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theres the boy hes in 12th grade. Im in 10th and i knew him since 9th grade. well this year he found out that i kind of liked him. and he didnt stop talking to me or acting different. untill he knew for sure i liked him. and now that ive had people go up to him and see if he has a girlfriend and stuff, when he sees me he smiles so big. and he used to hide it and now he lets it show. he always talks to me and messes with me and when i dont say hi to him he askes me why and stuff and he thinks sometimes im mad at him and when i tell him im not he goes oh good because i wouldn't want you mad at me. and he talks to me no matter whose around. and it doesnt matter who hes talking to he'll always say hi to me or something. with a smile. and i jus want to know if he likes me or what? and i had my friend that ask if he had a girlfriend and he said no then she asked him "well do u like amanda? would u ever go with her?" she said he just got the biggest smile on his face. he didnt say nothing but just smiled really big. would you people say he likes me? and what should i do?

thanks.

thats a big fat yes!!!

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well..i just went to the movies with alot of people last night (friday) and i was there with the person i like..and we were holding hands and stuff.. then right befor the movie ended..he made out with me..i didnt know what to do..is it true that it comes naturally to you? cause it didnt to me..i know i did terrible..and he is much more advanced than me..this was my first kiss..it was so embarrising cause i know i did a very bad job.. will i ever learn? and why didnt i know what to do right away like everyone told me i would? please help me..

well sometimes a first kiss is hard b/c your all like AHHHHHHHH WHAT DO I DO!! and AM I DOING THIS RIGHT!! and things like that.....well don't worrie it will come to you and you'll know how to do it......or read a cosmo magazine......lol.....but eventally it will come to you........hoped i help
~DarKAngel

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hey, i have this friend who really likes me but i don't want to tell him that i don't like him and hurt his feelings b/c i don't like hurting someones feelings, how can i break it to him???

this is what you should do, you should tell him that you don't like him in a note or something, or you can ask one of your friends to but if he askes y just tell him y you don't like him, thats if you have a reason

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I am havin soo sooo many problems! I need so much help!

1. My dad is sexually horassin me and Im affraid to tell my mom bc she will get a divorce and well have no money!!

2. I am havin so many problems with movin I dont want to and we relocate like 5 times a year and none or our family is in the military!!

3. My mom is a major bitch!!!!

4. My hole family and supposed to be friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wanna kill my self but Im afraid Ill go to heell stupid huh

Plz plz plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

okay, this is how most familys are well not there father sexualy abusing you, you have to go talk to a counciler or something about this, they are the only people you can trust right about now, you need to go to someone to get help, you need to get out of your house and live with one of your relivies or something, the reason i know this is b/c i was in the same situation as you were and now i have a better life and i live with my grandma, trust me go talk to someone, oh and don't kill yourself its not worth it

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I gave up on love awhile ago..even though I don't want to, it just happened. Most of the guys I've dated were jerks. I don't trust guys and I resent all of my ex's and I can't help it. I haven't met a single guy in my school or area that was decent and I'm really starting to hate men. I'm not going to like females but I don't understand why men are such jerks. Someone help?

okay thats how men are, they will always be jerks, so for now i think you should lay low for awhile and stay single as long as you can and then when you find Mr. right you can go out with him and then if it dosn't work out just dump him first b4 he can hurt you

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I really like this guy,

but he likes my friend... i told him like 100 times i liked him but he dont care.. he just keeps on focusing on my friend you see..

he wont even spend time with me like hang out and get 2 know each other more.. than how he started liking my friend in the first place.. what do i do! i like him so much! i cant stop liking him or thinking about him

why don't you try talking to ur friend and tell her that u like him and you could say if your really my friend you will say something for him to be off of her

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Ok i dont no what to do i have this guy friend that has been my friend for over 2 years and i really like him alot more then just a friend but i no if i ever told him i like dhim then just a friend he would freak out and i dunno what he would do but i still want our friendship to be there and i feel if i tell him that i like him he wont talk to me or something

if he truley ur friend you can tell him anything and maybe he would say that he likes u more than a friend all you have to do is talk to him about it

