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Hi,
Well thers this guy that i like and i know that he likes me. I see him only im the summers b/c i go to Dominican Republic. This is my 3rd summer seein him. The past 2 i have told him that i have a boyfriend(it was a lie) but that didnt seem to stop him from kissing me and tellin me he loved me. Now this summer im here again but he has a girl and i fave a man bakk in Florida. What i want to do is play hard to get and tease him a bit, just to make him want me evenmore. Can you help me plz. Thanx

well mayb you should just play by the rules and wait!! but dont make it seem like ur there 4 just the rebound... bt stick with what you hav got and hope for the best!!!

hope this helped
4eva urz ashley!!

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I just got a new boyfriend and he is my guy friends best friend, what should i do if they find out i go out with their best friend?
~ Confused sexy chicka~

Dear Confused sexy chicka,
well as long as they are friends it shouldnt matter!! but if it comes down to them getting mad at eachother, and you can't make a descion on which you choose to keep happy then drop both of them... because if they arent mature enough to get along and drop it then they cant be worth your time!! and if that doesnt work just stay friends and only friends with both!!!

~hope this helped~
*ashley*

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I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks

that is a really coo idea you should tell our mom any aamount will help. im sure every1 down there would appreciate it more than you could ever imagine so send it because first you could be starten the new year off right! and doin somethin 2 help

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What do you if you have a crush on your really good friend's X.

~same name friend(Again)~

i kno i shouldnt say ask your friends permission but just ask her if she's gonna have a problem with it and if she'll still wanna b friends with u after it. then id go 4 it. if its her X im sure she doesnt hav feelings 4 him but if she does then wait a lil bit and try it.


hope this helped
~ash~

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What do you do if you have a crush on your friend's boyfriend and he was supposed to be yours in the first place? ( Neither one of us has seen him before,but we have good emotional relationship)

~disstressed sista~

well i dont think its worth loosin a friend ova a boy u havent seen. and even though you do have a good emotional relationship its still not enough 2 loose a friend. so i'd say just keep talkin 2 him and talk to your friend about it. just dont let ur friendship go to waste ova a boy.

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Okay, my friend and I (which of whom is a guy) got really close..because him and his girlfriend were arguing and fighting like crazy! And he'd talk to me ALL the time and ask how i felt about it, and what he should do. and he'd call me every night, and we'd talk for like an hour½-2 hours. He finally ended up breaking it off with his girlfriend. We've talked a little bit since then. Monday rolls along, and he doesn't call me...and hasn't called me since. So last night, i called him and mentioned how i hadn't heard from him in a while and his reply was "i've been busy" so i got off the phone and told him that i didn't want to interfere with his business. I used to really like this guy! ...and now i don't know what's going on! What should i do? advice would be awesome

let him kno you have feelings for him and was wondering why he stoped calling.....tell him you thought it ws really nice talking to him on the phone...then if he says it's another grl then say oh well you dont wanna to get in his way....but you wanted to let him kno if he free.


hope i helped
~ash~

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Ok I have a guy i like and who likes me or so my friend says. All 3 of us were in 3rd period and she sits nect to him and asked him if he liked me and he said yea sort of. then she asked him would you ever go out wit her he said i dont really know her. I am SoOo Shy and i dont know how to talk to him cause i dont know what to say to him and i guess hes shy too cause he doesnt really talk to anyone. So how do i start a conversation with him?! Like some tips!! HELP! I'LL RATE YOU HIGH!

Just go up to him and say hey, and just say like how are things goin, try to say somethings that let you know more about him. like what do you like to do for fun......even put a lil flirting in it.....let him kno he can be himslef around you and your a lil shy yourself.......ask him if he wants to walk to class with you or something....i'm shy too but this has worked on many guys in the past.... so just go for it he's probably more shy then you are just think of t that way.

hope i helped
~ash~

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hey i'm goin out with this boy named Orlando and we've been goin out for about 2 months and 2 weeks and i liked him alot for those 2 months but now im not sure if i do anymore...whenever we hang out its like we're friends, not more than that. I've had my friend Chris try to like tell him that i want to hold his hand and stuff and it still doesnt help. i'd get embarassed if i tried to talk to him so i'm not gonna try and talk to him. I kinda want to dump him because if we dont act like we're goin out and we just act like we're friends then i dont see a point in goin out...but i dont know how to tell him. i dont want every one to run up to me after i do it and say "omg you dumped him? why?" and "i cant believe you dumped him!!" and all that stuff...i'd feel totally bad. What should i do? dump him? and if i do dump him how should i say it?

