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Ok, well here is my story. Me and this guy I have known since 8th grade (10th grade now) went out for about a year. We have been "semi-dating" I guess you could say ever since we broke up, but the thing is that after we broke up we still had a relationship and I got pregnant. After he found out that I was pregnant we started to get really close again and it made me want to be with him. Both him and I know that the baby is his, there's no doubt about that. Well, today we were talking and he knows that I still would really like it if we made our dating official, like boyfriend girlfriend again. He knows that I want to be with him, and he said that we would be together. Well here is where the problem comes in, he doesn't want to make it official. To me if it isn't official then does that mean I can be with someone else? I am the type to get jealous and I think that unless we make it official I will continue to feel the way I do and its making me very depressed, what should I do? Would it be right if I just took charge and asked him out or should I just keep giving him hints that I want him to do it? HELP PLEASE
~*ConFuseD*~ (link)
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you r pregant you need to take charge ...or else after you have this baby he is just going to find someone other flussy and forget about you and his kid so dont let that happen be like i ddint climb on myself and get pregnant this is half your fault so whether u like it or not we need to be together..and if he starts to say but...be like and there is no buts about it and thats that
gurl take charge
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There is this guy I like and i dont know if he likes me. he says he likes talking to me most in school but yet since people are making fun of our friendship he dont want to talk to me in person. I really like him and I dont want to lose him. What do I do?? (link)
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i happen to know a lot about relationships... and i know for a fact its just a faze you will grow out of him and move on to soemone else... its just the circle of life...but for the meantime just flirt your ass off and see where that gets you a day where u 2 r alone and he says hi playfully say something like wheres my kiss and if he gives it to u on the cheek be like i meant this kiss...and give it to him no the lips
see what hapepens
make sure you do that will NOONE is around
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Okay I really like this guy. Well I have heard he liked me too but I don't know I am a freshman and he is a Jr. (same age as my older brother and they have conflicts) Well I want to see if he likes me but I am scared too. His cousin says he always talks about me and he is really sweet to me. He will come up and hug me and tell me that I am looking good and stuff like that. I want to ask him out but I am scared to. I guess I am afraid of rejection. Then one of my friends likes him too. and if she found out how I feel about him she would hate me... but he like hates her cuz she acts like a big ole' whore and stuff like that. So I am stuck... I also told his sister (which is my age) and when she found out that girl liked him too she was MAD cuz she HATES her. but she made me feel better when she told me he would never go after her. but I still don't know..
What should I do?
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i say take what you want... you like this guy then go after him cuz at the end you will see dat there is really no such thing as friend because TRUST me i know for a fact that if this so called friend of urs get a shot at this guy she is NOT going to even think about how that will make u feel...so dont kill urself ova what other people will feel. ..do what is best for you and you only...ok
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My very very good friends birthday is coming up. We just started being friends a month ago, when I met him & he's super cool. I've been thinking of getting him some presents, will you tell me if you think it's okay: Headphones [for his ipod because his are broken & they sound crappy] & the exorcist [original movie, he really wants to see it.] then i'm going to buy him a card & balloons, and also I wanted to make him a small cake. I'm really tight on money, so i was also wondering do you think he'd be okay w/ just me making him a cake and decorating it all pretty? instead of buying a cake? thanks so much. (link)
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i think u should just get him the headphones and the movie and byuy him a card and thats it.... the ballon and the cake is just 2 much...since u barely met him a month ago ok
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My ex boyfriend was cheating on me, so I kind of exposed the truth about him cheating on me to all my friends and now hes really mad at me. I feel bad that I dumped him and exposed his "secret" because the truth is, i still like him. But don't you think i have the right to be mad at him? Because he cheated on me, lied to me, called other girls behind my back, and blew me off in the hall last friday....
I'm so confused. Should I call him? (link)
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gurl you have all the right...he shouldnt be mad... since eh did cheat on you...he should feel stupid now cuz everyone knows what kind of guy he is...... if you want you could call him and be like you need to stop being mad at me and open your eyes and understand you did me wrong by cheating on me... now everyone knows the truth...you act liek they werent going to find out anyway..
and keep it going from there
he either feels guilty or mad because now probbaly no other gurls want to get with a playa
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i've known a guy for exactly 2 months now.
