I dont really know what to say about myself. But, I guess I'll just say some stuff about me.
I'm 15, and my name is Melissa.
I'm 5,4 and 105 pounds!
I have brown hair, green/gray/gold eyes, LONG legs, and freckles! But not alot of freckles...more like a bandit mask of them. Lol, like in the shape of a raccoon mask.
I go to CAT pickering, and while there i take Culinary Arts. Then after that, I go back to Downingtown East High School for the rest of the day. I LOVE IT!! I only take like, THREE classes a day and i'm in tenth grade!
I love all music, except for creepy country, (no offense to all you country lovers out there!) and I love to draw!!
I'm not really punk, preppy, goth, or anything like that...i'm more like....me? lol, ANYWAY,
That's all I have to say!
If you need help, feel free to ask me. I dont mind answering your ?'s! Or if you just want to talk, my AIM name is Samarawntstoast. IM me if you want to!
Peace!
~Melissa~
E-mail: tdrod4@comcast.net
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 15
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well im a 16 yr old female lol.... and sorry if its long :( but i dont know what to do!
i have like a best boy mate
and i THINK he likes me. i really like him.
like today i was showing him something on my fone he came right up behind me and was like really close in a romantic way.
and when we was getting on the train he put his hands over my eyes and as i moved them away we kinda didnt let go for like 1 second but i really wanted to hold them.
and when we got off the train and in general we always walk really close to each other and our hands keep touching. i have a really huge urge to hold him its not fair.
i want to be with him so much but i dont know how to tell him or what to say
please help i really want to be with him. does what i explained above sound like he likes me?
emma xoxox i rate 5's for good advice :D
xx *sorry its a bit long* (link)
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I think he might like you!! But to be sure, just ask him. It may seem scary, but if he doesn't and he's one of your really good friends, than nothing should change. I don't really know what else to say, BUT...in my personal opioion it sounds like he likes you. So go for it!
JA!
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ive been on 3 dates with this boy tom. and we are supposed to go to some concert a week from tomorrow. after our first datee i was like ok i kinda like him but i wouldnt kno yet because i dont know him well. we went out 2 other timesss and i still wasnt suree. so todayyyyy i was tallking to him online and at the same time he sent me a message on myspace saying " hey i really like you and i wanna be with you, do you want to?" and i didnt say anything because i dont think i really like him and if i do i wanna go on a few more dates and see.. so i talked to him online and i was like im goin out talk to you tonight.. he signs on and in his profile is " i love u lindsey 9/10/05" and i never sed i wanted to and didnt even give him the sign i wanted to. and his myspace says " in a relationship" i dont know what to do.. tahts kinda creeeppyy.. i cant tell him on the phone so i didnt anser yett!.. wut should i tell him online or wen i text him.. i dont think its bad im tellin him that way because he told me the same way basically
thanksss (link)
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What you should do, is sit him down, and just tell him straight out that your not sure if you want to be in a relationship with him right now. Tell him that, you would rather go on a few other dates, and get to know him some more before you make that kind of commitment. Hopefully he'll understand. Dont really bring up the myspace thing, cause then he'll think he's got no chance and will probably freak out. (lol) anyway. If you have anymore questions feel free to ask!! Or if my advice sucks, you can IM me at samarawntstoast. ^_^ I dont mind being yelled at! lol,
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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I am obsessed with Lindsay Lohan, seriously, its not good, how can i fix this (link)
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Take her face and put it on...*dramatic backround music* GEORGE DUBYA BUSH! *everyone screams and runs away* NOT THAT NOOOOOOOO!
Heehee, sorry for the joking, hope it helped! Or at least made you laugh!
~Melissa~
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there's this boy i see around a lot, but i've never worked up the courage to talk to him, i'm not very good with strangers. he notices me too, and at once point early on he made an attempt to talk to me but i shot it down accidentally. i didn't realize it at the time but now i do, and i hate myself for it.
anyway, i really really like him, and i know some of his friends but not closely. how do i make it so i can meet this boy, and talk to him? (link)
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How bout you hang out with the friends he's really close too. Say, "Lets go see a movie!" and you never know, he may come too!
