Ok i know this is a strange question, but the opinion of others is always valued. There is this guy i like, and i think he likes me too, because everytime he walks by me he looks at me and when hes nearby me and talking to me, he'll look at me as if i was something he's never seen before. So my question is, the look men give women when its like they've never seen anything like that before, what is its deeper meaning behind "the stare"???? Thanx
Usually it means that they like you or want to get to know you. So you should talk to this guy
& hang out with him.. Then it will go on from there.
xo Erikanne ♥
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Ok so I love the advice you give that is why I'am asking you this....
ok well, I'am bysexual & I dont know how to tell my friends. I don't want them to look at me different I'm really scared!
Tell them thats all you can do, if there really your friend then they wouldn't look at you differently. If there really your friendthey will still love & respect you no matter what.
xo Erikanne ♥
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hey just recently a guy i REALLY like asked me to be his girlfriend ( feb 5). I said yes and its hard for me to believe him when he says he loves me. i mean the whole reason why is because last year, i had my first boyfriend and he cheated on me, lied to me, and harrassed me. so now its hard to even trust my current boyfriend. i mean he shows that he does too by:
-calling me every night
-saying he loves me everyday
-writes me a poem(that he cant find...haha)
-always gives me a kiss when he sees me (going to class, after, before, ect)
-says he can see us still together after high school is over (which is a while because we are freshmans)
and a lot more..but i dont know why i cant bring myself to believe him. how can i fix this problem? have you had it before?
Yes i have had this problem before. Your firt love takes time to get over but your boyfriend now seems really trustworthy, but honestly if you can't seem to belive him then honestly your not ready to say i love you. hope my advice worked.
xo Erikanne♥
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my ex boyfriend told some people i work with that i tried to give him head, whcih is NOT true. i started yelling at him about it thru and IM and he was just like "gosh ur always trying to find ways to talk to me, if u want to talk to me be nice don't be mean" and he signed off. I AM SO MAD bc i don't WANT to talk to him...I HATE HIM but i'm sooo mad about why he told people at work that and he supposedly "can't remember ever doing that" what can i say to him to get it thru his brain i don't want to talk to him but he needs to stop talking ABOUT me?
wow what a jerk! you should just ignore him, he wont say anything about you anymore if he knows it doesn't bother you, so just ignore him because as long as you know it's true nothing else matters.
xo Erikanne ♥
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hey stupidgirlxx told me to ask you -- she recommend you so maybe you can help me :)
Okay this might be kind of confusing but bear with me please. So at the end of summer last year, I met this guy, Joe, through my best friend, Liz. Joe dated one of Liz's good friends, Grace. They dated for about 2 & 1/2 years and then at the beginning of summer, they broke up. So now its September, and Joe with his friend come by Liz's house, and I'm there with her. So I meet Joe, I knew who he was and about him & Grace and I thought he was pretty cute. He thought I was really cute too. He liked me and all. I wasn't even THINKING about me and him together, the thought of US never came to mind. I felt like I had no chance. Grace (his ex) was unbelievably gorgeous and so much different from me.Well anyways, so we started hanging out. He'd come by more often and we were both very shy. Later I found out that one of the reasons he fell for me was because I was so quiet. But anyways, so we would hang out; play tennis and just hang out with friends. I also got drunk for the very first time with him -- and that's a very goodmemory. I remember how he was so worried about me geeting home and everything that day. Ahh memories. We went downtown by the lake and shopped and everything. Then one day, we were walking, just the two of us, and we kiss. Later on the walk home, he told me about how he wanted to kiss me sooner but that didn't work out cause it was never good timing with his friends and all. So yes, then the following week we would hang out and kiss :) and talked online. He asked me do I see him as a boyfriend and all that and talked about us dating. The next time we hung out, he asked me out. It was perfect. I never met a guy like him. Never dated ANYONE like that. Too perfect for words. It was awesome, the best time of my life. Everything was going great, I couldn't have been happier. He was a bad boy, ditching school, band with his friends, typical guy stuff. But I was always able to count on him. He always chose me over his friends, and even stopped drinking. We went to different schools, and then I started working with my dad, so things got harder. He had his friends drop him off whenever just so he can see me -- it was like a dream come true. My prince charming had come. But meanwhile, Grace (the ex) found out and went crazy. She hated me and my friend/her friend for letting it even happen. She had people watching me and threating me all the time on the interenet that they're going to kick my ass for dating Joe. But I didn't care. My friendshad my back. I remember when Joe was over and I wasn't supposed to have anyone over, and he was over and my dad came home, haha... he ran out the back door and jumped the gate and everything barefoot. Lol poor him left his shoes. He had written me a song and everything, we even wrote each other notes in school. Now back to the psycho ex-gf, well me and her were sort of friends, we just knew each other because of my best friend Liz. She would always follow me & Joe, (she had a car so was EVERYWHERE) and yeah. Then one day, me and joe sort of got into an argument. Me and my friend Liz and some of his friends were all walking around the nieghborhood