Hey my Katie!
I'm thirteen years ld in live in none other than FLORiDA!
I'm a really cool person. I get along with almost anyone who talks to me wihtout an attitude.
My history with boys is like way BAD.
One gjy used me to get closer to my best friend.
Three guys cheated on me.
And another asked out another girl wile we were still dating.
etc.
SO love life wowzers!! lol well there is
this guy his name is Tanner and
i absolutly "LOVE" him!! MUAH TANNER!
lol he is soo awsome and i love being around
him, he makes me laugh and smile
even when i should be in tears! he is
defantly the guy i have been searchng for!
love ya babe!
moving on
I love giving advice.
and its something I'm pretty good at.
Give me a question!
And guys I'm looking for the right one. Prove to me theyre not all the same. ((stupid and rude))
E-mail: Shortbutsweet702@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida BABY!
Age: 13
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so me and this guy have been best friends for about 7 years. and hes liked me before, but i didnt like him then. and now i like him...a lot, but he has a girlfriend and shes one of my good friends. i'm happy for them, and i wouldnt do ANYTHING to ruin their relationship, and i dont want to tell him because i dont want to make things awkward between us or anything. so, how can i put aside my feelings for him, and just be his best friend, without liking him, until hes available? any advice would be helpful. thanks (link)
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1. you cant make yourself not like him. If you like him then tell him. the EASIEST way would be to tell him through a note something that says maybe:
"hey (babe) well yea just here being bored and thought i would write you a note :] well what are you up to hey i need to tell you something promise it wont be weird?"
wait for his reply ..
if he says something like "i promise just tell me." then tell him throuhg a not just say :
"I think i really like 'this guy'" and continue to play stupid about it ask HIM about how you should tell 'this guy' you like him. . .when
he replys just tel him exactly how it is.. tell him how he sugested
if he doesnt feel the same way he wont dwell on it he'll change the subject,
but o well if he doenst like you back thats life.. o well . but at least you wont have to live with the wat if ..
hope i helped
:]
KaTiE
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There's a guy, I like him, another girl that likes him. She is not my friend, I don't like her. However she has a nice headstart on flirting with him, in a stalkerish fashion (she knows where his locker is, she waits for him outside of class, she dominates his facebook wall, she came screaming down the hall, OMFG HE TALKED TO ME, and she acts really ditzy/stupid with him). I want to pursue him, however, I don't know if he really likes her back, or is just oblivious that she likes him... Because seriously, he's gotta be pretty oblivious to not know that when she says "I love - [insert initials]" that it's his initials. I don't think he really knows I exist either, besides that he probably acknowledges me as that (weirdo) chick at the other end of the classroom.
So a couple of questions.
1)How do I get his attention?
2)If I was to flirt with him how would I do it?
3)What about that girl, I'm scared she'll do something to me ):. (link)
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1. To get his attention just try to talk to him.. you vcan say anything that you think will interest him .. maybe ask him a simple question about sports or something.. conversation starters are the best.
2. To flirt with him, well just lauhg at his jokes hit him when you talk to him (not hard but like a little tough hit) "run" into him on "acedent" .
3. She wont touch and if she says something to you just return wiht a smirk on your face and a look thyat simpley says "sorry im a better flirt" she wont Do anything.
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I been going out with this girl for a month now and one of my best friends told me that in his 6th pd class some people said that who would go out with me and then my other best friend said that my girlfriend said that people are telling her to break up with me but she isnt HELP ME!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well i kinda understand (f) I have had a LOT of guys that I lik ask me out and then when i say yes people tell me i should break up with.
But the truth is that if she really likes you then she wont listen to them. I'm not going to say if she really "loves" you, because cahnces are she doesnt love you. YOu guys have only been dating for a month soo it isnt love.
If she does break up with you for what other people say then forget her and move on. she isnt worth it if she cares what other people think. that is honestly the best advice i cn give you.
Hope I helped. Katie
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i lik this guy but we havent talked in a long time i used to lik him alot but then he left me hangin for my best friend for the longest time wat should i do
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I know you place. Been there a million times!
I have a really pretty best friend. See Im not the chestiest person int he world and she is lets just leave it at that.
I think thta even if he did leave you haning then he dserves a second chance.. but dont jump into it too fast. if you do youll loose site of things.
Take it slow.
If you dont like him anymore then forget him and move on.,
Show him what he missed out on thats so improtant.
Hpe i helped
best of luck ;)
K@T!E
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Hello!
This might be a long story but just bare with me :)
Alright well my best guy friend started to like me.. alot
well i knew from the beginning it was a bad idea.
but i began to like him too. The day after his bday, i freaked out and told him i didnt like him anymore and we should be friends. Alot of people were dissapointed, and the person i am, worring about everyone, i thought the only solution was to like him again. And it happened. ( i havent had a good history of boys, all of them lead me on, and i dont have any trust in them, since he was my best friend, i had alot of trust.) well he tried to make alot of moves on me but... yeah.. we finally did stuff at the movies and that night he put like "tonight was amazing blah blah i really like her" on his away message. Well the next day he messaged me saying it was akward and he didnt like and he wanted to stay friends. Well i was pissed b/c he kinda lead me on.. and now we dont even talk.. and i hate him. no trust
i was just wondering what do you think changed his mind? (link)
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I know exactly where you are coming from.,
But saddly it was probably his friends that changed his mind. If his friends didnt like you, or thought he could gt someon "hotter" then he probably "moved on" on the outside he doesnt like you but. Hinestly on the inside he pobably never stopped likeing you at all.
My advice is to write him a long essaage telling him that you liked him a lot an dthat he hurt you alot. tell him exactly how you feel and hw you felt. then get a boyfriend and show your "old best friend" what he missed out on! ;)
Well hope that i helped.