i think if your not in to him anymore then let him down easy.....but still tell him exactly how you feel about the situation, and how you don't the real bf/gf relationship you only see the friendship.......but don't just say i dont wanna be with you.....and if ppl get in your face about it then just say it's between you and him and then tell them you had your reasons. and if he wants to tell them he will, but your not.

that should keep them away

hope it helps
~ash~

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What do you do if you have a crush on your church's piano player? (he is a little older me)

-struck by the music

well i would get to know him,i mean the side that he would show to his girlfriend. make sure he's not out of your range either. see for some1 like me my range is 14. then find out if he is looking for a girlfriend too! becuz if he's not then you'll make yourself look sorta bad. do some things around him so he notices you, then at the same time look to see if he's interested in you. and i've learned that if you look into his eyes while he's talking to you, check to see if his pupils get bigger. it's a natural thing if the person is into you then it will automatically do happen. but if it doesn't happen then maybe he's just not interested. and depending on who he is and how well you know eachother, could change his opinion of you, and you could be more apealing to him though he's older than you.

HOPE I HELPED

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~ash~

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Dear Ashley, i am an 8th grader do you think it is ok if i go out with a 6th grader ( he is so fine)

i think if you really like him go for it. if you like him, then don't worry about what other people will think of you. if you have something between you two, then don't let others opinions break that. go for it, hope it works out

~*!hope i helped!*~

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hi
i went out with guy like 2 months ago who i really really liked but then he dumped me and i found out that he had been 2 timing me but he just said he didnt and even if he did it wasnt like we were married or anything but iw as really hurt. then we became rfiends and he said he wanted to be really good friends but whenever i see him he just ignores me but i still really like him and i think he sought of still likes me but is trying not to show it. I would love it someone gave me some advice as this is really very important to me!
love stef
x x x

let him go. i dont think that you should have to deal with some1 who lied to you on more than 1 account. if he ignores you when he told you he wanted to be really good friends with you then he odviously isn't for. and since he lied to you about being your boyfriend then he just isn't for you.

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i have been with my boyfreind off and on kinda of for 8 months, i wanted to take a break becuase like i felt like he was holding me back from things i wanted to do, like he always wnated to knoe where i was or what i was doing and always aummesed things like he had no trust in me or sumthing. but during the break i tlaked to afew other guys and i felt likle happy talking to them and didnt wanan go back, but he keeps like sucking me backinto the relasitship bcuz he knows he kan, becuase i still care for him way to much and hes all in love with me and stuff and woukdnt never do ne thing againt me, i duno its jus hard, becuase im the one thats confused i could jus go right back into the relatsihip and b the sameold way but i think i want something new, hs the first guy ive ever relaly made out with kind of my first everything, so i odnt kno ne thing other then him so is kind of hard when alot of other guys want to like hang out or somethingand i want to but i cant knopwing i sitll have him, i duno im jus really confused !

well if your ready for something new, then let him go. even though he's the only thing you know, i doubt he's gonna be the only thing you know for the rest of your life. so you have to get out and experience new things. and dont fall for being suckered into a relationship. if you dont want to be in the relationship just tell him that it's over and your tired of your heart being broken.

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There is this guy that i like alot! And i've hooked up wit him before but we never went out! and one of mmy best friends i was hangin out wit her and i introduced her to him and when ever i was on the phone wwit her he would ask who it was and once he grabed the phone from me and told her that she has the biggest ass he has ever seen! and a couple days ago she said that they talk on the phone every nite and he was hangin out wit her one nite when her parents were gone and she claims thatthey didnt do anything and he claimed that they did stuff that i do not need to know about! this is really pissing me off and she knows how i feel bout him and a couple days ago she told me she liked him and he liked her and that i shouldnt be jealous if they go out becaz they go together and she made me feel bad and i waz pissed and now there're goin out and i exploded when i found out caz i just really really like this guy and now shes goin out wit him and im really mad at her wat should i do????

i think you should let both of them go. if your friend was your true friend then she wouldnt hurt you like that. and for her to do this to you over a boy, really means your friend and the guy aren't worth your time. if you still want to be friends with her then just tell her you dont apreciate the way she just ripped him away from you though you two weren't going out. and if she could have easily said no in order not to hurt you as her friend.

