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Hi there!!! My name is Bianca, I'm 15 and I loove Tae Kwon Do and i LOVE SPONGEOB!, I go to High school and I'm currently a Junior. Well in my spare time I enjoy doing sports and going out with my friends. I am out-going and I am a burst of energy and I love making people laugh. But I can be pretty helpful once it gets to advice. I'm currently single and I am a karate instructor. I live near Miami and I am Cuban. I have been through so much and I can probably help with anyone's problems! I hope I can help you in many ways please rate my advice! It helps me!

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ive been dating this guy for 3-4 weeks now. I go on my facebook this morning and he changed his relationship statues to single, and changed his myspace. I called him two times and he didn't answer either. He took me of his tops (i was his number one) and that was yesterday, and now he has some other chick as his top 3. and on his statues it says m.w. (like the girls initials).what is going on? he is like ignoring me, i don't get it. i just didn't think he was like that. can some one please give me advice?

Yeah you got dumped dirty style. He's an immature child, you deserve better than that. I'm sorry for the heartache you're going through but he's a doushe.

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hi, im almost 16 and ive never been kissed and never had a boyfriend...is this as bad as it seems?...and not jus girls points of veiw plz. ive had chances but never made anything of them...am i that big of a loser, i think that im attractive and im smart and a good person so whats wrong?will rate high!!!!all 5's

Your not a loser!! No way, just some people have their first kisses and boyfriends earlier than others. I have ton's of friends that have never had their first kiss. It's not you, I think you just have higher morals than other's. Actually I admire you for not having a first kiss. It not you at all. Don't worry when the time is right it will happen. Just don't rush it, because when you have your true first kiss your going to feel so incredible. Hope I helped
-Bianca

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okay well my friend jon made a lead in the play right?

well im really really really happy for himm

and at the end of the say when he found out... he came running to me and hugged me for like 1 minuet.. i was so embaressed becasue all of mty friends were like AWWWWWWWWW

and he knows i like him

i told him in person to just get it out

is that a sign of him liking me?

HmMmMm well that's a toughy. You know that is sooo cute lol but I really don't know in a way he could like you because some girls when they tell a guy that they like them the guy is all like "get away from me, or it won't work out" or something like that. But if he hasn't said anything to you than maybe he does it sort of seems as if he does because if he just goes and gives u a hug knowing you like him of course he is doing that to make you feel good. So hmm It is probably a yes. Make sure though. I hope everything works out. Hope I helped. Send me feedback.
-Bianca

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i need help talking to this boy i like.i no for sure he likes me,but we dont no eachother and i want to ask him to go with me or to get his # or something.i need some body to give me like exact words to say,like the whole conversation.and hand gestures too.i am good at being flitatious so i might not ned the hand gestures.i just dont no what to say

if I were you I would get a friend to introduce you two together or get his screen name it is so much easier to talk online and when your confortable you can meet him in person and your convo. will pop up automatically. I have done it ton's of times!! But get one of your friends to help you out or set a double date or something. Hope I helped. Send Feedback.
-Bianca

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ok, well i have a REALLY BIG crush on this guy, lets call him dan. well i wanted to know if you guys think he has a crush on me. ok, well, everytime i look at him he is looking back (sometimes i see it out of the corned of my eye) and then today in PA (sewing) my tetcher said my name wrong because she has trounle pernouncing it and i wen to correct her but dan corrected her for me (i sit at the table behind him) and when my table was talking about birthdays and i said mine, he looked back and it looked like he was memorizing the date.

thanks,
ANK

P.S.: i rate everyone!

how did you know he was memorizing the date..? lol is tehre a memorizing date face that people put on?? not trying to be rude but if a teacher mis pronounced my name wrong then everyone in my class would correct her including me...maybe he was just being nice. But really I am not saying he doesn't like you because for all I know it he can be in love with you! I am just saying don't get too caught up with him because he might not. But still try talking to him and figure things out you never know he can be your next boyfriend!!

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my boyfriend hugged me for the first time... and it was awesome!!! the only problem was that we were both hesitant... we just stood there looking at each other... bye the way... we're both VERY shy... he says he is gonna hug me again... but he is going to surprise me... how can i make it so im not hesitant?? thanks !

Are your serious. I feel like a slut now. I kissed my guy the first day we went out. Geeze. Wow, you must be young. But thats still cute. You should go hug him first! He'll be surprised n mayb u can sneek a kiss on the cheek or something.

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i just need opinions about things, me and my bf have been together for over a year, and i was at his house looking for paper and i found a letter from another girl. in the past we did have problems and he liked another girl but we were still together. i never knew he had this but since i found it and read it, it kinda made me mad that he kept it over 6 months since the problems. so i took it home and tore it up. i know for a fact he wont know its gone, but if he were to confront me about it, was it a good reason that i took it from him? or should i tell him before anything were to happen? thanx.

I would of done the same thing. No one lieks to see a note from another girl that your bf liked in his drawer. Nahh, jus tell him you felt uncomfortable reading it and mad if he confronts you, I would be seriously pissed with that girl, lol but thats me, nahh I font think you did the wrong thing. Send me feedback on how it goes. -Bianca

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ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever

Aww!!!! That is so cute, hey a lot of ppl get married to the Middle, High, or College Sweet hearts, it's possible. And make sure you dont let any fights make your relationship worse. Gotta keep it going.