Best of Luck!
K@T!E
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OK- I've went out with this guy a thousand times, and he is a great guy, but lately he has been acting really jealous. Yesterday, he got really jealous about me giving one of my bestfriends Frank (who just so happens to be my cousins boyfriend) hugs. I mean I understand getting jealous because believe me, I am defenetly the jealous type and I know that, but he has never been the jealous type, or at least he has never showed it. Anyway, this is getting kind of long, so just please help me out here.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
LeeAnna (link)
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The thing to do is just have a talk with him. Open up maybe at dinner or a movie.
You have to let him know the way you feel, otherwise he will never stopp.
Then you have to PROVE to him he is the only guy for you. Explain that you love him and that no mater how many guys you hug at the end of the day his hug is the only thing that matters.
Hope I Helped
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okay i broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago and to be honest, i didn't even miss him..he had hurt me really bad and i was just glad to be free. well, yesterday i went to his house to talk in person and i felt so happy..i felt like i loved him i had the most amazing time and i also felt guilty because i had been so mean to him after we broke up..but NOW i regret going over there because hes treating me like we're back together and i only feel like i love him when i'm with him and i like being single it bothers me to have him talking to me all the time! should i tell him to back off a bit? or would that hurt him too much? he loves me alot by the way. (link)
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Sometimes getting over a break-up can be hard for anyone, even guys ((especially when they got dumped))
Sometimes guys try to "win" you back by pretending you guys are together.
Its totally normal, but this is when you politly tell the guy that you need your space. Tell him youre confused in mixed feelings and you just need time to think.
You need to get out there and try out some other boys.
The time has come make every minute orth the amount of money you spend on gass ((LOL)) =)
Hope I Helped
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so i like this guy i hardly know him but we've flirted online and he seems pretty interested and i am too. but the thing is i know it wont go anywhere. he drinks and smokes and does weed. i have never drank or done drugs or anything i am a goody goody but i still like to have fun! if this had happened a while ago i would be like ew no way but for some reason this guy has me interested in him. should i start backing away? i realy dont want to. could it work out even if he does drugs and im a good girl (link)
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You see this is defantly a difficult question to answer but its so obvious.
Even though you may have feeling for him you still have to keep in mind your own life. Is this guy actually worth your life?
I mean there are plenty of guys out there that would make great boyfriends, and arent interested in doing illegal drugs.
I know people who have done drug and even sold them. I support them in rehab, and I think that this is a great chance for you to help this guy.
If you honestly think youre ready for a rollercoaster chance then GO FOR IT! But if you think youre still into being this "good goody" then I say sit back and be "friends". . . . .
Hope I Helped
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how can i tell whether or not my bf is using me, or if all the kissing & stuff is out of affection? weve been together 5 months, and the farthest its gone is like fingerin n stuff, and thats the most experience for either of his... but still.. i mean maybe im just afraid of being used? he doesnt pressure me into anything...
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The truth is that there is no way to absolutly tell what your "BF" is thnking. Most of the time if you question his affection than it isnt true.
I dont know what else to tell you.
On the other hand though, there are times that girls just get a little confused and stressed. Stress can honestly make you start wondering what is happenin in yor life. I mean I say if you "love" him then try your best to make the relationship work. Every minute counts, every word makes a difference, and every kiss means the world. Always remember that.
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I do not know what to do about mixed signals. all i want to know is how the guy feels because he likes this other girl but throughout this year it feels like we have something but its like you dont talk about it. But he still likes that girl. One week he flirts with me alot we make eyecontact and he just comes up to me,eats lunch with me, calls me,etc. But then the next week he will just drag me along.lets just say its very dramay! How do i know wat do because i feel like i just want to know without just staright up asking him. If he has no intentions of anything then i will try to move on but i just want to know!and do u think that what he is doing is deliberate because of the drama and the "history" or is it in my head? (link)
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Ok I'll be honest. It is never easy to tell if a guy likes you. Guys are just geneticly less emotional. But thats beside the fact.
((Anyways)) You just have to trust your insticts. Let it all out.
Tell him things that you tell only your most trusted friends. you have to show him you trust him. Eventually he will trust you too.
But to make sure he likes you dont ask him face to face ((that always ends in an ocward scilence)). It is best to ask him through email or even AIM or MSN or YIM. All those are good choices. My fav. is the IMing because he can respond right then. The next day just go on like you usually do.
You have to ut your whole heart into it. Live your life the way you want. Only you can change whats going to happen. Take a chance and try your best. In the end if things dont work out then it was worth the wrld to knwo the truth.
Hope It Works Out!
~KaTiE~
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Alright well me and this girl were in a relashionship for about a year and a half.we were great together,well a few months ago she left me for this guy i hated to begin with and omg he treated her like shit.well lately ive bearaly been able to get over her and try to move on well i found this girl i absolutely adore.well guess what i find out,the girl he broke up with to be with my ex is this girl and shes not over him and to tell you the truth i dunno if im fully over my ex.shes sooo great though and sweet to me,and we have soo much in common.she knows the way i feel about her,im soo confused though,what should i do,i really want to be with her.and let me restate...i hate him lol.
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In my opinion you should take a shot with the new girl. It seems like you guys would have a greatt ime together. If the other girl left you for another girl after almost a year then she isnt worth it. No girl who is willing to just give up after that long is worth the time of day.
You might not be completely over your ex now but eventualy after spending time with the other girl you will slowly but surely get over your ex.
Its not easy ((BELIEVE ME)) But eventually things will get better.
You just have to give it a try. . . .
Hope It works Out
~KaTiE~
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