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heyness! Regina here! whats up everyone! lol well if ya gots n e ?'s you can always ask muah! lol well i love to shop g2 tha beach musq party dance phone i love hockey football volleyball i lyke soccer and tha list goes on lol well IM me er e-mail me er look @ mai Xanga! lyl xoxoxo
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Website: Mai Xanga
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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!! (link)
ask him out!


ive liked this one guy for awhile now.. and hes always telling people he hates me and stuff and when i ask him about it he says it isnt true. the other day i told him to be honest.. and if he didnt like me as a friend to just tell me so ill be better off.. but he told me he still likes me n stuff .. i was thinking he might just be saying it to get me to be on His Side of this fight thats going on but im not sure. During the school year he liked me but was embarassed to ask me out b/c of what his friends would say. is that maybe why he tells people he hates me but tells me he doesnt? im so confused! (link)
what a jerk...guys can b very confusing but it jus seems this guy doesnt knoe what he wants an keeps tryin ta make up his mind...ya dont need him...two-faced ppl lyke that...you cant relly trust'em hope i helped...xOxO


hey i thought i liked this guy anthony so we started hanging out and we got to know eachother well one night at my friend rickeys house who is also his friend we all met up there he said he liked me alot and he kissed me hes not a bad kisser or nething but i mean i dont think i like him that way ... i and i told him that and hes starting to like my bestfriend i think because whenever im over there he calls her and talks to her and everything it seems whenever im with her which is like everyday he calls her and talks to her.. she tells me everything he says about me which is quit alot but not bad stuff ya know... i dont now what to do because i still want to be good friend with him ... help me figure this out ! (link)
styll be his friend even tho he lykes yer best friend its not a bad thing...talk ta him too there shouldnt b ne thing in yer way of bein friends with him lyke with yer bff an all hope i helped xOxO


me and eddie ( me exboyfriend ) broke up about 2 months ago, we went out for 3 years and things were really serious. i was 12 wen i went out with him and now im 15.i lost all my friends, and he lost all his.he broke up with me about 2 years ago and he was cheating on me for the last week of our realationship.i finally got over him and he came back to me.so we have been going out ever since.eddie is very controlling.he wouldnt like it if i had on makeup,he would get mad when i wore a thong to school, i had NO guy friends, and it was jus bad. i broke up with him bout 2 months ago cuz i couldnt take it anymore. he had an anxiety attack and went to the emergnecy room. he begs me everyday to go back out with him .ive been talking to a couple of guys and hes been threatin them.i have to admit- i do play with his head, one day im havin sex with him, then the next i dont talk to him. but now im really sick of it cause we still fite wen we dont even go out. i think i love him but idk if i shood talk to him or jus not talk to him at all. but if i hear he is with another girl ill get upset. im really confusing but i just need advise , should i not talk to him again? [ me and him cant work out as friends ] or jus try to aviod him..oh ya i saw ur pictures ur madd pretty (link)
wow gurl....let him go...tha way he is, makin you confused so much fyting and worse...controlling you, who should or shouldn't be your friends and all that, is not ryte. ive experienced something kind of lyke this and i knoe it relly hurts. you may love him a lot but i think its maybe tha best for tha both of you if you two dont go wit each other....lyke dont aviod him completly...styll talk to him but not lyke a whole lot lyke talk to him if he talks to you an all hope all goes well xOxO


OMG ok, so there is this guy. Hes's 18 and he really really really likes me. He is one of the sweetiest guys i've ever ment.. BUT HES FREAKING 18!!!! I really really really like his friend whos 16 (which isnt bad at all.. so thats one of the reasons i like his freind.) The 18 year old is kinda shy in person, and the 16 year old really isnt. They both are really great dancers. But i dont kno what to do about the 18 year old. I have this like weakness for turning down guys who are really cool and cute, but i cant go out with. I really really really need some advis on what to do about the 18 year old. I mean hes a total sweetie, and he cares about me alot.. but i just CANT go out with an 18 year old.
PLEASSEEEE HELP like ASAP!!!

