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13/f...Ok, so I'm a really shy person when it comes to guys. I like this guy named Tim. I think he stares at me in spanish and sometimes science because I can see it out of the corner of my eye, ya know? In science the teacher stands like a few feet in front of Tim. So naturally I'm looking up at the teacher because he's talking lol. Yeah anyway, Tim looks at me a lot. He likes glances over at me. I think he might think I'm looking at him instead of the teacher. I know he's really shy also so should I strike up a conversation? And do you think it's possible he likes me? Thanks (link)
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try talking to him...then you'll be able to tell if he likes you or not. if you're shy it's best to start off asking him a question relating to school since you share a few classes w/ him.
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I understand exactly what ur saying to talk to my boyfriend now to see if i can trust him.But if i tell him what if he tells every1 else, i dont want the whole world to know. i love my ex and i like my boyfriend.He knows something about my previous relationship becauz his cousin is real good friends with my ex. If he asked me if i was in luv with my ex i'll be honest but when it comes to tellin him i luv him i cant be honest. (link)
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well...then maybe you shouldn't be with this new guy. you really need to be able to be honest and trustworthy if you want it to work
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while. He asked me if i thought it was time to go the next level and ... well you know.
what are your views on sex before marriage (link)
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do it...hard.
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month almost 2 and he doesnt talk that much(hes really really shy.)Well when we do talk we end up getting into fights.Im in a fight now with him and havent tlked to him since Friday.He told my friend online that I tell him all the time I dont love him and I dont care and it hurtz him...the problem iz I NEVER EVER SAY THAT 2 HIM becuz I love him ALOT and he sayz he luvs me 2 but I think he thinks I dont love him even tho i tell him all the time I do.I dont understand whats happening between us we were REALLI GOOD 2 GETHER in the beginning but then it just changed I guess u could say. Im totally confused and I kno I love him but I'm thinking about breakin up with him. My guy friend told me he realli likez me and haz 4 a while and I had feelings for him beofre my boyfriend but pushed them aside when my boyfriend came into the picture.What should I do??????? Im 15/f if it helpz
Sry itz so long (link)
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things change...and so do people. dont feel bad if you've changed your mind about this guy. it happens all the time. the best thing you can do is be honest with him.
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What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life? (link)
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dreams are usually influenced by whatever is going on in your life. repeating dreams are usually a sign of stress or anxiety about a particular topic. if the dreams are disturbing try meditating before you go to bed, or stretching to help relax your mind and body. even a shower might help.
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HEy uh i love this girl but im afraid to tell her.I told her once that i liked her but she seemed to dislike me even more and all her freinds hate me.What should i do? (link)
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whatever dirkman said.
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I noticed that sometimes you give people answers that are more on the humorous side, which is fine, but I'm hoping you'll be more serious with answering my question, because it's important to me. I'll try my best to keep this short - otherwise it will just be very annoying.
So basically I've really been working on trying to find a guy that I just love being around, someone that I can trust and have become my best friend.. you know, just an all-around great boyfriend. Well I've been hanging out with this one guy lately and it became aparent to me that he is exactly that which I've wanted. I have the greatest time ever when I'm with him, everything seems perfect. It was also quite the struggle getting to where we are now, because of complications with other girls wanting his ass. We've talked about things before and have decided that we just don't want to rush into things because he wants the same things as I do. For some reason today, for the first time, I had a weird unexplainable feeling about things. Like I started questioning, 'is this really what I want?' & 'Is he the right guy for me?' Things like that. He's perfect, and seems to be all I've wanted - So what the hell is going on? I know it doesn't sound like a big deal, but really, it is. I don't want to fuck this up.
So much for making that short, my apologies. (link)
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I know what you're feeling. It's that whole feeling of now that i have what i've wanted for so long, do i really want it? I would stick it out a little longer and see what happens. You might want to talk to him and tell him what's been going on. He'll most likely give you a reason to keep this thing going, or to end it. either way, you'll have some closure.
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ok i have a big problem. ok heres the scoop: i just moved to kentucky from chicago. its been real tough. i met my best friend and now we are always together, we are inseperable. but in the beginning of october her brother asked me out. he said that he really liked me and he told every1 i was the one for him and that we were going to run off and get married so now i am like in luv with this guy. he has the religion though of a penticostal and one of their beleifs is abstinence. and well i was raped when i was younger so technically i am not a virgin. his cousin has a really big crush on me though and when he found out that i was with his cousin he decided he was gonna make up a whole bunch of crap about me. so he told him that i screwed 20 guys and he broke up with me not even hearing what i had to say. now he wants nothing to do with me and i told his sister the reason i was not a virgin and now hes still like he cares but its not the same. he still wont even look at me. i dunno what i did wrong we were so happy. Ive been crying over him for about a month now and 3 days ago i started going out with this guy that is my other best friends boyfriends cousin. ( if that makes sense). and today he told me that he likes me a lot and that he loves me. he dosent understand how much weight that puts on my shoulder. i like him but i dont now if im using him to get my ex off of my mind. i want the relationship im in to last because i dont wanna fall apart again and have a breakdown but i really dont know what i should do. and i dont want to break his heart b/c i know hes 4 real. but how do i express what im fellin? please just tell me what you think i should do i need an opinion from someone who knows the basics. thankyou for reading please help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
confused/tjlover (link)
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Well first off, I recommend commas and capitalization...it was very hard on my eyes. But other than that I'm proud of you for using periods and such...
