what have you gotten for valentines day in the past... that you liked?
At one of the hardest times in my life my girlfriend simply walked up to me gave me a big hug and whispered "I believe in you." That made all the difference in the world to me.
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This is probably going to sound pretty fucking wierd, but it bothers me.
Ok, Im dating this girl. Shes agnostic/athiest, Im christian, formerly catholic non denominational. Up to this point, with the exception of discussion, Ive not really had any issues with religions shit in our relationship. It doesnt bother me that shes agnostic, it hasnt bothered her that Im christian.
So, today we were talking, and I told her I was going to become a reverend in the universal life church. For those of you who dont know, its an online website where you can actually get legally ordained and become a reverend in the eyes of the law. I find this fucking hilarious, and have wanted to for a while, but never got around to it.
She reacted badly. First, she joked that she didnt want to be involved with a reverend. Then she got serious and basically made it clear that it would bother her for me to become a reverend while I was dating her (expressed so that it was clear she didnt want me to do it)
Then she tells me its "disrespectful towards my religion"
This is coming from a girl who Ive watched the jesus episodes of southpark with. Whom I have made catholic joke after catholic joke (Im entitled, I was raised in it) with and laughed with her. Whom I have had frank discussions about the real failings of certain christian sects.
And now this.
Needless to say, I reacted badly. I was, and am pissed at her, for reasons I cant really say. Given that she doesnt even have a religion (because atheism and agnosticism are no more religions than bald is a hair color) I dont see where she gets off getting on me for being "disrespecful" towards mine or having an issue with it when its not like...
Anyway. Enough impassioned speeches, my question to the masses, is what do you think. Am I out of line? Is she? Because Im going to do this, and shes not going to like it. And I dont like feeling guilty for doing things I know arent wrong.
I hate to be the one to break this to you but you, sir, are no Christian. For someone raised in a Catholic background, you certainly have a foul mouth, a flagrant disregard for others religious beliefs, a great deal of disrespect for the men and women who have trained hard to become ordained ministers, and a severe lack of forgiveness. If you do this as a joke I guarantee you that not only will your girlfriend leave you (and rightfully so) but you will find yourself in your own personal Hell. Normally I'm not this preachy to people but I have to say I am appaled at your actions. You go ahead and rate me a 1 for my advice. God will rate me a 5 in His book, and that's where the points really matter.
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My boyfirned of 3 years has just passed away. He was doing heroin with me and he took an over dose and his heart failed. I don't know what i can do without him I just loved him so much and I want to die right now. He was only 19 years old and just got out of highschool last year. I loved him so much I even lost my virginity to him and i can't imagine my life without him. What can I do this is the only person I have ever loved because I have serious issues at home. Someone please answer I rate 5's
You just recieved a very hard and very real lesson on what drugs will, not can, WILL, do to you if you do not stop immediately. Nothing I can say or do can help ease the pain of your loss and all you can do is wait it out. I've lost more friends and loved ones than most people and all I can tell you is that in time you will be able to move on. I would recommend you talk to someone such as a family member or an older friend of the family about your drug use and get help. If you need to talk to someone and don't feel like talking to someone you know then you can e-mail me any time and I'll be glad to listen. Best wishes.
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People say body language says a lot. So, i wanted to know...what are some body language signs and stuff? like whats some things to show body language && what do they mean? && can u tell me some signs guys do and what they mean? like to show you they like you.. or even if they just want one thing? anybody?
Thanks
While it varies from person to person and according to the situation you should be able to get a basic grasp of things at these websites.
www.selfgrowth.com/bodyl.html
www.deltabravo.net/custody/body.php
www.links2love.com/body_language.htm
Hopefully these help in your quest to understand what people are saying when they aren't saying anything.
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At my school, we have this dance where the girls ask the guys (hence the backwards part). I have a few guy friends that I'm thinking of asking, but I don't know how to ask them. Girls, if you could share how you asked a guy out (or to a dance), and guys, if you could share how you'd like to be asked, that would be great. Also, none of these guys are romantically involved with me in any way. Also, if you can think of cute ways to do my hair or other dance tips/tricks (i've never been to a dance, really.) then I'd really appreciate it. Thank you so much, and I look forward to hearing back from you soon. :)
Oh, and also, should I ask a freshman (I'm a freshman) or an upperclassman?