*x*o*x*o (link)
hey lyke tell him that you think hes a kewl friend and that you lyke him a lot *as a friend*....lyke dont egg him on ta lyke you even more and maybe that'll give him sum hints that you just wanna be friends with him...hopefully he'll get it....just do n e thing that'll let him figure out that a friendship is all you can give him......hope i helped ya xOxO


Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *

(I will rate you!) (link)
stick with him and when you guys meet up make that a tyme for you to get back that feeling that you've lost for him. give him another chance youve got nothin ta loose an hang with him an do stuff together lyke go out ta tha mall er somethin jus lyke chill. thats happened ta me i stuck with him and we ended up goin out fur another lyke 7 months lol hope i helped and good luck xOxO


i have just turned 16, well i have liked this girl for i dont no about a year and a half, shes one of the most amazing girls i no, shes perfect, strong chrisitian, volleyball player, straight A student, beautiful, wonderful family, but she uses the esxcuse to good of friends everytime i want to talk about us dating, we are best friends, and by that i mean extrmely tight, im really lost right now, because i think about her constantly, should i stick with her, or should i try to move on, by the way we have never actually been together before (link)
maybe she just wants to be relly good friends and nothing more. maybe she feels that once you guys go out and break up your friendship'll be ruined so maybe being friends is all she wants. ive had that feelin be4...lyke sum1 fur a long tyme but cant get with them....its hard i dont knoe how i got over well i went out with sum oter guy but yeah okay good luck on this xOxO


16-f

it seems like no guy ever likes me. its annoying because i feel like im such a decent and a good girl. i mean i play the piano, i do ballet, i work , i get good grades, im respectful, and alright looking..ive had one bf in my whole life, and that was a 1 yr relationship and we broke up 8 months ago, and since then i havent had like any other guyz or even small flings...it just seems like ill never have a decent guy that wants me.. (link)
try talking ta them a lot and go ta hang outs ta chill with them and show them how kewl of a person you are. doin all that stuff is awesome there has ta be a guy for you. jus hang out be lyke relly social not anti-social. jus have fun talkin an hangin out then you never knoe wut could happen =D


i really like this kid , he has a girlfriend though and he lives a couple hours away. Even thought he lives that far away we can still see each other because i am either always in the state he lives in or he is aloud to come here. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and says he likes me i believe him , and i think he just doesnt know what his girlfriend will do if he breaks up with her because she says she is in love with him , she found out what happened with me and him and she still didnt break up with him. But i cant stop thinking about him =( .. what should i do ? i rate thanx! (link)
if he relly lyked you he'd get with you cause i dont think his girlfriend'll dump him she seems to love him a lot and he'd have to be tha one ta make tha 1st move or nothin'll happen. if you guys relly lyke each other then go for it! good luck xOxO


I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.

Thnx,
Ana (link)
well its not a bad thing that you havnt kissed a girl that kiss will come one day and theres not relly a need to rush it. a first kiss is somehin ta be remembered and its prolly just waiting for tha perfect person an place and styll hasnt happened yet. it'll come. =D


recentally ive been hearing that there are a lot of people who like me, but i only see all of them as friends. i dont want to hurt them but at the same time i dont want to lead them on, ive tried to tell them that i dont like them that way but they never seemed to listen, and when i hang out with them they areaalways flirting with me, how should i fix this? (link)
hmm try tellin then straight foreward that you just want to be friends and nothing more not in a meen way tho. if they styll flirt just dont flirt back maybe they'll see that youre bein foreal an they'll hopefully stop.


Okay , me and my boyfriend was talkin on ta phone and he asked me to marry him(AND AT A YOUNG AGE TOO) and I said no , was it the right thing to do ???were both 15.he aint mad but he is kinda sad , he said he wanted to be with me forever,and I let him down. was it the right thing to do??? (link)
lyke was he serious?....are you sure he wasnt lyke messin around and all?...yeah thats a little too young to get married...tell him that you'll styll be with him and that you guys shouldnt get married because youre not prepared for it yet....hope i helped xOxO


Hey... i like my best friends cousin.ive liked him for 4 years and he finally liks me and yesterday he said he's proally gona ask me out but i lik his older brothers best friend(hes 14)n' i lik them the same(justin is 13 n' nate is 14)and lately Nate has been flirting 24/7n' hes askin if im single and askin wut my phone # is n' everything, and he said hes proally gonna ask me out..i lik these 2 the same, but i kinda wanna go out wit nate more,but then i dont wanna hurt justin or anything n' i dont kno wut to do! (link)
hey well i think that you should go out with nate since you lyke him more...if you go out with justin and dont really lyke him then its more lyke a pitty thing and thats not gud! lol tell justin that you just wanna be friends with him but you lyke nate...tell him but try not to hurt his feelings and tell him that you hope he understands and that him if he does thank him.


