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Okay I met an older guy a couple of weeks ago when I was out with friends. We exchanged numbers and he tried calling once... but now that I am changing phones and don't currently have one we don't talk as often. There are a few things he hasn't been telling me.. like court dates and why he still has his old number from a different state..and wants me to bring new friends. Should I plan to meet him or forget about him?

I wouldn't forget him completely... to be honest I'd ask him about those issues you just brought up. Maybe he's emberassed and wants you not to know about him. It's always safer to meet someone with a group too :)

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My friend was trying to set me up with this kid.. And when I was talking to him he had a friend over his house.. I guess you can say me and his friend kinday clicked.. I have to say I do like him a little bit but I denied that I do and that ive heard he is interested in me also. The thing is a while ago him and his gf of for what i hear 2 years broke up. I guess they are trying to fix things and I respect that. The reason I said I dont like him is because Im afraid of her gettin hurt.. But I heard he was interested in me.. I dont want to hurt the girl because Im not like that.. any advice on what I can do?

That's tricky.. you're kinda stuck. I'd talk to him and tell him where you are coming from and how you're stuck in the middle. Then he'd be able to get a better understanding of the situation and so would you!

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ok well there's this guy in my neighborhood and i'm new here (well not really cuz i lived here for 3 years) but anyways... i think i have a crush on him and stuff but hes always around his friends and i met him like 3 years ago and we don't really talk and he's one year older than me.I'm really shy.... what should i do to get him to notice me???

get his sn.. its easier to talk to someone online than in person.. so once you guys get to know each other from the internet move to the phone then hang out with him and some of your friends to make you feel more comfotable

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My boyfriend's birthday is coming soon and I have no clue what to get him. Any suggestions?

I got my bf a nice watch.. but if he has one already cologne is a good gift too!

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Hi! I am 13 years old. I have a boyfriend and me and him are very serious. We havn't had sex or anything like that. But he is sooo sweet and nice and soo wonderful. I have anxiety and depression, and he is always the person that makes my days brighter. I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but a lot can happen inbetween the 4 more years of school we have. Is is normal to feel these feeling about someone you love?




**thanks for the help**



(ps) i love your advice column.. its really helpful.. thank you

It's def. normal. That's so amazing how he makes you feel better, hold on to him haha. I thinm it just sounds like you are scared for him being around other girls and stuff, but if you wanna make it work tell him and work out something so if you guys come acorss a problem, you'll be able to talk about it and not just get in a fight and leave it. Xoxo!

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I'm a little unexperienced in the dating world. Entering highschool and having only dated one person is nothing to boast about. I have a hard time realizing that guys are cute and always needing a second opinion... But this guy, is different, I've known him since Elementary and he's a Buddhist, Commie, and Libral Democrat. I think I'm in love. The problem. 1) I don't know how to approach him, 2) My friend, we'll call her Sarah and her best friend Melanie, likes him too... They've always had no trouble and are putting me under a lot of pressure. Don't know what to do... Help?

Talk to him before your friends do! Get his sn or talk to him in person. It's a;ways easier to talk to someone online..so I'd talk to him there and just let him get to know you anf flirt alot :) Hope I helped!

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Ok well I have this boyfriend and he doesnt go to my school or anything. I meet him through my friend from soccer camp. We started talking online and then a while later we started going out. Later he broke up with me saying that he disn't think things were going to work out because we still hadn't seen each other. Now a year later, we still haven't seen each other but we are going out again. I am thinking that now I don't want to go out with him until I see him and stuff. How should I tell him this without hurting him too much? (I have never broken up with anybody before) please help soon!!! Thanx and I'll rate you!

Break ups are the worst!! I'd say it like "I am having different feelings for your then I did before and I want to wait till we meet again to see if there is anything there. I think once we meet we'll like each other more."

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Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!!

Umm.. well it kinda sounds like he just asked you for no reason, I would say no until you got to know him better. He may be a cool guy but some guys just go around asking every girl out :\

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alright me n mai boyfriend broke up about a week ago cuz he cheated on me. i really love him n im hurt soo bad. he says he still cares n he wants to be w/ me, but now hes w/ sumone else. i think hes tryin to make me jealous but i dont really kno. i cant live w/o him, he means the world to me even after what he did. i really wanna be w/ him but im scared to tell him how i feel cuz im not sure if he cares or not. should i give up on him or take him back if he feels the same?