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okay i liked this kid named hector a long time ago and know im goign out with this named hugo but know hector wants to do shit with me but i dont know what i should do cuz i like hugo alot weve been dating for more than 3 months and hugo had fought with hector for me well what should i do????????

Herm, you gotta follow your heart bud, if you wanna get in with the oral or ect. if thats wut your talkin about then go for Hector, but I'm guessing if you wanna wait it a little longer then be with Hugo. I can't really say shit. It's your decision hun. Send me feedback. -Bianca

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well not in love...at all just I really like him ALOT. Im not sure if I should tell him or not....or how. But he has a girlfriend (its nothing serious theyve only hugged). But hes always flirting with me and staring at me two days age he was like lying on me. Hes o cute and nice i just dont know what to do
Please Help!!Sandy/13/f

Woot, seems like you already got it, what you've been telling me he likes you, go for it, mess his girlfriends face up make it deformed. Or, you can do the honest thing and tell him that you messed up her face. But it you dont want the physical stuff then tell em how you feel, blah blah blah i no it's hard but i bet he'll like ou even more for it. GO FOR IT GIRL!!! Woot woot, send me feedback bout the relationship! -Bianca

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For me, high school relationships are about gaining experience and finding what you want in a relationship. But, what happens when you find exactly what you want your first try? And, do we ever really get over anything?

Hmmm tough question, I get what your saying hwne your say highschool relationships give you more experience. I dont think it makes a difference whether it takes your first date or your zillionth. I think it's just how ya feel with the guy or girl... BUT, ya i remember when i was with this kid, and me and him were together, man I thought he was the one! So when he dumped me unfortunately I cried and cried my self to sleep, but of course eventually you'll get over it, but you won't all forget. Hopefully you fine the right one. And I like your question! lol Hope you likes my advice.
-Bianca

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well theres this guy that i think im starting to like, but im not sure if i really do yet because i've liked this other guy for sooo long. im not sure what i should do because i dont really talk to the guy that i used to like that much because things got really weird when we broke up . and this new one is nicer and we have fun together. im not sure because the feelings for the old one will never go away, and i know this because it's been a long time and i still like him alot. yea so what do i do, try again for the old one, or stick too the new one?? (yeahh sorry so long)

I definetly think you should go for the enw one. It seems like when you were talking about the new guy, youhad more good things to say about him. And unless the one you've liked for soo long is going to ask you out then I say, try new things! maybe instead of liking him for a long time you can be in a reltionship with someone for a long time. Hope I helped -Bianca

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There's these really cute kids in my neighboring town, Dan and I don't know the other one's name. I went to see my mom to get stuff for dinner, there my age and so sweet. Is it wrong to like them?

How is it wrong to like them. Go say hi and talk to them, I dont really understand your situation o.0

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Does anyone know where i can get those Valentine's day ballons that have teddy bears inside them???

There's balloons with teddy bears in em!

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ok well my friend dean sit near me in homeroom. And hes a big flirt, he loves to pinch my but?? I dont know y its kind of a joke and stuff, and well yesterday he did it infront of my b/f. And my b/f is, well not happy about it.

How do i explain this to him?

If your boyfriend understood I think he would know it's just a game, dean is just a friend and you know everyone is like's to have fun. But make sure you show your boyfriend you care for him more than butt pinchin. It makes him feel better. Trust Me!

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My boyfriend is always putting his arm round my waist and touching me but I never know where to touch him. I don't want to be really outragous or anything, I just want to know how I should touch him.

you can always put your hand on his butt, that always works or on his shoulder if ya like, you can put your hand around his wait to if your walking. oh and hint hint (guys love to be kissed on the neck)!! Hope I helped! -Bianca

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What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life?

I bet there's a problem in your life that has gone unsolved and your body wants to to fix it, but try and study your dream. Because all dreams have hidden messages in them, they all mean something. Hope I helped. Send me message me on what the dream was about and I'll tell you what is happening in your life that may be the problem. Hope I helped. -Bianca

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HEy uh i love this girl but im afraid to tell her.I told her once that i liked her but she seemed to dislike me even more and all her freinds hate me.What should i do?

Tell her again and if she doesn't like you move on there are a lot of better fish in teh see. Or you can make plans with her and talk to her personally just you and her. If she doesn't like you make her like you, charm her and give her presents. Girls luv the sweet charming guys! Hope I helped! Send me feedback -Bianca

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hi, im 13/m i have this gf we started going out like 2 months ago and its been really cool and i really like her alot but now i found out shes been smokin pot and drinken and shes only 13 though it was her first time it was kinda shocking cuz i expectede more from her i still like her but i sont kno if i wanna handle this i dont know what to do should i keep going out with her.

No stop going out with her, if you try and alk to her, it's mst likely she'll want you to do it and I doubt she will pay attention to anything you say and she'll keep doing it. She's bad news and your too young for that suff make the right choice and LISTEN TO THE D.A.R.E PROGRAMS . I did (thumbs up, teeth sparkle) lol hope I helped! send me bac some feedback! -Bianca

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But..I am going out with someone already and my friend is mad cuz she lieks him..but I like him, sorta..and I like the twins too but not as much. The twins are attentical tho..and if I dumped my boyfriend then my old friend would be happy..but I don't know if I have a chance with one of the twins..It's so hard..LOL!

Ok so the twins aren't for you, the thing is that you gotta talk to your so called friend and tell her that again that you like him and you won't give him up. If she doesn't care THAN GET RID OF HERRRRRRRR. she's no good. Send me feedback. -Bianca

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