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so really like this guy [lets call him J]. but the thing is that i liked his best friend [T] and he hates me a lot [long story]
but i actually started liking J cos he always looked at me alot also smiling very nicly, often turning around when he sees me and things like that. but i kinda cant believe that he might actually like me because of the whole situation with T which makes me really unsure. also his friends often react when they see me. and J has another guy he likes to hang with [A] who points at me ALL the time when he sees me when he is hanging with J. but the thing is that when he's not with J he always smiles at me but when he's with him he points at me and looks kinda irritated or mad while J goes red or acts awkward or showes off. and now i'm a bit confused because i have no idea what's going on and if A maybe likes me. i like J but i also dont know if HE likes me because he also ignores me sometimes and often looks when i dont see it [my friends tell me lol] and i also cant believe that J MIGHT actually like me because T [his other best friend] hates me so much. and J also has these days when he ignores me alot. and sometimes when i walk by him theres just this tention between us but in a good way. and it feels like he's actually 'giving' it to me. for example yesterday he was walkin by me and half way i didnt feel anything, but then he saw me and as soon as he did i felt it again. its really freaky actually lol.
but i dno if he really likes me or if hes just making fun of me or something, because also his friends never added me back on facebook, and i tried talking to him on msn TWICE but he never answered [i wasnt sure if it's him or my msn, but i never had a problem with my msn].
and i cant deside between J and A because J is really this sexy kinda guy while A is really sweet and basicly does everything for J. i'm sure i like J more but i also sometimes get feelings for A because he's always acting so sweet.
sorry if this is so long but please help !!! thankss xxxxxx (link)
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hmm... first of all, i think you're way too obsessed. if you keep thinking if he likes you or not, you might end up hurting yourself emotionally... so be careful
and i don't think you should worry about the whole situation where you worry about whether you like J or A because nothing has even happened yet between you and either of them.
and just because they smile or treats you nice doesn't always mean that they like you, so try not to get hooked up too much.
just see how things go. the more you act natural, the quicker you can see results.
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So Ill try to make this as short as I can, but I've liked this guy name Jamie for a while. Like a year and a halff. He liked me back for a while also and we kind of hooked up and were supposed to go on a date. but ever since then it never went any further because he said he thought my "pussy smelt" but just because hes never done things like that with other girls before and he thought it was "weird" so he randomly started ignoring me even though he was always reallyyy nice. Well after a longg time and fights and ignoring etc. we started talking like normal againn, and he even started calling me alot and stuff. But then, randomly on the phone he's like " Oh, well I gtg, well not really but, I want to" so I said okayy? fine byee. After that we were talking a lott on msnn, and he was flirting with me and stuff and being really nice. And I told him I liked him and he said :O I thought you liked sam? (This other guy I liked). So I told him yeah but he keeps calling me and stuff and I liek guys that are hard to get (half as a joke half not)much after that and he stopped talking as much on msn. And when I saw him on the city bus he just smiled? when I said hi.When I asked him about it he said oh sorry I didnt mean to ignore you, I smiled? With my sleeve over my mouth. I dont know if he was joking or what? Do you have any advice on thiss? Or anything you think about it all would help, thanks :). (link)
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first.... are you the one that tried to get him to do those sexual stuff because you said he never did things like that.
if u did... i think that was kind of your fault because you shouldn't be taking it so fast like that.
and if he just smiles to you and stuff and doesn't try anything, maybe it means that he doesn't like you because from what i just read... i don't think he likes you as much as you like him.
a lot of guys flirt so i don't think you should get too excited because you might hurt yourself even more...
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ok well i really like this girl n like is their n e thing like sexually like not real far but like that i can do to please her? thanks (link)
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the question is, does she like you back.
you can just kiss.
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what would a good song be to show a person that you love them but not going out. and like that you always want to have them and stuff like that thanks (link)
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i'll be there for you- the rembrants
it's the main song for the show "friends".
