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18/M
Even though I didn't want her to and offered to marry her and pay for everything, my girlfriend went to a clinic today and took the abortion pill (RU-486). We are unofficially living in the same dorm room at college, and I am scared by what's going to happen now with the baby and her hormones and everything, esp. since we share the same living space. She won't tell me anything about what's going to happen now that she's taken the pill, or anything. How can I be the best boyfriend to her and not freak out over what's going to happen? Also, is it too late to keep on trying to talk her out of doing what she's either done or is about to do? (link)
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Well, my best advice that I can give you is to always listen to what she says, and always care. If you two get into a fight, you're gonna have to learn to agree with it as best as possible. Now, to help not to freak out..that is entirely up to you. And always remember to listen to her.
If you would like you can still try to talk to her ,if she doesnt respond, that's not your fault, you have tried all that you can do...
Oh, and to find more about abortion pills you can go to google and type in "abortion pill" and you can learn more info.
Hope I Helped....if you need anymore help.imma always here!
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I'm 16/f and I guess I'm just kind of confused about love. I learned in my psychology class that the psychological definition of love is passion+intimacy+commitment (passion meaning sexual attraction and romantic feelings, intimacy meaning being close and feeling close to someone, and commitment meaning wanting to be there forever and making that clear to the other person).
All of that said, I have a boyfriend who I have been with for two years. We've talked about love and about what we feel for each other. Neither one of us are completely in love with each other (because no matter how close we get, I'm still insecure and I still don't feel close and no matter how much he cares about me and wants to stay with me, he finds it hard to believe that we will last forever since we are only sixteen). Both of us want to be in love, but we just aren't. It's highly frustrating for me, because it always feels just out of my reach.
As for why I don't feel close, I think it's because I have been in love before - full, complete love. His name was Eric and he was my best friend. He didn't see me in a romantic way, though. So, I had to settle with hanging out with him alone all day, talking to him on the phone with him all night, and never actually dating him. This also was annoying - until he stopped being my best friend to go do drugs. Then what we had before started to seem like a dream come true. I now long for the days when I had someone who I truly felt close to.
I want that again, but I don't know how to go about feeling closer to my boyfriend. Also, I don't know how to make him feel committed when he thinks we are too young.
Thanks. =)
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Well, what you can do to fell closer to your boyfriend is to sit down with him.. and talk like every once in awhile and talk about your relationship..and stuff like that.
And to make him feel that you guys are actually committed you might have to wait awhile because that's what he believes and you can but it not likely to change his mind..Sorry
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do vaginas smell bad? (link)
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No, vagina's usual dont smell bad. If you wash down there, and do it correctly, it shouldnt.
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If some girl was forced to give a guy a blowjob from her school, and she has a boyfriend, she obviously thinks he will break up with her but she was forced, does that considered as cheating? (link)
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Well, I think of that person forcing them to give him a blowjob would be considered sexual harassment. So I would say to that person to go to the police. So I WOULDN'T consider it cheating, unless that person gave in to the guy asking her repeatedly.
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I know this is an odd question but it's genuine.. I wonder whether a woman can cum (obviously not with sperm or anything) TY (link)
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YES, they can!!! =]
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Hey, im 14/f
and there is this kid lets call him... Joe.
well like Joe is in almost all of my classes.. period 4,5,6,8 and 9.
And like I think he likes me because he is constantly flirting with me and always trying to be near me. Like for example in 9th period we sit at tables and my friend Sarah put her backpack in the seat next to me and then Joe threw her backpack in a different seat and took the one next to me. Like, Since he's always flirting with me I wanna flirt back but I don't know how. Like we have had some pretty funny times so sometimes he brings them up and I just laugh, cause i dont know what to do And then he stops talking to me.. Like i don't know what im supposed to say back so i just giggle. Also, he always makes fun of me and i don't know what to say when he does so once again i just giggle. And he knows i get mad when people kick my feet under the desks and hes always doing that and when he does i don't know what to do when he does it, should i kick back? So i just giggle again!! So yeah, what should i do or say when he's doing all of this? I don't want him to think i don't like him and im putting no effort into showing him i do. So yeah please help mee and give me some tipss=) thank you so much. (link)
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OK, you right about him liking and flirting with you. NOW, how you can flirt back. When he brings up the funny times, you can giggle AND THEN bring up another funny time that you have had together. When he makes fun of you, you can either giggle and tease him back or just tease him back. AND when he kicks your sit, I would kick him back and giggle lightly so the teacher doesn't hear you but he does.