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My best friend goes out with this boy, She loves so much that no matter what he does she wont leave him. He could cheat on her, beat her, ANYTHiNG !! She wont leave him, But now shes confused, hes acting to diffrent he acts like shes the greatest thing in the world WHEN THERE ALONE ! But when hes with his friends, its diffent. Like if you see them in the hall alone he has this look that "wow i love her so much shes the greatest thing in the world,i dont know what i would do with out her" but when hes with friends its like "oh yeah , i "love her" no she just thinks that shes just another girlfriend" but everyone knows he really does love her. And now shes confused she loves him and she doesnt want to leave him, but she crys all the time other it, does she just stay with him and cry? Or cry because she lost him and its all her fault. i NEED TO HELP HER BEFORE SHE DOES SOMETHiNG STUPiD !!! HELP ME TO HELP HER !! GiVE ME ADViCE !!

i think you need to talk to the boyfriend and tell him how much she loves him. and when you tell him make sure he knows. then tell him that you have been watching him around his friends and the way he talks about her. the way he sounds as if he doesn't care.let him know, that now your friend thinks she's just another one of his grls. and if he really loves her then he wouldn't hav to put on the cool act around his friends. then i think you should tell your friend you talked to him for her. and tell your friend if she feels neglected, dont keep hurting herself emotionally over him.

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i love this guy so much hes so awsome and i luv him so much but weve already broken up once and now were togeather again and its kinda weird but i wanna go out with him he means the world to me and i dont know how to tell i love him withtout getting isshuy and mushy and gushy i luv hes my boo what should i do

well if you have feelings for him still, let him kno. just tell him you still want to be with him. tell him you love him alot and want him back. you dont have to make it isshuy or mushy. just say it in a calm relaxed tone. and even if you did get mushy i'm sure he wouldn't mind.

hope i helped
~ash~

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u already answerd one of my questions about wut i should do about this guy and u said to tell him that to tell him this is his last chance to win my heart and keep it. The thing is that if we've gone out like 5 times already how do i kno he's not gunna just do the same thing and then that's gunna hurt me more... i kno that he cares about me cuz he's tellin like every 1 to talk to me about him n so every1s tryin to get us back together but if hes all over other gurls that means he must not really like me or else he woulda thought about that before... he also tried to talk to my sister about it and now my sisters like "he loves u u need to go back out with him!" and all this stuff and i kno i cant really get mad at him cuz i held a guys hand while i was goin out with him... so should i tell him about that or not... wut should i do? seriously! thanx for the advice

well the one thing you need to have is trust. trust is important to a relationship. it seems you've lost his trust. but if you love him as much as you say you do have faith that he won't break your heart. since it's happened to you b4 all there is to do is to be prepared and ready for anything that comes your way in your relationship. u need to let him know that your willing to put the past behind you and forgive and forget if he's ready to do the same. but if he's not then let him go.

hope i helped
~ash~

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I broke up with my ex boyfriend because i had been hearing stuff like that he was all over other girls. But then when i broke up with him he cried infront of all of his friends and everything. I still love him a lot and want to be with him but we've gone out 5 times and i just dont know if this time he means it. He's also my best friend and he told me that he loved me and would do anything to get me back! So what should i do.. go back out with him, stay broken up or just take a break?

i think you should let him know your serious this time. that this is his last chance to win your heart and keep it. and you cant always believe what other people say. and amybe he means it if he cried infront of all of his friends. and since others grls would give a leg and you dont have to because you have him keep him. if you give him a chance for him to be away from you the more time you r give him to become interested in other girls. so just let him know you mean it.

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There is a boy I really like who shall remain nameless but he is in 8th grade and i am in 7th I only meet him once and we danced and i want him to go out with me or become good friends one of my friends knows him and siad she hook me up but should i even bother?

yes of course u shou;d go for him! talk to him first cuz the last thing u want to happen is for him to turn out a jerk. and as for ur friend....there has always been the " u got talk to him for me" deal. well thats all playe out so go for him and dont wait cuz he might get taken. and the more time u wait the more time he has to get interested in other grls.

hope i helped
~ash~

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