he's this gorgeous sex-god type guy, and he's the type that's just so cool. it's evident to me that he's never really had to work for a girl's affection before. anyway, i hear he has had a lot of girlfriends, but he's not a slut or player. whenever i see him i am intimidated, and our conversations seem a little bit strained because i never really say what's on my mind. although he does that raised eyebrow thing that guys do when they're attracted to you, and he treats me differently than i have seen him treating my friends or other girls. he always approaches me first, or only gives me a hug and not my friends, etc.. recently, i saw him again, and he gave me this hug where he wrapped his hands and arms so tightly on my waist. and he pressed me against him really tightly. the hug was pretty much a 5 second hug, which isn't a normal friendly greeting type hug. at one point i even tried to break away because i realized it surpassed the usual hug, but he didn't budge, so we held on a bit longer. that kind of hug is not a hug you give someone you're not attracted to. then after the hug he didn't really look at me, and said that he was feeling weird and that he would be right back, but then said something else i don't remember. i think the gist of it was that he had to go talk to other people and that he probably wouldn't come back or that i shouldn't wait for him, but i'd see him around. he didn't even stick around for a conversation or anything, and he never came back.
WHAT THE HELL. WAS HE JUST DRUNK AND MAYBE FORGOT OR WHAT??!? WHAT'S YOUR TAKE ON THIS? WHY ARE GUYS SO COMPLICATED (link)
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he probably got turned on by the hug and needed to get away
or he's justa complete idiot
but im sure that wasnt a good bye hug
stick around for him and see what happens..this time you go up to him and start a conversation
why dont you confront him and be like hey (he'll say hey back )
then you can be like why have you been pushing me aside since you gave me that hug??
and see what he says
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omg this is tottally bugging me! theres this one guy in my grade and i think he might like me but i have nooooo clue!!! how can you tell if a guy likes you??? thanks and ill rate lol
mimi (link)
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if he stares at you a lot....if when you look at him he smiles or looks nervous.... if when you go up to him and say hi he also smiles and stutters
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ok...well ive been talking to this kid and i have grown to like him in the past few days and he said hes starting to like me. the thing is today he told me that he wanted to be "together" because he just broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago that he had been going out with for 2 years and hes not really ready for a girlfriend boyfriend relationship at the moment. hes a really sweet kid. all i hear from everyone is how sweet he is. he swears on his life that im not just some sort of "rebound girl" and i want to believe it. im just wondering..by saying that we're together do you think that he just wants to keep his options open? or that he just doesn't want to rush into things? i really need an answer. thanks in advance. (link)
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i would think both ways.....you need to test him....for example you can make up a white lie and be like one of my gurls thinks your so cute, do you want to meet her
if he says yes then you know he aint looking for anything with you
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I really love this boy but he just told me he liked this other girl. Then he asked me if I still liked him. This girl is going to his next game and I was going with my guy friend. Seeing him and her is going to kill me. IDK what to do. I REALLLLLYYYY like him and I feel like crying right now. Please help me out and tell me what going on with him?!?! he liked me before I went on vacation and now its nothing?!?! help! (link)
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i hate when shyt like dat happenes i went through the same thing and it eneded up that the guy i was with broke up with me and got with this otther gurl and i had to wait like half a year until they broke up and then i was the one he turned to and we got back together
do wut ur heart tells u...if you want to go to that game them go ahead take one of your guys and flirt a little with him or any other guy...dont let the boy u love see it affects you or that gurl or else she will use dat agaisnt you and be all over him when she sees u
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okay well theres this guy i like alot and i mean alot !! he is like perfect.. anyways.. is four years alot or distance or no? i rate high !!! easy 5's guys! (link)
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it depends how old r you??.....because lets say ur 14 and he is 18 then he can take that as an advantage and try to use you since your young but if ur mature enough to know what you want and how far to take it then no its not a distance
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hey, its me again, um... thisis kinda comfusing but please help i rate well!!
there's this boy Dustin, who i've like for a lil over a year.. and ppl who are his friends and mine asked if i liked Dustin but then sed they dont know y he doesn't like me, then they sed that that he likes me and is going to ask me out.. then when he didn't ask me out yesterday, they sed that he likes me but he doesnt want me to know... and then they sed again they dont knwo why he doens't like me.
I'm sooo confused, how long should i wait before i move on? how shoudl i handle this? PLEASE help
JAckie (link)
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you should handle go up to him and be like you know im hearing a lot of things from different people some tell me u like me but others say you dont..so wassup do you or not
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I keep having this dream where I see my boyfriend and his friend at a bar...the whole night is very mysterious but fun. I keep having it and seing him giving me a box while at this bar. What does this mean? (link)
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dreams dont really mean anything there unused ideas..but it could mean proposal
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there's this boy i see around a lot, but i've never worked up the courage to talk to him, i'm not very good with strangers. he notices me too, and at once point early on he made an attempt to talk to me but i shot it down accidentally. i didn't realize it at the time but now i do, and i hate myself for it.