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im in soo big of a pickle. ive been with my boyfriend for like 14 months. i love him alot and cant imagine being without him. were like peas and carrots ya kno but this is my first serious relationship [his second]. two weeks ago, i met this guy at school.. hes rlly sweet and funny and flirts with me sometimes and gives me butterflies every time he hugs me [which was 3 times today!] or smiles at me. im not sure if hes startin to like me or if thats just how he is. i dont know what to do. what if he does like me and asks me to hangout or go out or whatever? i dont wanna be like oh sry i have a boyfriend and ruin my chances. because i do like him. but at the same time i dont know what id do without my boyfriend. he just may be the one but i dont know since i havent dated a whole lot yanno? so its like i wanna give this other guy a chance without hurting my relationship now, even though i know that cant be done. if me and my boyfriend break up, we're done, he's said before he wouldnt take me back especially if its over another guy bc he doesnt wanna get hurt. and i understand that but at the same time its kinda not fair to me. i dont know, i guess im looking for something bc our relationship is kind of one-sided in the sense that i drive 13 miles like 2-3 a week to see him and drive us wherever we go [he has no car] and sometimes end up paying for the things we do bc "he has no money" even though he has a job. and if we dont do anything we just sit there at his house. and thats starting to get REALLY old REALLY fast. but even as im startin to like this new guy i cant imagine not having my boyfriend in my ife you know? ugh i dont know! any input? sorry for the length.
16/f 17/m (link)
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i think that you're thinking maybe your relationship's getting a lil old... after all, 14 months is a long time. so, i think you should have just like a day of fun with your boyfriend..... come on, you've been with him forever.. you can't possibly end it with a guy that you "just" met.
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15/f
Me and my boyfriend just started going out and he's great don't get me wrong there but its just that my parents are stricted and they don't let me go out and that's besides the point anyways everytime he asks me if we can hang out I've always been saying I don't know or I don't think so and he knows why but sometimes I feel like he's going to get tired of it eventually and ask to end it and I don't want to end it because I really do like him I've already tried talking to him about it so please don't say try talking to him all I want is some advice on how to make him understand that I can't go out all the time and to understand me. (link)
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i think you should tell your parents that you would like to have atleast just one day of a nice day with your bf. you deserve it. if you can't, then tell your boyfriend that you're really trying and that you love him. i'm not saying that you need to talk to him, i'm just saying that you should tell him something like that.
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I really like this guy and right now we are just texting each other, well I am going to watch him race saturday. I havent heard from him since monday. Should I be worried or not? I mean he could be busy working or just tired am I losing my mind? (link)
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just cuz he hasn't talked to you.... it's not really a big deal. it's not like you guys are going out or anything. maybe he's busy getting ready for the race or... w/e he does. don't worry about it. you're gonna see him on saturday so when you see him.. maybe give him a big hug or something?
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okay so i love attention. so is it weird that i want to be a slut? i mean, ive done kind of sluttish things before but not to get the reputation of being one but i want to? is that normal or totally strange? and if not then what can i do to get it? (15/f btw.) (link)
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nobody really WANTS to be a slut but they turn into it to get attention... so i guess you're in that kind of situation. it's not.... really normal nor strange.. but... you being 15.. you need to find another way to get attention.
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14/f
Right, I'm 14 and I've never snogged anyone. It might not sound that bad but most people about two years younger than me have snogged someone, and it's beginning to become a real problem.
I'm scared of getting into relationships with people because they'll have had experience and I worry that it will be awkward and they'll think I'm a bad kisser.
I don't like playing truth or dare and always try to get out of it because I might be dared to snog someone, or asked how far I've got. Most of my friends have gone further than snogging, and I'd feel really embarrassed if I had to admit the most I've ever done is kiss someone.
Is there anyway I can get over this and stop being so worried? And do you have any tips on snogging and how do it?
Sorry I said snog and snogging so much, I hate those words, but I wanted people to know what I meant, and not just think I meant a peck on the lips or something.
Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
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don't worry about it. keep yourself busy with other stuff.... w/e your interest is. get your mind off of relationships and maybe help a friend who has a problem about theirs. you're only 14 so it's not a big deal if you dunno all that stuff.
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this guy asked me togo see a movie and his like wayy older then me like aboout 3 years lets say and i dont if he means like a date or just to hnag out ??? cuz im 15 and his 18 so i dont he was all like so u wanna go to the movies and i dont if its date or not?? (link)
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if he asked you like "hey i was wondering if you wante to see a movie" then it's a date. if he said something like "hey are you free that day" or something like that but if he said it just in his casual..talking way then it's just a hang out.
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I really like this guy. He's my age and we're really good friends. Call it best friends if you want. We're both a little shy. I can't seem to say I like him and he can't either. Is there an easy way to tell him I like him without saying it to his face?
Note: Please don't tell me to just say it to his face. I don't have the guts. (link)
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maybe try the phone or the internet. but i suggest that you do it on a phone if you're atleast 80% sure they like you back. but doing it online isn't that best answer either. i'd say do it on the phone since you guys are good friends.
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I love my boyfriend. i would never in my life consider cheating on him. yet today there were these two guys flirting with my friend and me. they were funny and i liked hanging out with them, so i figured what's the harm. then my friend had to leave so it was just them and me. the flirting got worse. i didn't do anything to encourage them i don't think. i just liked hanging out with them. then i had to go home and one of them offered to walk me. i probably shouldn't have let him, but i did, then he had a long way to go home so i let him come in and rest for a little bit. my mom asked him to stay for dinner so he stayed a lot longer than i wanted him to. nothing happened, we just hung out. now i'm just not sure how to tell my boyfriend. i know i should tell him something, i'm just not sure how much to tell. (link)
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if it was a total stranger then i don't think it would get your bf to react as much as if the person was someone you knew. just tell him that nothing happened and atleast you'd tell him the truth. if he freaks out then maybe he's just not a good bf. you told him the truth and nothing happened, so, what's the deal to freak out about? he may get a little jealous or angry but as time passes, he'll get over it. just spend a fun time with him that would get you guys bonding.. go... bowling or something. good luck.
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ok so im 13 going into 8th grade & i've never had a boyfriend. im not ugly im acutally pretty but im just really tall. im 59 & i know if i was shorter i'd be able to get a boyfriend but now they're all short, & my uglier freinds even get boyfriends before me.. what should i do? (link)
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first of all, i think you should stop judging ppl of their beauty.
and i had a friend that was as tall as you and she got a bf when time came.
by the time you get to high school, you'll definately get a boyfriend and you're only in the 8th grade so don't worry. just enjoy the 8th grade first cuz it's the bomb xD
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school starts in two days and open house was today and i saw this guy and he is new. my dads the principle and his dad is accually the son of one of the teachers(hes new too)i accually would have his dad as a teacher but i was put in advanced classes. well anyway i saw him before that day cause his dad also coaches the boys soccer team and he plays and i play volleyball and he went through the gym during are practice.its really cool cause hes adopted and so am i. i think hes hawaiian!but hes really cute and he seems like a nice guy-not like the guys that think there the stuff or anything like that. im not shy but when it comes to boys i kinda get a lil shy.im not sure if i should make it known that i like him before school cause im afraid of how he will take it cause i really dont know him at all and he doesnt know me ethier.should i wait to get to know a lil more about him. i meen im afraid that girls will be all over him when school starts cause we have more girls then boys so cute guys are scarce.im afraid he will find someone he likes and i wont even have a chance!i just want to go with a new guy that doesnt know anything about me so i can kinda start over.thanx to anyone who answeres!! (link)
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i think you're going way too fast about liking him already. you like JUST met him. but that doesn't mean you can't like a person xD i think you should just start casually talking to him.. like.. "hey how do you like school so far" or something like that. be friendly... and show the positive side of yourself... maybe he'll like you back but you can't get your hopes up. even if he does find someone he likes, just be a good friend and you'll meet someone that's good for you whether it's him or somebody else. what goes around comes around.
