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ok...well ive been talking to this kid and i have grown to like him in the past few days and he said hes starting to like me. the thing is today he told me that he wanted to be "together" because he just broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago that he had been going out with for 2 years and hes not really ready for a girlfriend boyfriend relationship at the moment. hes a really sweet kid. all i hear from everyone is how sweet he is. he swears on his life that im not just some sort of "rebound girl" and i want to believe it. im just wondering..by saying that we're together do you think that he just wants to keep his options open? or that he just doesn't want to rush into things? i really need an answer. thanks in advance.
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hey i think that he means that he just wants u guys to be really close like talk about anythin and be like friends with benefits. you know what i mean?, i mean i donno thats what it sounds like since he says hes not ready for a boyfriend gurlfriend relationship, so see what he really wants and if you like him go for it. hope i helped.:) let me know!
LB
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To truely find out if something is going to work you have to give it a chance. He probably is feeling a little lonely, but if he says he likes you and if you like him then you should give it a chance. See how it works, although you should probably not get too attached at first just to see how things go for awhile. Once you trust him and find out whether it's going to work ease up in the relationship and get a little closer. =] Life is all about taking chances, but remember leave enough options open where YOU won't get hurt. =] Good Luck!
<3 -- *Ashley*
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i would think both ways.....you need to test him....for example you can make up a white lie and be like one of my gurls thinks your so cute, do you want to meet her
if he says yes then you know he aint looking for anything with you
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He is probably keeping options open. Or is confused.
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