Question Posted Wednesday February 15 2006, 7:52 pm
my ex boyfriend told some people i work with that i tried to give him head, whcih is NOT true. i started yelling at him about it thru and IM and he was just like "gosh ur always trying to find ways to talk to me, if u want to talk to me be nice don't be mean" and he signed off. I AM SO MAD bc i don't WANT to talk to him...I HATE HIM but i'm sooo mad about why he told people at work that and he supposedly "can't remember ever doing that" what can i say to him to get it thru his brain i don't want to talk to him but he needs to stop talking ABOUT me?
sillyrob answered Wednesday February 15 2006, 9:15 pm: Ignore him. He's only doing it to get this reaction out of you. If you didn't give him head, then who cares if others think you did. [ sillyrob's advice column | Ask sillyrob A Question ]
Erikanne answered Wednesday February 15 2006, 8:48 pm: wow what a jerk! you should just ignore him, he wont say anything about you anymore if he knows it doesn't bother you, so just ignore him because as long as you know it's true nothing else matters.
DefinedEyes answered Wednesday February 15 2006, 8:21 pm: Aww babe, I'm sorry.
That must suck, boys are such idiots, they talk abunch of nonsense to make themselves look good.
Just dont make a big deal about it, beacuse it will just draw more attention to the situation & people will think you actually did. Just ignore him, and dont talk to him. He probably still talks about you, because deep down hes actually hurting, but hes trying to talk about you to make you seem like the bad person, which your not. Its him, and he knows it. Just act like it doesnt bother you, or let him know how you feel, but not in an angry way. Cry in front of him, or just let him know how much this hurts you. Eventually he will stop talking, once he sees that you dont care. [ DefinedEyes's advice column | Ask DefinedEyes A Question ]
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