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Okayyy so I think I have a problem.I seem to get upset over the little things, more so with my boyfriend.I guess I'm attached to him and I guess a bit selfish.I always want to talk to him and see what he's doing.It's awful.My bestfriend recently told me she saw my boyfriend and his friend tonight and bought them alco.. I was "okay" I had nothing to say to that.She asked me why I wasn't with him and I said I don't know.She was having her fun.It's just whatever.I really don't know why I'm acting this way though.It's really annoying.I don't want to keep ruining a good day by just getting upset over stupid things.Does anyone have any suggestions what shall I do...? (link)
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i had the same problem. i used to get stressed out with practically everything and this was just like a week ago. but then i told myself i should stop... so.. i started keeping myself busy like... playing sports, getting online.. watching tv.... lol it's more like having fun i guess xD after a while i stopped getting stressed out. so find your interest and keep yourself busy with it.
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Theres this guy i realllly like. None of my friends think he is good for me so i can't talk to them about it. i met him a few weeks ago and i think he has the best personality ever and hes super cute. Well he has girlfriend but he never mentions her in conversations i have with him. He came and saw me at work today and we sat out on the bench together then when i had to go back i stood up and hes like do i get a hug and i said of course he gave me a hug and squeezed me really tight.
I hate that he has a girlfriend he flirts with me and i like him alot. im trying to not let my feelings show alot but they problly are.
What do you guys think i should do? i don't want to stop talking to him, he's probly one of the coolest, down to earth guy i have ever met and i love being around him.
thanks. (link)
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i think you should give it more time. if you guys keep on talking and the guy start liking you, maybe he realizes that his gf doesn't have what you have.... but just cuz he doesn't talk about his gf in your conversations, that doesn't mean that he doesn't love her.. so... all i'm saying is, maybe give it some time and when you can't take it anymore.. maybe you should talk to him about it or decide to move on..
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Anyone have any tips on getting more ungrossed out with doing stuff with a guy that involves his penis? Cause its not like i dont want to do stuff with him, its just like..i dont like penises. i find them gross. so we'll dry hump and grab/touch each other but i want to do more but i dont like the thought of touching his bare penis. can someone tell me how to get over that? thanksss. ill rate high! (link)
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maybe you're just not ready yet. when you're in relationship, that doesn't mean that you have to have sex and give blowjobs all the time
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How do you "hit on" a guy? (link)
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being attractive looking tends to help a lot -..- but those kinds of guys that flirt for looks are just jackasses
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she cries and does things so sweet and fights to keep me but shes always so secretive.is she a true lover? (link)
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crying doesn't mean that she's a true lover. give it some time. maybe she's feeling something that she's just not ready to tell yet or something. you can't blame her for not being able to be true with somebody she loves because.... sometimes things just don't work that way.
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I really like this guy but he's so hung up on his ex-girlfriend. He has her on his top people on his myspace, he still text messages her, he's so nice to her and she treats him like shit that's why they broke up. Like if we talk shit to her he like apologies to her. He's like whipped by someone he's not even with they were only together for like 3 months. I like him a lot and he flirts with me but he's still hung up and I don't wanna be with someone who still talks to there ex girlfriend. What should I do? (link)
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well, since you guys aren't going out you can't really blame him for being so hung up. just tell him to move on and help him with it because the girl sounds like she definately doesn't care about him anymore. he might want another chance with her but that's when you gotta be there for him. tell him the truth: what you think about her, how you think what he's doing with his ex is a lil stupid. it's not so wrong to have their ex's on their top friends and texting them. if they broke up and became good friends, he's allowed. but i don't see how that's possible cuz you said she treats him like shit. so.. idk... maybe tell him how you feel about him and maybe if he likes you back he'll realize starting over is better than making over.
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