anyway, i really really like him, and i know some of his friends but not closely. how do i make it so i can meet this boy, and talk to him? (link)
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well this tiem make the attemp to talk to him urself but if you cant...then pull on off his friends a side and ask them do you know if _______, has a gurlfriend
if they say no he doesnt
then you can walk up to him on day and be like wassup you wanna chill one of these days
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how do you approach a stranger at a party? i'm a really shy 16 year old, and i can't approach strangers. what's an easy way to? what's your experience with approaching people? don't be scared and just do it? but do what? (link)
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i myself am very very shy too but at parties noone knows you expecially if you see someone you never seen before and you want to say hi or wut not he dont know your shy so u can always play it off like ur an outgoing gurl and walk up to him and be like wassup you stay around here??
and see where that takes you
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well my BF broke up with me 2 weeks ago, i am upset that he did that and i miss him a lot but i'm still going out and gettin on with things.
my question is, is it right for me to look for a new BF now, when i'm still thinking about my ex? or should i wait? (link)
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if you know there is no other chnace between u and ur ex only if your 100% sure that he left you for another gurl then hell yeah look for a new b/f or you could always have a guy on the side and if your ex ever comes back break up with the other guy
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I talked to this kid that goes to my school and like a year ago he IMed me and we talked and then i started to IM him back and stuff and one day he must have gotten annoyed by me and stopped talkin to me but all the time at school ever since he has always looked at me and stuff but has never came to me and talked to me at school or anything. Do you think he likes me?? or am i getting the wrong idea. hes 1 year older then me but i kinda think i like him now and i kinda think he likes me. like when i was in a school play i was sitting on the stairs getting ready to go onstage and in the corner of my eye i seen him looking at me. He doesnt make it seem obvious when im around him. (link)
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i think you should either go up to him and say hi and bring back the way you two used to talk orrrrrr you can IM him and be like hey you wanna chill this weekends...
if he says no then obviously he doesnt
if he says no im busy (but he tells you for another day ) then he does
if he says yes right away then you know he does
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Ok, there is this guy and everyday when I get on the bus he constantly stares at me. when I get to skool in the morings he stares at me! He used to like me I think. But I want to know if he still does. i think he has a girlfriend. Whats something I could just talk about right out of the blue and not sound stupied? (link)
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if he keeps straing obviously he likes you...just go up to him one day on the bus ride to skoo and be like i cant help but notice you stare at me a lot is there any particular reason why??
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Okay, i have a biggg problem...
I was friends with this girl and everything was going well but during the summer i was like ignoring everyone..and i ignored her.. and when we were friends she was talking on the phone with this kid ive been going out with on and off for 3 years. ( we werent going out then though )She didnt know about him , and she started talking to him acting like she knew him when she had only been talking to him for 3 days..and he called her and said listen i dont think we should talk i have a girlfriend...he really didnt.. he just liked me...and thats when i started ignoring her ( not because of the whole eddie thing but for other reasons ) and then we started going out again..and i love him soo much and im going to stay with him..but i dont know how to tell her that were going out...cause she`ll probably get mad and think HE was the reason i was ignoring her...i dont want her to feel like i took him from her which i didnt cuz ive been with him alot for 3 years .. but still i dont want to hurt her feelings.. and i cant hide it from her..how should i tell her that me and him are going out without hurting her feelings? (link)
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you should have him call your friend and tell her that you and him been going out for 3 years on and off and that he doesnt want anything to get between the relationship so for now the friendship has to be put aside
and how is it that that gurl was ur friend for how long?? and she didnt know who u been with for the past 3 years ..dats weird...if anything shes not a really close friend so you should even have to give her any explanations
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I have a crush on a boy. My friends tell me I should leave a rose in his locker. Do boys like stuff like that? (link)
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NO they dont..guys like when girls have the courage to step up to them face to face and tell them..
so get strength and go up to him and be like hey wassup my name is ________, i was wondering if your doing anything later aftre school or maybe over the weekend??
and see where that takes you
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How can you tell if its true love? I am having feelings for this one guy, they are more than my usual feelings for guys. I just want to know how it feels and what the "symptoms" are.
Thank you.
5's I guess (link)
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YOU KNOW ITS TRUE...if you can go without arguing and whn you do it tears you up to know you got him mad....or when everything reminds you of him...or when you wake up and go to sleep thinking about him...when the thought of being with a nother guy that isnt him scares you
but most of all you know its true if for any reason you guys break up and you're world falls apart...
one of my favorite quotes
"if its true he'll come back if he dont then it wasntand you have to let it go"
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