Hope i helped!
~Melissa~
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okkkk im a freshman (high school) and theres this guy whos a junior (in high school)..ive hung out wit him before and talk to him a lot online..but now all of a sudden my parents are like "you cant talk to him, you cant see him...etc" ughh i REALLY like him..and my parents dont no him like i do..and they dont want to no him and said they wudnt want to meet him..!! AHHH so ive been sneakin around..just to see him and its getting harder and frustrating!!! oh my god i really like him and we want to be gf/bf..but i dont no cuz im not suppose to see him!!! AHH
HELLPPP!!!!!!! PLLLLZZZ!!!!
ps...homecoming is coming up and he wants to take me but my moms like no you cant go wit him..but its either i go wit him or i meet him there! but they wont listen! ahhh HELP!
I RATE HIGH!
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*sigh* Sorry to tell you this, but alot of parents are like that. Maybe you could make a surprise meeting. Come home with him one day when your parents are home and just pretty much force them to talk. You may never know, he could make a really good impression.
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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ok..well..i love my boyfriend A LOT hes like my worl and i am definately ready to move to step 2,3 and so on u kno but m only doubt is that i have white discharge all the time in my underwear..like wats wrong w/ me:(..help please (link)
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Dont worry about the white discharge, you get that all the time after you start getting your period. Its not suppossed to go away until menapause. But if your really worried about it then i think you should see a doctor. Tell your mom your worried about it and that you just want to make sure. Make sure you dont mention the whole 2,3 base thing...lol...but anyway,
I hope I helped you out!!
~Melissa~
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i have big boobs for my age.all the guys stare at them, especially when i lean over to get something off the floor.
one of my friends that i've known for like, 8 years is starting to like, pay attention to me, alot. he plays with my hair, lets me copy his work, and is always like, hanging all over me. at first i thought it was him just being cute, but then he and i were playing around in the hall after school and he (i think accidentally)tripped me, and i grabbed his arm, accidentally pulling him down on top of me on the floor, when he said "um.. sorry", looked me in the eyes, and got up and helped me up.
what makes matters worse, i have a boyfriend that lives a couple states away. i love him with all my heart and i think he may just be the one,but hey i'm still under 18..
anyway, my boyfriend thinks this guy is a creap and wants me,for my protection, to stay away from him. my boyfriend(let's call him jonathan)thinks that this guy is perverted, at least a little, and either wants me for my personality, or for my boobs.
but jonathan is positive that the dude wants me... like.. sexually, i dont know what to do..
i am not interested in anybody but jonathan at all whatsoever.
i have no idea what to do. i want jonathan, like.. bad. and jonathan wants me just as bad back. but the other guy, just keeps popping up.
how can i stop being so friendly with this guy,without being mean, so he'll go away???
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i rate high for good answers
sorry this was so long. (link)
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Well, you should confront him and tell him that your not comfortable with how he is treating you. Tell him that you like him as a friend, but dont like him like THAT. Hopefully he will understand and not be hurt!
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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I have a problem, i have a huge crush on this one boy that I've known for a long time. He always flirts with me and tells me his secrets, but im afraid that I'm going to be the best friend. What are some things i could do to be more than a friend. I'm also araid that he is just a big flirt. Does anyone know how you can tell if he may be one?
Sorry if you think im pathetic.
If your not a smartass to me i might be nice. Or if your a smartass and you made me laugh i might be nice and rate you.
That's it.
