Question Posted Wednesday November 17 2004, 7:29 pm
Ive liked actually fallen in love with this kid now for 2 years. he doesnt wanna go out with my bcuz im friends with his younger sister. so now im tryna get over him and i just wanna be friends. but everytime i try to he feels weird around me. i just wanna be friends again like we were. should i give him some space? what do i do! please help!
bby_lee answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 9:02 pm: umm no.. i think you should talk to him, and work things out .. if you dont talk to the kid it will make matters worse .. hope i helpedd! xoxx [ bby_lee's advice column | Ask bby_lee A Question ]
Smartblnde33 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:16 pm: I dont know you but the same thing kinda happened to me. The thing for me was that this kid liked me and he wanted everything to work and everything and he was like i hope things work out and we are together forever. Yeah that never happen we went out 6 times this year and one of the times we went out he used me because he wanted to make my sister jeaulos cause my sister like him. Bad thing for sisters to like the same person. LOL. Anyways yeah i think that you should give him space cause i did with this kid and now we are friends again like before and everything is all good just like before. So give him space after you do that for awhile go up to him and tell him you dont like him anymore and ur over him and then try to like someone else cause that kid i went out with 6 times i have like for over a year and i just got over him and it was really hard but i have faith in you and i know you can do tell me how things are if you have AOL my s/n is smartblnde33 and my email is Dancergurl218@yahoo.com and if you dont know its gurl then 218 cause the L looks like a 1 but write back to me i would like to here wuts happesn and i am 15 1/2 years old. Best of Wishes [ Smartblnde33's advice column | Ask Smartblnde33 A Question ]
Adrz answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:11 pm: I think you should sit down and talk to him, tell him whats on your mind, and that you dont want to be with him just friends and nothing more. HOpe i helped =) [ Adrz's advice column | Ask Adrz A Question ]
sunshine1030 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:00 pm: it's odd that he didn't want to go out with you because you're friends with his younger sister, but giving people their space always seems to work. don't cut off communication completly, because it's often harder to start it up again after a while, and it's often more awkward than in the beginning. if you see him in school, say hi, but don't try and have a full fledged conversation with him right off the bat. it'll help him understand that you just want to be friends,and it'll help you get over him and be able to just be friends with him. [ sunshine1030's advice column | Ask sunshine1030 A Question ]
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