Hope I helped!
♥DramaQueen63♥
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Not exactly advise, just a question (:
How do you know when your hymen breaks? I know it sounds silly, but I just don't know ! Is it something painful or just nothing at all?
Thanks so much all (: (link)
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Well, all that happens is that you usually start bleeding.
And it shouldn't hurt! =]]
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well theres this boy..
hes so popular and cute
btw: im in 7th grade[13] hes in eight[14?]
and well he never talked to me.
it doesnt suprise me cuz i havent had a boy notice me in a while. so why would the most popular boy notice?
well i went to my freinds house and he lives right down the street so...
we rode down there.
he was beign really nice.
and now in the hallways he says hi to me and stuff:)
and his friends are always askin if i like him or think hes hott. does that mean anything? (link)
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I think he likes you!! Because (like the other author noted) when he's friendsa are asking you if you like him that's a usual YES!!!!
Good luck!!!
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Alright, so i talk to this one kid in my last period class
And he goofs around wih me all the time like he tickles me, messes with my hair, takes my drink and hides it, you know stuff like that
but, sometimes he'll be like "i dont like you"
out of the blue
or he says im no very smart
so im wondering do you think he likes me or what (link)
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Well, I think that he likes you. Cause that is what happened to me. He was all like flirting with me one day and be againest me the next day. He wants to do it to get your attention. And he's got it!! So go for it!
Best wishes!!!!
♥ DramaQueen63 ♥
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my boyfriend and i had really bad sex about three days ago.
he says he doesn't care and that it's okay, but i can tell that he's a little dissapointed.
any ideas on what i can do to make things better? (link)
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OK< I googled "Sex Tips" and here is a website that you can go to. There are lots of differnet stuff you can do with plenty pages!
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/sex/hottest-sex-tips
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im 14/f ok
and my current bf is 14/m. ok so we have been going out for about 2 weeks now and so far i have seen him every day! i usually go out with guys from other schools so i don't have to see them every day bc that makes it mean more when you do see him. and its almost valentines day and he wants this shirt but to tell you the truth i could care less about what he wants! im not really in to him. hes not my type at all.. i don't think im over my ex Patrick ether! witch sucks even more. bc he was the first kiss first love and what not! it hurts not to be with Patrick. every time i am with andy i end up thinking about Patrick and it pretty much makes me cry! i can't be with andy any more bc im not over Patrick at all.. but if we break up then theres no friendship bc he isn't friends with any of his ex's witch sucks bc i want to be his friends but he hates them!ah:[ it makes me cry even though i don't even like him like that!
so how do i break up with him or should i give him a week or two? (link)
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If I were you, I would break up with him. Because if you wait 2 or 3 weeks, he will take it harder. But I have a question for oyu
Is PaTrick going out with anyone?
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ok so i have a boyfriend.. lol, and he's always calling me beautiful, and pretty, and gorgeous etc. but what can you call a guy other than hott and sexy??? im stuck, can anyone help?? (link)
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You can say, your so great, i love you, ur the cutest!, stuff like that!!!
Best of luck!
♥ DramaQueen63 ♥
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He has a girlfriend, but i really like him. And me and him talk a little bit. And at one point i thought he liked me, but then he dropped the sentence that he had a girlfriend to one of his friends. I was just wondering, (im not going to steal him from her. Im not that kinda girl) but i was wondering how do i get him to notice me? and i mean like really notice me? I know the flirting and crap. But i just want to know how i can get him to see me and not see me as invisable if you know what im saying. Thanks
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I used the same problem! But what I did was(i dont know if you consider this flirting) walk by him and laugh, go up to him adn say a commlament about him i.e. I like your shirt, whatever you want to say.
Best of Luck!!
♥ DramaQueen63 ♥
(ps- keep me updated!!)
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