In May of 2004 my sister graduated, and I met a guy she graduated with. I thought he was totally hot and started to have a crush on him.
Well, I couldn't get ahold of him after graduation and now two years down the road I go to a party and see him.
Things happen and I make out with him. Well now time has progressed and we are friends with benefits.
I don't mind it .. he is hot, cool and stuff.
But now lately he has been calling me alot. ALOT.
It's not booty calls either, he calls and we talk. I invite him over for that reason and he doesnt come over. I'm confused. We flirt alot and there is obvious chemestry between us, but isnt that just what friends with benefits are?
We don't go touchy feely everytime we see each other either.
What's going on? I'm confused.
DefinedEyes answered Monday June 12 2006, 9:10 am: Well.. maybe he is starting to fall for you?
I hate the term friends with benefits because its so violating each other, and its so sleezy, you're using each other. Which is disgusting.
But maybe he likes you, and you dont need to be all over each other when you see each other, he probably calls when he's bored or desperate or cant get anything from someone else (sorry to say it that way, but thats how it is)
Anyways maybe he doesnt want to come over,
because he likes talking to you on the phone, which is why he calls you so much now..
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