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Hey People, Im Sharifa. I live in VA. I love to give advice to people. I am a very nice person but i do get a lil Bit*hy some times. I am very talkative and love having fun with my friends. I like meeting new people and i love babysitting lil kids. They are my world. Well talk to ya lata people email me at booboowazhere@yahoo.com if u have any questions or anything. Holla At Me.
*~Sharifa~*

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When I had my last boyfriend everything would always go so great and after about 6 months we were both inlove and I really loved this guy! But then about 3 months later we were laying in his backyard in the hammock his arm was around me and we were just relaxing then i decided to put my hand on his chest and give him a kiss so i did and he pushed me out of the hammock smacked me and told me don't touch me so i ran away crying...i didn't talk to him for a couple weeks but he kept calling so i answered
~Convo~
me-what do you want?
him-im sorry i love you
me-too bad
and i hung up
then when my dog passed away he came over with flowers my mom didn't want him to come up to my room because i was really upset but she finally let him, then he started kissing me and telling me he was truley sorry so i forgave him and for about 3 more month it was all good and back to normal then again one night we were watching a movie in his basement (his parents weren't home only his bro and his gf) and we were all watching a movie and he kissed me and we started kissing then i put my hand on his cheek a little bit and he pushed away and was like dont ever do that again and threw the movie case at me and his brother tried to stop him but he just went mad at started punching me and his brother while his girlfriend tried to do somethin --im not really sure what--

So my question is I still love him, I know I shouldn't but I really love him I mean we have been together for about 2 years but stuff like this keeps randomly happening! I thought this guy was really right for me and sometimes he treats me really nice but others he hurts me phsically and mentally...I just want a guy to treat me right thats why Im trying to forgive him again but I can't just forgive and forget I'm scared something like this will happen again PLEASE help!

No man should be putting his hands on u or throwing stuff at you if he loves you. You need to get out of that relationship before he starts doing it more often. I know you may love him but love isnt suppose to hurt in that kind of way. Hope I helped.
*~Sharifa~*

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i really really like my guy friend we are neighbors and he tottaly gives me mixed messages we see eachother everyday and i just can't stand to be away from him i don't know if he likes me or not should i tell him how i feel or not. pleez help i will rate five no matter wat the answere

He might like you, since he is 17 they usually are hard to tell what they are feeling. Give him signals like tell him you like hanging out with him and stuff.

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my boyfreind and i met on canada day when i was visiting poeple in reddeer it was great he was great and we connected great and all but londg distance is hard do u have any type s to make it easier or should i dump him because of the distance

Do whats in ur heart, long distance relationhips are really hard cause you can not see the person alot but if you really like him it might work out.

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I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. During that time, we have had some problems but have worked them out and have been doing very well, until lately. I don't know why I did this, but I cheated on my boyfriend with someone who is a very close friend of mine and have even developed strong feelings for...but I still honestly love my boyfriend. I didn't know it was possible for me to not only cheat, but do it for a few months while my boyfrined thought everything was fine. I also didn't know it was possible for me to love two people at the same time.

So, as much as it hurt to do this, I told my boyfriend about everything yesterday and, of course, he is beyond hurt. I knew I had to come clean with him to start setting things right. I want to be with my boyfriend and that's why I needed to tell him - to start to put the trust back in the relationship. However, I am still very confused about my feelings for the other guy, which are very valid and real (and he feels them for me as well). It killed me to hurt my boyfriend like that, and to keep something going outside the relationship for so long, but I really need advice at this point. I am lost and don't know what to do... thanks for any help!

Ok well at first the boy is really sad he might want to break up with you, you can say you will never do it agian but it will be hard for him to believe that because thats what everyone says and usually they dont admit just tell him you know what you did was wrong and you hope that he can forgive you and you want him to gain your trust back with a step at and time and you dont want to rush anything. hope i helped bye.
*~Sharifa~*

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A guy I was with for a year broke up with me. I don't want to mope around the whole summer.
What can I do to distract myself? I've tried lots of things..

if ya want to forget about the boy hang out with your friends. go to the mall or if there is a beach near you go there and look for some other hot guys.
*~Sharifa~*

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About 2 weeks ago I got into a really stupid fight over msn messanger with one of my closest male friends. I am pretty sure he liked me romantically- but so far we had just been good friends. Well he is kind of a hot head and it takes him a while to cool down. He lives in another province, but used to live in the same town as me. U was hoping one day we would end up together.
Well last night when I was at work one of his best friends came into the store that I work at. He didnt talk to me but was staring at me and this sort of concerned look on his face. Do you think (because my friend lives far away) that he has been asking his friend to come into the store I work in just to check up on me and see if I'm doing okay? I am almost possitive that his friend new about his (romantic feelings) for me.

He could be checking up on seeing if u are ok or seeing if u are hugging or flirting with other guys or he could just be weird and like staring at u? If he comes in again try talking to him, ask him if he needs anything, start a conversation, hope i helped bye.
*~Sharifa~*

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What is the age that guys usually bring their girlfriends to their house to like, meet their parents and have dinner and stuff?

I dont think there is a certain age on when guys bring their girlfriend to meet there parents. It usually depends on if the relationship is really serious and he thinks it is worth his parents meeting you.
-Sharifa

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In May of 2004 my sister graduated, and I met a guy she graduated with. I thought he was totally hot and started to have a crush on him.
Well, I couldn't get ahold of him after graduation and now two years down the road I go to a party and see him.
Things happen and I make out with him. Well now time has progressed and we are friends with benefits.
I don't mind it .. he is hot, cool and stuff.
But now lately he has been calling me alot. ALOT.
It's not booty calls either, he calls and we talk. I invite him over for that reason and he doesnt come over. I'm confused. We flirt alot and there is obvious chemestry between us, but isnt that just what friends with benefits are?
We don't go touchy feely everytime we see each other either.
What's going on? I'm confused.

Usually with friends with benefits only one person gets pleasure out of it. One wants to be serious and one wants to just fool around and in your postion he wants to be serious i think and you dont mind just playin around. If he is starting to really like u, if u feel the same way towards him maybe u guys should go out, give it a try.
Hope i helped
-Sharifa

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These is for all you girls :) How would you like to be aproched to,loke if a guy wants to hit on you on the street what would youlike him to say?

well if i was walking down a street and a guy came up to me and starting talking to me and stuff i would get a little freaked out. but i mean if i am at the mall and i am with some of my friends and a guy came up to me and starting talking to me that would be fun. i think most girls like getting hit on in a mall or something like that. well yeah bye.
-Sharifa

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