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changeing best friend!
i've had a best friends named jill since i was four (13 now)and she is now 15 (2 years apart) and since i was 11 shes been changing! shes a diff. now and she acts diff.(she makes me wanna roll my eyes,which i never do!,only when im really upset) on the computer.but when im with her shes the same as shes always been and hasnt changed at all!when im with her and her friends she acts diff from both of the two! ugh i just hate how she got into saying "do these match?" and "im LIKE still here" she was never like that :(.i still wanna be her friend but how can i deal with the change?
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this is normal honey. as people get older they change. sometimes old friends can still be as close as they were always and sometimes you grow apart. just go with the flow for a little while and if it gets too unbearable talk to her about what she wants out of life and what you want. maybe then you can meet on common ground again.
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Sometimes you have to remember why you became friends with her in the first place to cope with your changing friend.She's older than you,and I guess its a time of her life where shes changing trying to find her self, or maybe shes going through something deeper you dont know about, but what I know for sure, everyone acts differently around their friends, and her being older than you adds to that. Like an older sister for example, she can be mean, but she really cares about you and will be there for u nomatter what, even though afterwaard she might say something to insult you or act like a snob. If you became friends with her for a good reason remember that. If not, take a break from her for a while or talk to her about her attitude.
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Well a big part of how she changed is her age, since she's older than you she had more friends that are changing her. Friends always change, for the good or for the bad.You should sit her down & tell her that you feel like she is changing on you.. it's the best way to make her understand.
xo Erikanne ♥
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