okay i need help!!!!! kay i have 2 best friends..amber & adriana...okay well today i found out that the guy i like has a girlfriend..so i was telling them about it and i was like do u know who it was saying all that stuff to me and i was like was it u and then they were like oh yah sure it was us gosh why do u have to think all this stuff about us we know u r not a true friend and all this bullshit..then they were like yah we r so sick of ur drama and we r sick and tired of hearing u cry to us allllll the time (this was over the internet) and me and adriana used to like the same guy and then amber was like yah and u r stopping adriana from going out with ricky ( thats his name) and i said no its not my fault i dont care and amber was like yah it is ur fault b cuz she cant go out with him b cuz a certain someone will cry and i just dont know what to do and then amber was like he likes adriana nottttt u!!!! and she was like get over it and was calling me a drama queen when i dont know why..b cuz she is the one wo is starting drama she is a bitch by the way and 2 faced too....what shoulod i do about them or what should i do about amber???? i am sick of all this fighting.!!!!!! (link)
start hanging out with different people...people who understand you and respect you...you dont have to deal with "friends" lyke them because THEY dont knoe how to be one cept to each other but thats gonna get them no where... get other better friends


me and this guy.... we will call him... pete. well me and pete have been talking for about 8 months (november-june) and we went out in dec. for about a month but broke up because he "couldn't have a girlfriend". despite that, we still liked each other and continued to see each other without the title of boyfriend and girlfriend.... now it seems like every few days hes mad at me for some random reason and a day later were fine and acting like it never happened but this time i don't even know what that reason is... i asked him the other day what was wrong and he said he would tell me later. well i decided to let him approach me about it first since i had already asked but then today he acted like it never happened except im scared to ask and bring up more fighting.... what should i do?!! (link)
maybe its not you it could be something else that was upsetting him at tha tyme and totally fergot about it to even mention to you...i wouldnt worry about it a whole lot since hes acting normal around you


i have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months and i always feel like we are ment to be.. when we are 2gether.. but when we are apaprt its kinda like i dunnoo.. he lives about 30 minutes away form me but h still goes to my same school... i mean its relaly hard being summer and everything... when ever i go 2 the movies i see couples 2gether and me nd my boyfriend neva get to go 2 the movies 2gether bcuz he lives to far away for a ride... and i just sumtymes feel like i want sumbody here thats easier to like hang out with... but i dunno i cant imagin breaking up with my boyfriend but lateltly its just kind of been crossing my mind.. what shood i do? (link)
if you really feel lyke you lyke this guy you should stick with him and make some tyme for each other so you guys could hang out and stuff :)


Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
i think you prolly should dump him if hes trynna get you into that stuff and tellin you somethin lyke tha only way ta prove to you that you loved me was to smoke this joint.... AND you dont wanna be with him anymore ...you'll be a lot better off w/o him


How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
wow.....if you want him to talk to you and admit to his friends that hes going out with you....talk to him...question him.... if that doesnt work then he's not tha ryte guy and dump him


Im 14 and ive never kissed a boy?! is that bad!? will people not date me because of that!? i mean boys have attempted to but i didnt let them because they were jerks and they just wanted sex! so help me! i need to know if thats a bad thing! and you'll probably say just to wait....he'll come to me but i cant wait any longer!! :*(

~Help me~ (link)
no its not a bad thing that you havnt kissed aguy at your age... you dont have to do it jus cuz everyone else is! wait for the right guy and dont be in such a hurry these things take tyme for some people but its not a bad thing just wait for him to come


everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
hes your b/f and it shouldnt matter what your friends think... if they're really your friends they'll respect you for who you lyke and they'd respect ta guy.. ..if you guys wanna have fun an hang out with out having your friends always at your back telling you that hes ugly or you could get better, get tha two of you ta hang out jus you and him...tell your friends that you really care for this guy and that you'd really appreciate it if theyd let you choose on your own who you wanna go out with...




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