onour way to chill at this one park. His ex would drive by and stop and talk to Joe's friends. We were with a bunch of friends all walking when these little 12=14 year old were with us and they were talking shit to joe about me and just because bitches and giving me and my friend attitude so I wasn't gonna deal with it and me and my friend Liz turned around and left. He didn't even bother to go after me or call. I regret doing that, I know he must have gotten mad, I remember when I hung up on him, that upset him also. but anyways, so the same day I call him. And I call again. And I call again. No answer. Same thing the following day, Saturday. Then Sunday I call all day. Finallly I try one last time on SUnday night and Grace picks up. And she said he's with her now and all those times he wasn't with me, he was with her. I dropped the phone. It was crazy, my friends wanted to go right over there and beat her up. But I thought about and decided just to forget it. Lateron, I signed online and he was on -- so I instant messaged him. And I yelled at him and everything and then signed off and cried. And cried. I thought I got over him, I was into another guy -- well then he chose another girl over me, and yeah. Then he came back and I rejected him and all that because I'm not gonna deal with someone liek that. SO I really don't even know what I'm asking. Him and Grace have been together ever since. I ran into both of them the other day at a store which was really awkward, he was with his friends in the store and I was with mine. Then they left the store and his girlfriend -- Grace -- and his sister come in. Then they leave and are waiting outside in the car for us. We goto our car and trhey pull up and then she says something and flicks us off and drives off. But anways, I just can't seem to get over him. Its crazy cause this all happened quite a while ago. Maybe its just because he was my first SERIOUS boyfriend? I have no idea what to do... and I really want to believe that one day WE WILLE get back together. I just hope and pray something along the way will happen and we will be together.Like today for example, I felt like breaking down and crying. I went with my friends downtown, on the train. And they were with their bf's and it reminded me how we used to be like that. Last time I took the train was with him. We went to musuems on Columbus Day. Memories :( It was just so heartbreaking. Do you think that we will get back together? People say "THINGS HAPPEN WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT!" and I wanna follow that, because well thats how I met him. I wasn't even looking for a boyfriend. ANd now every guy I look at or my friends want me to meet/date, I just can't. And it kills me because I want to be with him and no one elsre. DO you thinkin it's possible for us to get back together? Maybe later on in life? It was my mistake because I was always so shy and not really OUT with my feelings, and I regret not telling him how I feel, he always thought I didn't like him or anything. Although we dated for only about 2 months, the memrories and the times we had together even before we began officially "dating" ... they mean soo much. I just wish I had another chance. Do you think it's possible for us to ever get back together? Do you think he ever thinks about me the way I think about him? Is there ANY chance of us getting back together in the future?
ok well i know how you feel. I had my first true love a while ago we where dating for 11 months. & he cheated on me i forgave him because he was my first true love but he just kept on doing it, i finally said enough. Once a cheater always a cheater. So i know that it's really going to hurt you but date around you might find that right one that wont make you cry or break your heart. Don't even waste your time on a boy that make u cry. I don't think there is a chance, i think that because that girl grace seems to have a big power over him & you can do alot better.
xo erikanne
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Well, my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and we were in love and we still like eachother ALOT but he has another girlfriend and i like this guy (Adam) but i feel like i am cheating on Ryan(my ex) because i like Adam but i still spend alot of time with Ryan and hang out with him and we act like we're going out but he has a girlfriend i like this guy named Adam but i dont know i feel like i am cheating on Ryan what should i do even though we're not going out!! I rate high!
My advice is yo stop spending time with your ex. That is just going to make you feel more guilty plus he has a girls friend so top hanging on. You should really give this guy Adam a chance you should be able to move on just like your ex & you never know this could be something good.
xo Erikanne ♥
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How do I get over a guy that doesn't like me back. Everytime I see him in class; I just melt. I just begin to think about how perfect of a boyfriend he would be. I often find my mind just running off about him. My question is NOT how to get him to like me; Its how do I get over him?
Belevie me evyone has a point where they need advice about this =), so don't worry. What I think you should do is start seeing diffrent guys that would help alot you'll forget about him. Because while your wasting your time on him there is always someone out there hoping to be with you.
xoErikanne ♥
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so i had a bf and we were sposed to go out on vday to a really vancy place on vday. as you all know tomorrow is valentines day and he asked me when i could hanh out nd i said tomorrow i guess cause i havent seen him in a while. I didnt even notice it was valentines day tomorrow. I like him but i dont know if I want to go out with him cause Im keeping my options open wanting to meet new guys. But i cant help but like him.
What should I do tomorrow? should I show I like him or not?
Also he still wants to take me out for food this weekend but he says. "cause I wana get some grub."
What do you think i should do? and do you think he likes me or just wants to be friends?