Please remember this fact about the male brain: You MUST be very direct with us. Subtle hints won't work. Strong hints won't work. Obvious hints won't work. Just walk up and say "Hey! Wanna go to the dance?" and you can't go wrong. If you're not looking for any kind of relationship to come out of this then ask anyone! If your friends say no, ask someone from class that you know, or even don't know! It's supposed to be fun and this could be a great way for you to meet new people.
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There is this guy that I really like, and I think he may like me too, but my shyness is holding me back. I don't have any classes with him, so it's hard to just start up a casual conversation without sounding stupid. And none of my friends are his friends, so it isn't like I could casually join into a conversation. I wrote him a note once, but I didn't even have the guts to hand it to him myself, so I had my friend do it. I think Nick would like me more if I could show him that I'm not afraid to talk to him. I'm not really "afraid" of talking to him. I guess i'm just very nervous of what might happen because of it. (Like me sounding like a total dork) Any tips or anything...? lol, thanks!
I could give you all the tips in the world but in the end you have to just decide you're going to talk to him and that's that. Don't worry about sounding like a dork. It's a part of life. I sounded like a complete moron at least 25% of the time I opened my mouth around girls in school. Most of the time they didn't even seem to notice! So I wish you good luck and hope it turns out well for you!
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I don't know what to get my boyfriend of 4 months for valentines day. I cant get him a shirt because I already got him that for his birthday. I was thinking chocolates.. but is that enough? If that's not enough.. should I make him dinner? Should it be all fancy with candles and everything? Or should it just be like eating dinner in front of the TV? Any other ideas for what I should get him? Thanks
What does he like? This would be much easier with some detail's about his interests and personality. In general though, anything you can do alone together is a good choice. Dinner is a good choice, especially if you make something he really likes. No need to be ultra fancy about it. If you'd rather not cook then think about what he enjoys most. Does he like sports? Get him something from his favorite team or player. Is he a music nut? Grab a new CD or make one of your own with his favorite songs. The possibilities are truly limitless.
If you can leave me some details in my inbox I'll come up with a few more specific ideas for you.
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How do I impress the girl I like very much?
How do I ask her on a date? Please, I need help with the whole girl thing.
Just be yourself. If she doesn't like you for you then she isn't good for you anyways. Who knows maybe while you're being yourself to attract HER attention you might be noticed by someone else and end up liking them more!
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I have guy issues. Every guy I like, never seems to like me in that way. All the guys I like are my friends, and I don't know what is wrong with me. I'm kinda pretty, realtively thin, atletic, I got boobs and a butt, so I don't understand. I'm smart, and I don't think I have a dull personality, I like to flirt and joke around. Anyone have any ideas to why this might be happening?
It could simply be because there's just no chemisty there. If I were you I would just relax, be patient, and the guys will come to you. Just be yourself and people will see that you ARE all you say you are.
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I have a crush on this guy, actually it's more than a crush, I think I'm in love with him. We have been friends for 3 years, but I've always hoped we'd become more than friends. Well someone recently asked me what qualities about this man that I love attracted me to him. Then suddenly it dawned on me: He's exactly like my father!!! These are all the similarities:they both have dark hair and brown eyes, they both have really hairy chests, they are both very tight-wadded with there money, they are both workaholics, they both drink a lot of beer, they both are very flirtatious with woman, they are both humourous yet serious, they both have REALLY bad tempers, they both have been the boss of there own business, they both have been called an asshole behind there back, they both have been to court because of enemies made at work,they both are the oldest child, and they both have sex addictions (my dad cheated multiple times on my mom, and my crush admitted to me that he struggles with pornography.)
Well now that I've finally figured out why I'm so attracted to this man, it kind of grosses me out. Should I still have feelings for this man? Because in some perverted way it feels like I have feelings for my dad.
What should I do?
Believe it or not many people often end up with this same situation. In my case I was raised by my grandparents and my girlfriend is remarkably similar in personality to my grandmother. It's a natural way to feel since that type of person has always been around and it offers you a certain feeling of safety and security.
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