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I like to cheerlead, play softball (f & s), tennis, dance, volleyball, soccer, hang w/ friends, and go swimming 8) anything else you wanna kno IM me :*
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Location: fLoRiDa bUt NoW iN nEw YoRk
Occupation: sTuDeNt @ LhS
Age: 14
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Member Since: July 13, 2004
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my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
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i think this is the stupidest question not to be rude because the first thing you said was "my bff" if shes your BFF then why do you care who she likes? treat her the same! unless you wanna lose your bff .. good luck

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On a family vacation, down at my aunts house, they own a farm in oregon. THey have these beautiful hourses, but one inperticual caught my eye. We rode them all day, and into the early evening. Later that night, my cousins and I were playing spin the bottle . It was my turn, I spun not knowing where it would land. It landed on the horses barn, everyone laughed. I spun again and it landed on my older cousin Bradley. We made out fer a little bit, that didnt satisfy me. I knew what i had to do. Later that night, when everyone fell asleep, I went to the barn and found my *friend* I started to stroke its mane I got aroused. I started to grope it, head to tail. I jumped on top , humping with all my might. That wasnt enough for me or the pony. I hopped back off, and found something i must have missed before, long and firm, it was beyond human. I bet you can figure out what me and my mouth did that night. The next morning, my mom was ?ing me about the encounter, what do I do?! And is it wrong that i enjoyed it? please help me (link)
tell your mom the truth! don't lie to her! doing stuff w/ a horse isn't what some people would do but if thats what floats your boat then go for it! good luck!

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im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!! (link)
aww! you guys like each other right? then age doesn't matter! "age ain't nothin but a number!" its not bad! and tell him how you feel! he likes yoU! go for it! good luck!

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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
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if he does like you then he won't pressure you to have sex! just tell him you want to wait .. maybe hook up and get to know him better and then maybe you'll be ready! one word for you also --> trojan :) good luck!

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well i like this kid nd he likes me nd wen i talk to him he sometimes tells me to tell people im his cuzin nd shit - he dose have a girl but i dont no her ?! y u think he sayin to tell people that ?! PLEASE HELP !! (link)
he must like his girlfriend alot because if he's telling you to tell people that then he doesnt want anyone to know he likes you! which is WAYYY wrong so i don't think you should even bother with him! at least not until he's single! good luck!

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Ok So 6 guys like me.. i think its because i'm a freshman and older guys want to go out with me cuz i'm new or whatever,. i already know 3 of the guys ,. the other guys i met at camp or the races,. and talk on the phone.. ok the problem is.. while i was talking about all these guys i have a guy already..of about 2 years off n on ... I broke up with him 12 out of 15 times.. & no matter what we always run back to eachother,. its like trUe love.. haha ne ways.. these other guys got me thinking and i think it might be a good idea that we need to see other people.. =/ Since it is highschool ,.. but seroiusly,. a while back my guy said that if i dump him one more time that hes not coming back or go out with me again.. so now i'm afraid to lose him,. and what if hes the "one",... i'm so confused.. last night while i was talking to these 6 other guys on the internet i didnt even notice that my boyfriend was on =x opps? well we havent been talking Much,. we never get together? .. what should i do? i'll rate =)

thAnkS gUyS n GalS =) (link)
well, if you think this guyy is the "one" you want to be with for a while then forget about all those other guys! BUT if you think you need to take a break and see other people for a while then you need to do that because holding onto something you kind of don't want right now will bring you down! and you're right running back to each other is great! i mean you guys must really like each other! but right now it may be a good time to just take a break from each other and then in the long run see if you guys end up running back to each other and if you don't then it isn't ment to be!! good luck!!

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Hey...I have a big problem. I have a major crush on like everyone in my friends family. Her stepdad, her 2 younger brothers and even her mom. Im not sure if its because i hate my own family so much but i am seriously in love with all of them and would die to get my hands on her step dad. He flirts with me a lot and it makes my friend uncomforable. What should i do? Because I still want to be her friend but I want a relationship with her stepdad even more. I know my friends mom wouldnt mind sharing and that her younger brothers would understand that I want a more mature man in my life. I guess if it doesnt work out with him, i can go to the brtohers but the stepdad just makes me feel sooo special. I get chills when i see him! What should i do to keep my friend and get it on with her stepdad? Thanks soo much!

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im pretty sure this came from a crew/softball player :P but anyways you can't have a relationship w/ the stepdad bcuz you're too young and if you go to her brothers then your friend will get very angry and prolly not be your friend anymore!