I think that maybe you should go & see how he acts towards you. I'm thinking that he likes you but is to afraid to tell you & you feel the same way. Maybe you should just take a break from him & date other guys & see how it go from there. If it's meant to be it will find it's way bak.
xo Erikanne♥
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This guy that I used to want to date is showing some less than desirable qualities. Firstly, I found out he's a gay basher. He says that when queer eye for the straight guy comes on the television he wants to throw his boot through the screen. He's also sexist, and has said to me that men are smarter than woman, and that woman are stupid. He also said that anyone over 30 who isnt married must be gay, and that I'm a prude for saving myself for marriage. He's also made nasty comments about my weight, and I'm not fat, just average.The funny thing is he thinks he's hot but he's really not, he's about 20 pounds overweight and has an ugly hairstyle and outdated clothes. I would love to put him in his place one day but am too "nice". But it makes me mad when he constantly puts me and his other friends down. Should I say something to him?
OMG! You should deff. say something to that slef-centered sexist jerk! I don't know how you can put up with him. You should deff. put him in his place before he goes to far. & a guy that hurts your feelings is not worth it, you either A. confront him about it or B. stop hanging out with him or C. just put up w. the bull shit he is saying. My advice for you is deff. A.
xo Erikanne
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i'm 15 and a girl and i have a best friend that is 15 and yes a guy. we like each other more than best friends and we really want to go out like boyfriend and girlfriend. the thing is my parents are very strict portuguese parents. THEY DONT WANT ME DATING UNTIL I'M 50!! i even asked my mom why she wont let me date..i asked if she didnt trust me and she just says well i dont ant any boy to take advantage of you and she doesnt want me to get hurt..and i told her that i'm not stupid & i know the consequences of everything..and its soo unfair because his parents dont mind..and my mom knows him well because he used to be one of her students but my father doesnt really know him at all..how do i get my parents to allow me to have a boyfriend? any tips? thanks =]
--jess
wow that stinks! we'll you should tell them I'm old enough to make my own descions. & let them meet the kid that you like. Just keep on talking to them i'm sure it will work out hunn.
xo Erikanne
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Theres a new kid at my school. His name is sean. And hes really cute. I have yet to talk to him, but I just feel like its love at first sight. He's very short like me, punk style, like me, and hair down to his shoulders which I love on guys! The problem is, that he's a really bad kid and he smokes and alot of other girls like him. (preps and sluts)
I really think we would have alot in common though. I know I want to be with him and I was wondering if guys could tell me what they looks for/like in a girl and what girls do to impress guys.
♥ Thank you! (And by the way, it has been 5 months since i broke up with my really serious boyfriend and i think im ready to date someone again!)
We'll I think you should tell him before it's to late. You never know he could see something in you thats different than all the other girls like ( preps & sluts). & different is always better. So he's a bad kid...you can change that in him boyfriend or not if you like him you will always be there for him no matter what.
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14-f. Okay, well I have this problem.. I was dating this guy named Mark that lives about 15 minutes away from me.. who's 15. We were dating for a month & he broke up with me because we don't see each other that often. I've liked him for a few months & I still like him now. We still talk and he said that maybe we can start dating again once he gets his license (he's taking drivers ed)Well, the things is, I'm really worried that a year from now I won't have the same feelings for him. My other problem is, I've been best friends with this other guy named Ethan from the same town as Mark & well I've dated Ethan 2 times. I consider him my first true love. The only problem is.. he treats me differently while we're dating then when we're just friends.. like he finds these stupid reasons to fight with me all the time.. and well I think Ethan likes me again, and this whole time.. I've liked him & Mark. I've liked Mark for a few months.. and well I've liked Ethan for about 10 months. I really don't know what to do. I want to be with Ethan yet I don't want to get hurt, yet I want to be with Mark.. because I deffinetly want to be with him when he gets his license. It's really hard. Some of my friends don't like Ethan, yet some of my other friends don't like Mark either because well.. he takes dance class & likes to sing. That honestly doesn't bug me because he's the sweetest guy in the world, while Ethan just hurts me. I really don't know what to do. I'm stuck in the middle & I just need some help. Please help me & I'll rate you! I promise!!
ok this is really hard, but you should always chose the one that will never hurt lie & make you cry. So whatever one fights with you more is most likely not the one. Who cares what for friends think because you wanna make yourself happy not them. Maybe you should take some time off of both of them & have time for your self & just think. Or just think which one you know will treat you right & not hurt you.
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13/f i feel soo bad my bf whos 13 is gettin me all this stuff i found out bi my friend and i dont have any money to realy get him anything he asked me to mesure mr rist size and i was okay w/e i thought it was goin to be 4 some tackey bracelett but no he took my bff sarah with him to a place like tiffanys to buy me a real dimond bracelett and he got me a wicked lott of there stuff but i dont have anything for him and i cant even goto the store bc i got like 4 feet of snow so im like screwed what can i give him would burnin a cd work helpppp and fast thatx illl rate the highest
Yes you should burn him a cd of your favorite songs for him. You should also make him a card that say the things that you love about him. Yeah you will probably feel cheap but it's the thought that counts not how much money you put into it=). & im sure if he loves you w.e you get him he will be happy.
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