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He has a girlfriend, but i really like him. And me and him talk a little bit. And at one point i thought he liked me, but then he dropped the sentence that he had a girlfriend to one of his friends. I was just wondering, (im not going to steal him from her. Im not that kinda girl) but i was wondering how do i get him to notice me? and i mean like really notice me? I know the flirting and crap. But i just want to know how i can get him to see me and not see me as invisable if you know what im saying. Thanks
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just be yourself. i know it sounds cliche, but it does work. don't over do it like with flirting and changing your whole self. he will eventually see the change and will change his feelings about you. your clothes can also make a differance. if you usually wear clothes that are baggy, you can wear clothes that hug your body a little more. i'm not talking about revealing clothes, but (i guess it's what people call these days) decent clothes.
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Talk to him! Make jokes with him! Share experiences with him!
Waiting for him to notice you won't get you anything. Step up and talk to the guy. Don't make it obvious that you like him, just make it obvious that you think he's cool and you want to get to know him.
All you can do is get to know him and be friends with him. Once you get to know each other better, and I mean REALLY know each other, you can both decide where your feelings lie: as friends, or more than friends.
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Be really friendly and positive. Get to know what he's into, and talk about it. Even though guys do not like to admit it, they like it when a girl talks about them, and not always herself. Laugh at his lame jokes, hehe and be nice to him. Don't be overly nice because then he'll see that you're just some friendly girl and you want to be more than that. Compliment him, get into the sports he likes, engage in good conversation over the sports that he likes and such. You want to impress him, you'll have to do a little research. It doesn't all come easy with men. Be pretty and be confident, try something new with your look. Wear your hair a different way so he notices and if he compliments you, then you know you did great. When a female looks the same everyday, it sort of bores them and their attention doesn't always follow you. I suggest new eye shadow or something with the eyes because it's mainly what gentlemen are attracted to.
I hope everything goes well for you.
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I used the same problem! But what I did was(i dont know if you consider this flirting) walk by him and laugh, go up to him adn say a commlament about him i.e. I like your shirt, whatever you want to say.
Best of Luck!!
♥ DramaQueen63 ♥
(ps- keep me updated!!)
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All I can tell you other than what you already know is to be yourself.
Of course, he would surely notice if you wore an outfit made of multi-colored blinking Christmas tree lights.
Romance questions aren't often my strong suit. :(
ygs-29/f
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