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Hey, guys! I'm supposed to call this guy I like back in ten minutes. We're not dating, but we can both tell it will happen soon. He asked to see me again, and we couldn't come up with things to do. He said we could go swimming, but I'm not the most confident person, and I wouldn't feel comfortable swimming infront of him. I don't want to tell him this, because it's highly embarrassing and something I just wish to keep to myself. I know you could tell me that if I can't tell him something like this a relationship wouldn't be good, I just don't feel like it's his business. Can someone please tell me what to say to him, or suggest another outing? Please help me!! (link)
if you don't think it's his business then thats quite alright but he'll need to know sometime! maybe tell him that you're not comfortable swimming or swimming is just not your thing and if he asks why tell him you wouldn't like to talk about it! or just stick to doing something else! a bike ride? even a walk would be good! good luck!

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i like this boy a lot i mean iv liked him for like 2 years how do i make him fall in love with me.? ps he kinda likes me but i want him to like me more
ps.... what questions are good to ask a 14 year old boy? (link)
hang out more and get to know each other better! and good questions are: family, friends, likes/dislikes, faves, or anything that goes with that! good luck!

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ok i put up questions about how a guy asked me out a while ago and i sed no but no regret it. and everyone sed go for it.but now the only question is when? its summer i dont see him that much. should i say to him over im or and away message cuz he has an away message up like 24/7. wut should i do? how should i ask him? (link)
you should try to be on when he's on and ask him personally because it would be weird coming back and seeing that a girl you like and was rejected by is asking you out now! or you should get a hold of him somehow on the phone and ask him! even going to the mall and asking him would be good! good luck!

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Hey, I've liked a guy for about 2 years now. He's taken, he used to like me, I think he's over me now. But I fucking love him. To death. Omg, help me. (link)
well you should hang out with him alot and get to know each other better! he'll learn he's not over you as much as he thought! then he'll get to like you more and more everyday hopefully! good luck!

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wut does love really mean?!?!?!?! (link)
ha good question! you can't exactly explain love! if you like someone then i'm sure you can tell everyone how much you love them! if you love someone then the feelings you have for that person are undescribable!

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whats that song on the titanic that i think her name is rose sings or w/e and i think it goes "wherever you are...." or something (link)
that song is my heart will go on and celine dion sings it! :P


I dont know who the right girl is i keep going out with people but you know things dont work out what should i do? (link)
ohh .. i think you should hang out with the girls you want to go out with before you go out with them because if you more about them before you go out then maybe you'll change your mind! all you have to do is get to know them beforehand! good luck!

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Omg... well today... i wuz swimming at my friends house... n sumthing just hit me.. i wanted to feel and grope there breats.... they were just so dayum juicy and firm lookin ... i go underwater with goggles.. in hopes that they will spread open there legs... especially when they jump in... i pray to god there tops fall off.. none of my friends know them.. im scared to tell them.. i need some serious help.... thanx i love u ! (link)
if your friends are true friends they will understand whats going on with you! they'll accept you as you are! maybe its just a phase! but if its not try and tell your friends! get it off your chest! it'll help alot! good luck!

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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
same problem here .. if you dont want to give your virginity to him then sit down and talk to him about it! if he really likes you then he'll wait!! good luck!

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okay there is this kid i love so much . i knoe i am in love with him i talk to him everyday, i flirt with him but .. its my best friend`s exboyfriend .. i dont knoe what to do cuz i love my best friend shes like my sister .. and i dont want to tell her so i dont knoe what to do (link)
maybe hint to your friend that you like him and see what she says .. maybe shes over him! if she is make SURE its ok to be with him! good luck!

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*im real far away from home right now, and i had a boyfriend before i came to this state, then we got in a fight and he dumped me, i REALLY love him still, but he keeps hurrting me over and over again? should i let this time be the last?
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i kno how you feel! if he keeps hurting you then he doesn't deserve you! but if you really love him and want to try ONE LAST time then go for it but be ready just in case he hurts you again! good luck!!

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CaitLynn, I saw you on somebody's picturetrail and when I looked at the advice you gave, you seemed pretty good. So I was just wondering If you could help me out a little here. I think my boyfriend is cheating on me, but I don't want to criticize him if he isn't doing anything. But he just has this really good friend named,Courtney and he goes over to her house and when he is over at my house to visit me he would just leave to go visit this courtney girl. I need your help. Hope you can help!!!! THANKS ALOT!!! (link)
ask him about the courtney grl! ask him what she is to her! keep your hopes high! if your boyfriend really likes you he WILL NOT cheat on you!

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man...u guys ... how do i tell my bf im mad at him?? its somethng from the past but still he hasnt apologized or even brought it up and im really surprised...i dont wanna juss randomly be like OH WHEN U GOT A NEW GF AND JUSS DROPPED ME THAT REALLY HURT ME...i juss dont kno how to say it *we werent tekinially bf/gf but we wer dateing and then he stoped callin n got a new gurl and juss left me hanging!!* hes really is a sweet guy n told his best friend he made a huge mistake blah blah but when is a good time to bring it up and wat exactly do i say???? (link)
you need to ask him what happened with you guys! if you still like him then tell him! and don't ferget to tell him that you're hurt because of what happened! good luck!

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