I would tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same way then forget it isn't worth it. If he does like you again.. def. let him know that you WILL NOT be cheated on again cuz if he does once hes a gonner :)

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How exactly do you french kiss? I know you lock lips and open ur mouth and then like stick ur tongue in eachothers mouths but what do u do with ur tongue and can you french kiss someone the wrong way? Like cuz I don't want guys thinking I suck at it, so how exactly do you? and when is the right time...how will you know?
Thankz I will rate you! L8er!

Me and my friends call it the spin cycle.. but ya you lock lips and like move your tongue around his mouth. There is no wrong way.. just don't jump down their throat and you'll be fine! Let the other perosn start off to lead first and when u get the hang of it take control :D

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I was at a party and i started to really flirt with this kid and he responded and everything went ok...then someone told me that everyone thought i liked him so i stopped flirting right away, but he started asking me questions about who i liked and he started telling me about his g/f and what's wrong with her. He asked me if i dance and i said yes, then he started trying to do like splits and different dance steps. Everyone started to think he liked me...do you think thats true or was he just being nice?

Ya it sounded like he was trying to impress you by dancing and kinda hinting he might beak up with his gf. Goodluck.. I'd make a move ;)

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y r all guys the same! their all perverted dirty playas! god! i met this guy online he really proved to me that he would never b a playa never do drugs never drink! sounds like the perfect guy right? well wrong! once a slutty gurl walks by or w/e they always ditch the good gurls for them!! why is that? all guys r the same!!!! y can't there just b more sweet and sincere boys! i mean thats all a gurl wants!(well me n e ways)

I want the same thing.. every girl does. There is one guy out there for everyone it just depeneds when ya find him. Not all guys are the same.. I know it may seem that way but they aren't.

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why do guys find thongs so sexy?

Cuz it's a LOT better than granny panties ;D
haha jk. It reveals more. lalalalala

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ok i feel like such a retard, but this guy wants to go to the movies..but idont know what to do! like i'm such a retard when it comes to guys..is it like, weird to go with them if you're not going out? and do you lean toward them..and if they put their arm around you...ahh help!

Just be yourself.. make him make all the moves.. who knows maybe he just wants to go as friends.Don't worry I was the SAME way but in time you'll see they are pretty cool... SOME of them are haha! :D

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me and my ex r talking about getting bacc togther. i love her alot and i kno she loves me but she sayz we shouldnt hook up b/c shes not ready for a long relationship.im worried than when she is ready she will have found sumbody else. wut should i do??? - 15 yr old guy from ATL

Hehe I know you! She sounds like she isn't ready, maybe she is still hurt by you guys breaking up in the first place, if you say she loves you she won't go find someone new. Just always be yourself around her and she'll find she wants you more! Hope I helped!

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Me and this guy are really good friends and we have been talking for about 3 months now.Well...I like him and he likes me because he told me before and he always protects me and stuff.Well...I've been waiting a VERY long time for him to ask me out.I want him to SO BAD that its driving me CRAZY!!!Do yall have any ideas on how to drop hints to him on asking me?Thanx!

Don't push him into asking you cuz that won't be a good start. Just flirt alot.. ALOT to make him want you even more. Don't worry.. it will happen when you both are ready! Rate me plz and GOODLUCK!! xoxo

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I look at a lot of the questions and then the answers they get..a lot of them have to do with sex..and a lot of the answers are saying it is okay as long as you use protection and you really "love" them. These are usually teens, like me, too! I agree with having safe sex and stuff but my main concern is the actual action of sex. Sex should be something special you share with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. At this age, it is very unlikely that you will stay together forever, no matter how well your relationship is going. Are there any people on this site waiting for marriage? Does anyone agree with me?

*Flabbergausted*
i like that word =P

Yah..I agree. Some people do stay together when they are this age but ya still, if you regret it you are going to have to live with it forever. And that's a horrible feeling! You put it a good way! Rate me plz xxoxo!

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Thre is this guy that I really like and last night he said he kinda liked me but he said it was not a good time to have a gf becasue he does not live in town and school is out but school starts in like 16 days what should i do?

Don't force him. He'll come to you if you wait. Just be yourself and talk to him alot to get to know him better so he'll see how cool you are! Plz rate me xoxo!


my sn is kissxme321 hehe!

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is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok??

Yah.. but if hes 18 or older.. thats not good if you are younger than 18

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im almost 15 and ive never kissed a guy..am i a loser?

Nope.. when it happens it will be special! Rate me plz xoxox!

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