Thank You. (link)
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Wow, you and I have so much in common it's not even funny. I'm going through the same thing right now and I've liked this guy forever!! He even tells me his secrets and flirts with me all the time. But ANYWAY, a way to tell if he likes you is have a good friend go up and ask him "Why have you been hitting on (insert your name here) so much? If he's a huge flirt he'll probably just blow it off, but if he really likes you he'll get all red and stuttery. (its kinda funny to watch) Or you could ask around and find out if he flirts with alot of other girls. Like if you find out he made out with a girl at summer camp after flirting with you the whole time *clenchs and unclenchs fists* then he's a flirt. But if everyone says he's a nice guy he probably likes you. Or you could just ask him, which will save you alot of trouble. But its all up to you! Tell me how it turns out!! My AIM is Samarawntstoast
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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ok like, i have this boyfriend and we've been going out for around 5 months(a long time) and now every thing about him is starting to bug me! its like i just dont want to be around him anymore but i've felt this way for a few weeks but like last week we went like.. way further that we had been. and he's always talking about how he couldnt live without me and like how he would kill himself, and he is serious. what should i do? (link)
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Okay, this guy seems kinda creepy. If you dont like him you should never have gone "alot farther" than you did. But anyway, you have to sit him down and tell him that you dont like it when he talks like that, and that you dont like him as much as you did when you first got togeather, and that people change over time. Hopefully he'll understand, and it wont be your fault if he does somthing, because thats his choice.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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Ok, there is this guy and everyday when I get on the bus he constantly stares at me. when I get to skool in the morings he stares at me! He used to like me I think. But I want to know if he still does. i think he has a girlfriend. Whats something I could just talk about right out of the blue and not sound stupied? (link)
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Find out what he likes OR, whats even more fun, is go right up to him on the bus, sit next to him, and say "why are you always staring at me, its kinda weird." And then just sit there and wait till he answers. He may just get emabarressd and if he does he probably still likes you, if he doesn't and just says somthing stupid...he probably likes you. lol.
Hope I Helped! Please Rate!
~Melissa~
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anyone have any ideas how to say no if someone asks you out and you really want too but are afraid,or you just dont like em. and dont want to hurt their feelings.
**i rate 5** (link)
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You just have to be straight-forward and explain to them that you dont like them in that way, and that you would much rather be friends. It may seem hard but you'll feel way better after-words!
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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My husband and I have a pretty normal marriage. We live in a vacation area in Washington State where the real estate values have skyrocketed. Six years ago my husband wanted to buy some property for $200,000, I thought it was way too much for us at the time and didn't think we could afford that kind of payment. Needless to say, that peice of property today is worth one million!!! We had no idea this would happen. Now my husband blames me for us now not being rich! I feel so guilty I can hardly stand it. How can I get over this. It is over nad done now, but he is upset by it. I just don't know what to do. We are doing pretty good.
We own the cabin we live in, own a 3 acre peice of land and one rental cabin. I think it is good but he can't get over me not going along with the purchase years back.
Thank you for any advice to help me get over my feelings of guilt and regret and move on.
We are 41 and 47 years old (link)
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First off you should sit your hubbie down and tell him that everytime he brings that up, it hurts your feelings. You should also tell him that when you told him no, you were thinking for you and your husbands well being. Its not fair for him to hold this against you, considering it can happen to anyone. Not everything turns out the way it could have, and whats done is done. Tell him to put the past behind him.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa
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I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a month, and i have been on holiday for 2 weeks. He has been dropping hints that he might be telling me he loves me soon, but he has chickened out. But this is good, because i dont love him. If he tells me he loves me what should i say back, because i dont love him. 16/f if that helps, hes 19 (link)
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Tell him you care about him alot, but your just not ready or comfortable telling him you love him. If he does love you, he should understand, and be willing to wait.
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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is it wrong for a 13M to have been never been kissed. (link)
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No, of course not!!! It just means that you have been awesome, and decided to wait for the right person! Keep it up!
~Melissa~
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I had an boyfriend in 6th grade but he left for Canada. But before he left (like 2 months before) We has a huge physical fight. I talk to him like 3 times a week on MSN and i totaly forgive him. I love hime and he loves me and i'm planning to move to where he is. But the problem is, his absece has made me depressed, i love him so much!! And my school grades have dropped significantly.. is there any way to cure that missing ingredient?? (link)
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Your just going to have to kind of, relize that you'll be with him soon, so there's no need to be depressed, and that right now you should really concentrate on your school work!