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Ok.. I'm 18/f and my b/f of 2 and a half years moved to Georgia 5 weeks ago. He said he was doing it to ''grow up'' and to make sure his feelings for me were real. Well, he tells me he still loves me and wants to be with me, but when I try to get him to come back home..he won't. Do you think it's cause he is testing me, or because he wants me to leave him alone? Thanks!!

i think he's trying to see if he can with stand being with out you for awhile but once he returns he will never leave your side and always be there for you and that my friend is what he is trying to do

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This is kinda complicated. I have known this one guy since like 1st grade and in like 5th I switched schools. Now im in 8th and the guy is at my school he's new and I like him again this year but I don't know if he likes me and I can't even get up the nerve to talk to him. I don't know what to say. He's always around his jock friends and I feel like if I say somethin to him around his friends I'll just look like an idiot plz help me thanx bye!

this is what you should do you should stay around where he is then once he leave his group of friends you should just go up and be like hi how are you and just strike up a conversation

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Well i was at my friends house and my crush was there and we were playin this game "base or building" base means if someone says a guy u have to say how far u would go w/ him ( 1st base - hug 2nd - kiss 3rd - make-out home - well u kno ) and building means someone picks 2 ppl and u say who u would rather push off a building. well i picked base and someone said my crush ( adam ) well he doens't kno i lyke him so i didn't want to say 3rd cause than maybe he wouldn't lyke me so i said 2nd ( but i really wish i would of said 3rd ) than the next time it was my turn they said my ex-b/f and i said almost to 3rd now i wish i could of said 2nd cause all my friends r teasing me saying i still lyke my ex and i don't!!! wut should i do PLEZ HELP ME!!!!

signed, I don't kno wut to do!!

(p.s. I RATE VERY HIGH)

you should just ignor them but you can also go up to (adam) and say that you like him and then maybe he'll ask you out and then you can prove your friends wrong.....lol

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Hey im bisexual and me and my girl have been together for a year as of Aug 15th. Well she is REALLY good friends with my guy cousin Micheal. They went to middle school together and crap. Well she says shes in love with me..and i love her to death but theres one problem. My cousin likes her and she likes him. And it kinda hurts me because Im scared that one day im gonna loose her over him. I really love her. But i dont know what to do. I cry every night because it hurts to see him doing this to me. They flirt like crazy. And when she gets offline she writes him this long ass paragraph on how she loves him and shell miss him..bla bla but when she says bye to me all she says is i love you bye. Is it right? What do i do? PLEASE help me..
Ash

okay i'm a bisexual here to so, this is what you should do, you should go talk to your girl and tell her how you feel about her and ur cuz flirting all the time and tell her that you don't want to lose her just b/c she thinks she's in love with your cuz, just go to her house or call her and say how you feel then she will understand

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Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok?

thats perfectly, i mean to tell you tell you the truth i'm interested in girls to but i'm also interested in guys to so i'm Bi sexual but if youi want to tell someone about it just be like hey do you have a problem if someone is a lesbain, a bisexual ,or gay and if they don't mind someone being any of these things you should tell them, thats how i broke it to all my friends

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hi um i went on a cruise this summer and bein that i live in virginia there was gonna be people from all ova the united states there and alot of boyz tried to get wit me but i liked this one boy.then on the last day of the cruise i had my first kiss with him we were makin out the whole night.then when i got off the boat i planned on goin back to my regular life cause he lives in florida and i wont be able to see him again but i cant get another boyfriend. i mean yea alot of boyz asked me out but i keep turnin them down the boy i longed 4 b4 the cruise asked me out and i turned him down whats wrong with me

im 14 and a female

okay you feel the need not to have anyone but him but when the opertunity came you didn't want him b/c he left you 2 days b4 and u felt kinda mad so you said no, your just confused by emotions

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