I suggest dropping your ex on his ass (or on spikes) because he fucked up...and explain to the other guy the situation that you're in. If he really feels the way he says he does, he'll understand and help you through it. And if he doesnt, then he wasn't worth your time.
I also think that telling the new guy what's going on will allow you to find out if you can really trust him.
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i like this guy stevie. a few days ago, i found out from lots of people that he likes me too! i was really happy but he knows i like him too so i dont understand why he wont ask me out. lol i never really asked out a guy before cause i think its more right for him to ask me hes really sweet around me and hints all the time but like i dont want to ask him. should i or wait? (link)
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Jump him...then he'll feel obligated to ask you out, especially if you threaten his life.
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Hmm well.. I'm in highschool and so is this guy. He looks good & okay we don't talk really but every time i see him we do the eye things, just like the other day i was walking he was lookin straight at my eyes n i was lookin back in his.. it was from accross the hall wen i was about to leave & so we followed eachothers eyes, me looking back and him lookin back at me.. We do it everytime we see eachother pretty much but we haven't talked & I reallly wana get to kno him but im not jus gona walk up to him n be like yeah whats up haha.. so any suggestions? i really wana get to know himmm. (link)
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you want to get to know him, but you wont talk to him? hun...that's the only way you can get to know him. just start with a "hey" during the "eyes thing" and then work your way up from there
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okay guys, this might be a tough one. im so lost and have no idea what to do. im 20 years old now. i met jeremy when i was 17 years old. i thought he was the perfect guy for me, and for a while he felt the same about me. we got together not long after that. i fell in love with him really fast, as did he. we were together for a little over 4 years. like any couple, we had our fights. i will be the first to admit that our relationship wasn't perfect. but we loved each other very much anyways. we broke up a few times but we always got back together. well about a week ago, we got into a huge fight and broke up. he informed me yesterday that he's unhappy with me and had sex with another girl. it almost killed me!!! i love him so much, and what he did was very wrong and i know that. however, i really need help trying to get over him. i can't stop thinking about him, but he doesnt even care. he told me that he doesn't even want to be friends anymore. how do i get over him? ive tried meeting other guys but i can't seem to find anyone. PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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time does heal all wounds, i know that's a cliche, but that's why cliches are cliches...b/c they true. Just be strong, surround yourself with friends and people who love you...they'll help you. PISTRIX!!!
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hey this guy in school he is a guy who likes heavy metal! well anyway he let me listen 2 some of his favorite stuff! and seemed so excited me all his fave songs!! He told me that 2 need 2 have black stuff 2 actually hear this music! i had a shirt under my shirt and i lifted it up and said i'm afraid i don't!! he lifted up his white shirt and his abs wre right there!! ppl keep sayin' we're flirting but he denies it! and i find out that someone talked 2 him about it and that he knows i like him ... what do i do? is he flirting with me or not? i'll rate! :) (link)
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why the hell do you like him? you need to have black stuff to actually hear this music? who the fuck says that...he's dumb and should not be aloud to reproduce. castrate him...PISTRIX!
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Ok, at the beginning of the school year in a new city, and at a new school, (I just moved here) the first day of school, theres this guy that asked me out when I never even talked to him once, not knowing him at all. Let's call him Bob. Bob has liked me from the first day of school till today. He's had many other crushes and girlfriends other than me but still likes me and flirts with me. As I got to know him, I started to like him. He isn't that hott, but has a great personality. He's the player type and if I went out with him I wouldn't be able to trust him. I really like him but I don't want to go out with him. I don't know why.. He's got a girlfriend right now and people say I shouldn't go out with him because he is a total man whore. At school he ignores me but glances at me whenever we pass in the hall. Do you have any advice? I'd be greatly appreciated!
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P.S. I'm 13 and in grade 8 if that helps. (link)
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I vote castrating him...then if he still likes you, you'll know it's because he really likes you and that he doesnt jsut want to nail (because, you know, he cant being dickless and all)...so yes. Castrate him and then you'll know. PISTRIX!