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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The guy I have this huge crush on (i've liked him since February of this year) is a year younger than me. He's in 7th grade and i'm in 8th, but he has a late birthday so he COULD be in my grade but he missed the cut off (his bday is in November of 1992 and mine is in july of 1992 so i'm only a couple months older than him.) However, other people think i'm weird, cause they don't know when his bday is, and they think im weird cause i like a younger guy. Well the truth is i really like him. and i dont care what other people think. but what should i do 2 not make them think im a dork/loser for likeing someone younger than me?? Thanx i rate 5 every time :-) (link)
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I dont think it's bad for you to like a guy in a grade younger than you. I like one that is two grades lower. But he's suppossed to be in ninth, and he's only like two months younger than me. But anyway!, your alowwed to like whoever you want to like, dont let what your friends like control your life!
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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I honestly don't know what's wrong with me, and why guys won't ask me out. According to everyone I know, I'm "really really pretty", and I tend to have a lot in common with guys (I like video games, and boy-ish books).
=/ everyone I like ends up liking/dating someone I know, or a friend of mine.
I'm just confused now. I have absolutely no confidence in this matter now. (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. I'm the same way, i love video games and stuff like that, and i'm friends with ALL the guys. It gets so annoying!!!!! But sometimes you just have to take the iniciative and go out there and ask someone!! It may seem really scary, but you'll soon come to find that some guys are really shy, and they really like it when they get asked for once. If guys see you dating someone, then they'll know that your...like....you know, lol, into guys and they'll feel more compelled to ask you out.
Hope i helped!!
~melissa~
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Me and my bf have gone out for 6 yrs.
Well one day I started to get tired of seeing him 24/7
So I told him that and I think he thought we were breaking up.
I only wanted alittle alone time
A week later I saw him with another girl
and I asked him what was going on
but he told me we broke up so he moved on.
Now im really jealous and been trying to to tell my bf I never really wanted to breakup with him I just wanted alone time and he keeps saying thats considered breaking up.
Does anyone have any advice on what I could do? (link)
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He's not worth it honey. I've been in that kind of relationship before and its not going to work out. I understand that you have dated him for six years and you probably love him very much. But if he can get over you that fast, he's just not worth it. You can try to talk to him a little more and explain to him that you weren't trying to break up, you just wanted a bit of space. I dont know if he will listen, and if he doesn't, just move on. I know its hard to see him hanging all over some other girl, and I know it hurts, but if he's that stupid to let go that fast, maybe he's just not meant for you. Theres plenty of other guys out there! Good Luck!
Melissa + Jill
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ok we'll call this boy that is only a friend of mine Billy..my best friend Sally,my boyfriend Tod,and my bad friend Tiana. Well tod and i are close,and Sally's boyfriend is Billy. but today..mine and Billys conversation is --
Billy-hey i got to tell u something important
Me-ok..
Billy--i dont like Sally any more
Me-why? i think you should break up with her then
Billy-i need to tell you something else
Me-ok what..
Billy-i like you but you cant tell Sally anything i told you.
Me-umm i have to go by..
Well the thing is,the might not have been billy.it could have been my very worst friend,tiana. But im not sure. What should i do in this HUGE mess? (link)
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You should confront "billy" and ask him if it was him. If he says yes, then you at least know it was him. If he says no than just confront your friend "tiana" and ask her if she did this.
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Help! I like this boy a lot and he thought we broke up and so he asked this other girl out who he said was annoying and i think it was just to make me jealous but whatever. This other girl said stuff behind my back to my friend. She now wants to talk to me and i don't know what to do? I really like the guy but i don't know how. I have tried ignoring him and stuff but it just doesn't work. What to do????????
I rate high!!!!
~fellow advicenator (link)
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If it really bothers you, then you should talk to her. If she only wants to talk to you to be mean than just go back to annoying. Lol, even though i would have probably have punched her by now, but thats just how I am. Dont worry this stuff works out on its own.
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