you are so close then you will still be friends/ comfortable to work it out even if you break up!!
Hoppy new year! :) L.M

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