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Ive liked actually fallen in love with this kid now for 2 years. he doesnt wanna go out with my bcuz im friends with his younger sister. so now im tryna get over him and i just wanna be friends. but everytime i try to he feels weird around me. i just wanna be friends again like we were. should i give him some space? what do i do! please help! (link)
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you fell in love? heheheheh...a little naive, aren't we?
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(16/f) Okay then. I told this guy named...let's say Joe, that I liked him. He knows and eversince, he's been acting werid around me. One day, he'll talk to me and its like he will never shut up, but other days he won't even look at me. I have never been more confused in my life over a friggin' guy. What is he trying to tell me? Should I stay away from him so not to piss him off or do I keep talking to him and let him have his little mood swings? Thanks in advance.
Signed,
Running around in confusion. (link)
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walk up to him, grab his balls and tell him that if he doesnt start speaking a language that you can understand, you'll castrate him...that should do it...PISTRIX!
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theres this one guy who goes to my skewl and sits right in front of me in one of my classes.. he is soo adorable but i like him mostly cuz his personality u kno? but i flirt wit him alot and he does the same... but i dont think he likes me the way i like him. whenever i see him talk to other girls or like flirt wit otha girls in the class i get really mad. not just at him but mostly at myself fur likin him and not sayin anything. he doesnt realize how much he hurts inside tho.. what should i do? (link)
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it's none of your business who he flirts with, he doesnt belong to you...stupid whore.
why do people think that having one class with someone is basis for a relationship? you're dumb.
I think you should save him while you still can and dont say anything to him b/c you're a compulsive, controlly, obsessive whore who thinks she can read people, but cant. just save that poor boy's soul and fatally wound yourself.
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there's this guy that's 16 that i've liked for awhile i'm only 15 and everything but i'm not sure if something is there. when him and i first started talking we hit it off great but there was another guy in my life that i had been seeing. well he said he didn't want to wait around for me and i told him that i didn't want him to so i didn't hurt him or anything along those lines. well he's told me plenty of times that he's fallig in love with me more and more every time we talk, well when i realized that i had fallen for him he was interested in this other girl and he said that he wanted to see what was btween them which hurt me because i was ready to start something with him. well now it seems like he's running back to me wanting to start something and i'm not sure on what i should do. i like him but i dont know if he's worth my time anymore because i've waited just as long as he's had to wait, and all we seem to do is get into stupid fights and we don't talk as much. what should i do? should i try it or should i move on and just be friends?
thanks
bbyg543 (link)
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let him keep "running back to you" and when he gets close enough, put your foot out and kick him in the balls. it'll be fun.
then go and shut your head in a door b/c nothing should be this confusing at 15...and who the fuck cares if he's 16 and you're 15?! no one!!! that's who.
that's like me saying i love myself...which means i love me now at age fifteen, and i'll love myself in a month at age 16, and i'll love myself forever at age DEAD!!! it doesnt matter...you're dumb. go mistake a hot curling iron for a tampon.
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okay .. well there is this kid and hes in my geometry class..that's how i met him and i'm a freshmen and he's a sophmore - well we sit next to each other in class and as the days went on we began to talk to each other and he always will take my pens/pencils/purse/book/notebook and not give it back . or if i'm doing work hell scribble all over my paper - after a while he started tlking to me in the halls ramming me in walls er lockers in a playful way - well, i think that i like him and i don't know if he does or how i can find out .. like it seems like it does and a couple people said they tihnk he does .. but i dunno if it's jst his personality .. so i wanna know how i can find out .. please help *i'll rate *
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yes..he likes you. all high school boys flirt the same...blah blah blah. this is the nicest piece of advice i've given all night...feel special.
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I really need some advice :(.... I'm trying so hard to get over my X boyfriend that i had for 9 months, and he was my first love but every1 says i need to move on. So i have a new boyfriend but i don't know if i can give my heart to my new boyfriend because im still stuck on my X... but it doesnt work out with him so its so hard!! ... please help :`( (link)
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you're obviously someone who can't function without a boy...you should be wounded (fatally would be preferrable)
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Hey,
theres this guy that always flirts with me, always talks not stop, and he even called me sweet. He taps my foot all the time and we end up getting into a flirty footwar, lol. I think hes gonna ask me out, but i really like him as a friend. What are some ways to turn a guy down nicely so that he doesnt hate u forever?
Signed,
girl under an attack of unwanted predator (link)
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ok...all those fuckers who says be "friends with benefits" are horny dipshits who dont realize what a bad idea that is. Believe me, fwb is fun...but it's the dumbest thign to do in the world with somebody who likes you. so just dont do it.
also...stop being a slut and flirting with him...it's leading him on...and it's bad...you're dumb. you deserve being hated by him forever. to get the the hating point of the relationship faster tell him to fuck off...or have sex with his best friend (that should work too)
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